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Is calling out because of an emergency a good reason to terminate me?

Q.   this question i have has to do with work, i was put on a final write up because of my attendance so one of the managers from my job put me on the final write up and told me if i call out one more time im terminated so i ask her what if i have an ...

A.   28 May 2009: HI, Most companies have an "at will" employment policy that states that they can fire you at will. Which basically means they can fire you at their discretion. They don't even need a reason technically. But unfortunately you gave them some rea... (read in full...)

Want to be with my guy but he doesn't understand how torn I am about my dog

Q.   I am torn up about my situation. My boyfriend of 3 years who I love has emigrated (12 months now) and I am planning to follow but I have a major hurdle - my dog. He is 6 years old and of course as all dog-lovers will know they are like children to ...

A.   25 May 2009: Hi, This is a good question. People are always trying to find information about traveling with their pets. I don't have a dog, but I have read some articles about traveling with pets on www.frommers.com. They specialize in budget travel w... (read in full...)

Is there a way to stop having sex dreams?

Q.   i'm a 15 years old and sometimes i have sex dreams.. i guess its meant to be natural but the problem is a while ago i went on holiday with my family and had to share the bed with my mum. The next day my mum said that i was moving a lot when i was ...

A.   23 May 2009: HI, Embarrassing--Yes. Stop sharing a bed with your mum and enjoy them while you can. Its natural and most of all fun! ... (read in full...)

What does sex feel like? I was born with no clitorus!

Q.   okay, so the last thread totally didn't work because i did it wrong so here I’ll explain everything. i have NEVER had ANY feeling at all down there, ever, like since birth, basically, i don't have a clit. got no gspot, nothing. I’m gonna go to...

A.   23 May 2009: HI, Just because you don't have a clitorus (I can't spell it either, and don't care) doesn't mean you don't have a g-spot. Have you been diagnosed by a doctor? Oh, I see, you are going to a dr. Why don't you just wait until you see the Dr. ... (read in full...)

Self esteem issues

Q.   hello . i am a 14 year old girl. i currently live with many issues. i have very low self esteem although im told im not ugly. im told im too skinny i weigh 100 lb. i have scoliosis and wear a brace but only to sleep. i think i have hyperhidrosis ...

A.   17 May 2009: HI, 1st. Your weight isn't an issue. You are built that way, and being thin is a good thing to be. Don't worry about this, no matter what they say. 2nd. Talk to you dr. about the excess sweating there may be some thing they can do about that. ... (read in full...)

Problem prone life. What shall I do?

Q.   I feel really down all th time due to many things. i flucuate with my weight and either am happy coz i get to eat what i want but hate it coz i feel fat or am on a scrict diet where iam losing weight but am unhappy because im not eating what i want. ...

A.   16 May 2009: Hi, SammyStar is right. If you are sad, maybe you should go see your doctor, or try some other holistic methods. Work on the things you can control. Your eating issues-find a diet that works for you; your boyfriend-dump him if you aren't ha... (read in full...)

I'm looking for a nice job for my mother who doesn't have a GRE, any ideas?

Q.   Hi everyone, my mom is 48 years old, and works as a home attendant. She hates her job with a passion, and wants to leave but does not know where to go. My father and I are of no help. The problem is she does not have a high school diploma, she ...

A.   9 May 2009: Hi, There must be other talents your mother has; organizational skills, is she good on the phone, or something of that sort? Is she bilingual? Maybe she could offer some kind of translation service or something. I wouldn't let not having a... (read in full...)

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