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Archived questions from: 8 August, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I blurted out I LOVE YOU to my married boyfriend. Why does he still want to be with me?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

8 August 2017 (F) age 41-50 - I told my married boyfriend of 3.5 years that I LOVE HIM yesterday. It just came out. I did not mean to say it but I did. He was asking me why do I stay with a guy like him? He called himself average, boring, not so attractive yet said I am beautiful and interesting and can ... (149 words)

My boyfriend has his exes as friends on facebook.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2690 days ago

8 August 2017 (?) age 51-59 - Is it okay for your partner to have exes on Facebook? I have an issue with my boyfriend having a woman he and his wife had a threesome with a few years ago (they are no longer together) being on his friend list. He also has an ex who had an abortion with his child a few years ... (74 words)

I've set boundaries on how much "help" I give my boyfriend and he doesn't like it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

8 August 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I a hypocrite? Am I mean? I know for a fact I'm confused. My bf and I were recently laid off and have 60 days to find a new job. I've already updated my res and applied to 6 places. I have even looked for jobs my bf could apply to and have sent him at least 20 spots. ... (383 words)

Is it strange to be 'vetted' by your partners family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2690 days ago

8 August 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Does anyone else think this is a little odd, basically I am in a new relationship with a lovely woman and she has told me that a certain person that she knows (I don't know if it is a family member or friend) has 'vetted' me to make sure I am who I say I am. I've given my ... (131 words)

I ended the affair but he keeps contacting me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

8 August 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been involved with a married man for over 5 years....he said he's in a sexless marriage and his wife doesn't show him any affection....he can't leave her yet as he feels he would be abandoning his kids even though they are in their late teens...he says he loves ... (137 words)

Savings for our house keep getting taken away by Mum in law

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

8 August 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi cupids... I'm in a bit of difficulty at the moment and don't know if I'm being selfish...me and my boyfriend live together at his mums at the moment.. we are trying to save to buy a house together.. my boyfriends mum lost her job a few months back and now only works part ... (337 words)

I am in love with my brother's best friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2690 days ago

8 August 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I really need advice!!!! My brother has been best friends with this one guy for like ever. His friend M. Has known me his entire life and I never thought of him as anything else but like a second brother. But my brother and his friend drifted a little, (they're still ... (275 words)

My ex bf contacted me, I told my bf about it, mistake or no?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2685 days ago

8 August 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy briefly, but broke up w/him due to him being a control freak and somewhat mentally unstable. His number was blocked, but the other day I deleted all my blocked numbers (I didn't even know it was his number). He ended up messaging me, we exchanged brief ... (110 words)

My partner shows little empathy when I am upset

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

8 August 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - My brother died in a bike accident and the third year anniversary is next week. I dread this time of year. My mum is still heartbroken. My partner shows he cares through practical things like cooking a meal or walking my dog. I am tactile, warm and romantic whereas he doesn't ... (127 words)

What makes a person act like my ex did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

8 August 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a guy for about two years. Around April of 2017 he breaks off the relationship. I was being needy and angry during that time because I was in my senior year of college and it was finals. And my father had stage four cancer he got really sick in april and passed ... (511 words)