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He is separated yet still married, what should I do?

Q.   I met a man recently who is 14 years older than me.He is married,but has been separated from his wife for two years.He also has two children.He told me that he is still married because he's worried about upsetting his children if he gets ...

A.   1 March 2009: First he is showing no responsibilty by not going through with a divorce and seeing someone else. Dont get your hopes up. If he gets divorced then it may work,but as I see it hes just fishing. Sorry to be so honest but "beenthere" If he really cares ... (read in full...)

I'd like to have sex with this lovely older woman..any advice?

Q.   My long time friend is getting married and asked me to be the best man in his wedding. He will be marrying in a few months after he graduates from university. He and I have been friends for a long time and have been attending the same university and ...

A.   1 March 2009: Yes you have nothing to lose, but be careful, she is newly divorced and maybe likes the attention you give her and also make her feel young. But dont give up hope just dont be to forward, have fun with here, go places older women like to take it ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend split with me but won't let me move on either, what do I do?

Q.   Girlfriend split with me but wont let me go. She said she couldn’t be with me at the moment but gave no reason why. We had been going out together for over a year, everything seemed good, and I was heartbroke as I thought we had a very strong re...

A.   1 March 2009: Well there right, move on, it is hard to do after a year but in a way she may be a bit jelouse-or controling also. She probably does love you in her heart and just wants to see what else is out there, not knowing your age I dont know. But start ... (read in full...)

Unprotected sex and the pill

Q.   My boyfriend and I have always been very (perhaps obsessively) worried and careful about contreception. However, recently, I started taking the pill, so we 'relaxed' a little the other night. I have never missed one, always taken it properly and ...

A.   1 March 2009: First you should ask your doctor where you got the pill, second-sometimes the pill changes your period and third--believe me its a fact it only takes once to get pregnant! That is a question for your doctor,he will answer it..nothing is a 100%!... (read in full...)

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