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I'm beginning to lose the urge to want to be intimate with my boyfriend of 7 years, and I find myself attracted to a young lady in the net! What to do?

Q.   I have a boyfriend and we've been living together for the past 7 years. i love him, and am very used to have him in my life, but i'm beginning to lose the urge to want to get intimate with him. we're very busy with our work...sometimes we don't even ...

A.   27 April 2008: You didn't ask this question, but I'll answer it nonetheless. You should first try to fix your relationship with your boyfriend. You are falling out of intimacy because you don't have/make the time to be intimate. Relationships take time and ... (read in full...)

Not sure what to do... my husband had a 1 year affair.

Q.   I don't know what to do..my husband had a year long affair and a close connection with the other woman. I found out through his phone - lots of text messages and he confessed. He immediately stopped all contact with her and is extremely remorseful. ...

A.   26 April 2008: Two words... Marriage Counseling. You will not get the right answer to something like this on a message board. Its just too complicated and there's not enough information or two way communication. Your husband cheated for a reason. That re... (read in full...)

He's giving me mixed messages-Should I leave him alone or am I overreacting?

Q.   I met this really nice guy at a company party 2 1/2 months ago. We got along very good, and things seemed nice. We went on our first date to a nice restaurant, and after went back to his apartment and ended up having sex. Since then, we have been ...

A.   19 April 2008: As a guy, I can honestly say - If he was just after sex, he would see you again for sex. If that is what happened the 4 times you have met over the past 2 months, then that might be what is going on. But, 4 times over 2 months is still every 2 ... (read in full...)

I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm terrified!

Q.   So I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm terrified. I do love my fiance but I'm not passionately madly in love with him. He is a wonderful man and I think I would regret it if I left him. Can love build? Should I really try and make this work or ...

A.   19 April 2008: Bottom line - talk to your fiance - in love, and in honesty. NOTE - do it in love to avoid damaging feelings. It seems there is too much missing from your information to give solid advice. You say you are in love with him, but not passionately... (read in full...)

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