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How to tell him that I want to wait without him breaking up with me?...

Q.   I'm dating a guy who's 8 years older than me and I'm 17. He kind of freaks me out a little, because everytime we talk on the phone or in person it always goes to getting in bed. I really don't feel comfortable doing that so soon, but i seem really ...

A.   2 April 2008: Every time he brings up the 'having sex' thing, tell him that you're saving yourself for marriage or something similar (you can always change your mind later if you like :p). If he truly loves and respects you as a person, he will be willing to ... (read in full...)

I broke up with my ex but would like to remain friends. How long should I wait to contact him after splitting?

Q.   Hi, I broke up with my boyfriend through SMS some time ago (the reason I gave was that we were both too busy to have a relationship, it had become almost impossible to chat with him even through phone or meet up due to his busy schedule) and he...

A.   2 April 2008: Hi, I don't have his mailing address or even email so it's impossible to send him a letter. Most of our interaction was either face-to-face or via the phone. I thought long and hard about it and came to the conclusion that I do not need a frien... (read in full...)

Does he still love his ex? He keeps comparing me to her, what do you think?

Q.   I'm so heartbroken right now. I love my boyfriend so much and i know he loves me.. but why does he love me? He just brought up his ex and he always gets so mad at her and i asked him if he got mad at her because he hated her for hurting him or i...

A.   2 April 2008: Wow, your guy sounds exactly like my ex when we were still together... we broke up due to some other issues though. Up to now, I still don't know whether he loved me because I made him feel loved or whether he was really attracted to me, but what... (read in full...)

How should I break up with this guy? He keeps cancelling dates to see me!

Q.   Hi, I'm was in a relationship with a guy but lately, we haven't been seeing each other. When I ask him out he agrees readily, but in the end he always cancels for some reason or other and he will contact me to apologize and reschedule the meeting. ...

A.   31 March 2008: Hi everyone, I tried calling him but he was busy and said he would call me in about half and hour. He only returned my call after a few hours and by that time, I was already busy with something else and couldn't pick up his call so I messaged hi... (read in full...)

How should I break up with this guy? He keeps cancelling dates to see me!

Q.   Hi, I'm was in a relationship with a guy but lately, we haven't been seeing each other. When I ask him out he agrees readily, but in the end he always cancels for some reason or other and he will contact me to apologize and reschedule the meeting. ...

A.   28 March 2008: Hi, Thanks for all the answers, really helped me to gain an insight into the situation. We still haven't contacted each other and I kind of realised that the relationship is over on my side when another guy asked me whether I had a boyfriend ... (read in full...)

How should I break up with this guy? He keeps cancelling dates to see me!

Q.   Hi, I'm was in a relationship with a guy but lately, we haven't been seeing each other. When I ask him out he agrees readily, but in the end he always cancels for some reason or other and he will contact me to apologize and reschedule the meeting. ...

A.   28 March 2008: Hi, Thanks for all the answers, really helped me to gain an insight into the situation. We still haven't contacted each other and I kind of realised that the relationship is over on my side when another guy asked me whether I had a boyfriend ... (read in full...)

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