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Does an age difference cause arguments?

Q.   My last two girlfriends were both 18 when we started going out; I was 27. Why do I seem to always want to go for younger women, around that age? Does age difference cause arguments as well?...

A.   28 January 2008: I think there's no real explantion for why you always go for younger women around this age apart the fact that you obviouly like younger women and there's certainly nothing wrong with that. Age difference could cause slight arguements due to you b... (read in full...)

Follow the path I'm on, or change routes?

Q.   I have been in an "exclusive" relationship with a man 18 years older than myself for 3 years. Our age difference has never been an issue for me. He is very sweet and attentive when we are together. Sex is amazing. The problem is that he was ...

A.   26 January 2008: If you don't feel right with your current boyfriend then dump him. This other boy you said you quite liked don't rush into dating but maybe hang out more and more and then he won't seem as immature at the moment he probably does because you were ... (read in full...)

Should I run away?

Q.   I'm a girl and I'm 13 years old. I've been going through depression and a hard time in life. I'm really shy at school, but I've been like that like my whole life. But ever since grade 7 started I've been really sad and lonely. I think all of my ...

A.   26 January 2008: Running away is not the answer, you should talk to parents and tell them and then maybe you could start in a new school and although you said your shy it would be better for you especially if your thinking of running away.... (read in full...)

Girls that like me I don't want and ones that I do just want to be friends...what should I do??

Q.   I'm 15 and i've yet to have a girlfriend.My friend told me its because i aim to high.But just can't see myself dating someone i don't really like. People consider me good looking and girls that i'm not interested in are into me then i meet a girl t...

A.   26 January 2008: Everyone you want or don't want to go out with is going to have something that you probably dissagree with but don't let one thing pull you away. Don't rush things if theres some you like just get closer slowly.... (read in full...)

We started dating and now he is acting weird...what can I do to keep him??

Q.   I met this guy in college. One day he asked me for a walk and he showed me around the campus and then we kissed. After that we started dating but he started to act realy weird. He doesn't call me and he doesnt want anyone to know about us and he s...

A.   26 January 2008: My advice is find someone else who wants to be with you not someone who was bored and saw a pretty girl and wanted to makeout. This boy has probably had many one nighters with girls so dont take it personally, just dump him first and then he'll be... (read in full...)

I like this shy guy and he knows I like him too but he's still in love with his ex!

Q.   He still loves his ex (more like he feels 'lonely and emo' after the breakup). His ex is in the same class as him, so they hang out a lot and they're still best friends and all even before they were together. I chat and IM him a lot. I made the ...

A.   26 January 2008: You should try asking him out somewhere like to the cinema or soemwhere like that and then gradually he'll want to spend more time with you. About his ex the advice I'd give on that is for the time being forget about her. If he's aware that you... (read in full...)

Why won't he touch me? Am I being selfish?

Q.   The trouble is im in a long distance relationship and only get to see my BF for about 4 days a month or even 2 months. So when i'm home i cant keep my hands off him i want to kiss him and hold him and be intimate with tell him how much i miss him ...

A.   26 January 2008: Your definatly not being selfish. I personally prefer long term realtionships because it feels more special when you see your gf/bf, but if your bf dosen't (as you put it) touch you, he's probably feeling a little shy. If you want him to touch yo... (read in full...)

I feel she only needs me as a dad for the kids now, and I'm doubtful of her love. Should I give up so easily?

Q.   Hey guys. My problem is I don't think my fiannce loves me anymore, we have been having problems since before christmas and it just seems like we are going round in circles. She used to tell me everthing any problems she had. I love her so much...

A.   26 January 2008: I think you should really try talking to her. If you've tryed and she dosen't want to know then give up on her. I'm sure she loves you just as much as you do, but as a couple you've got to express your feelings to eachother.... (read in full...)

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