Women aged 20-29 - please answer this!
Q. I've been seeing my gf for about 4 mos (I'm 39- shes 25) I know big gap. Anyway, about a month in -- we had "the talk" ---and I found out about her not so innocent past. It made me sick to find out she had slept with 15 other guys before me. ...
A. 23 August 2009: I would be grossed out about the warts and would rethink a relationship with someone if they told me they had them...I think personally most girls that age (my age) have slept with around the same amount of guys, I myself have slept with about ... (read in full...)
I want to emigrate to the USA
Q. This is not a relationship question but more related to settling in the USA. I am British and teach and own two houses and would like to emigrate to the US eventually. How easy is it to get work there. I was thinking of coming over on an exten...
A. 23 August 2009: Top careers in demand:
http://education.yahoo.net/degrees/articles/featured_top_demand_careers.html... (read in full...)
I need some advice on giving massages
Q. I need some advice. It's not really a problem, just something I'd like some advice on. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for quite a while and we like to try new things. We've recently starting giving each other massages but I'm not very good at ...
A. 23 August 2009: Buy some massage oil, or just use moisturiser. Work your fingers into his shoulders and around his neck, massage with your thumbs facing his spine and use your fingers and thumbs to massage as you move down his back. Just experiment, think about ... (read in full...)
I find it hard to make friends, no one likes me
Q. I have a really big problem... no one likes me. I've always found it hard to make friends or talk to people, I think I might have panic attacks sometimes I don't know if its social phobia. I never know what to say to anyone or how to start a ...
A. 23 August 2009: Speak to your GP about your panic attacks, see what they actually are. Perhaps he can refer you for some counselling, it sounds like you have terrible self esteem, see if there's a way to work on that :)... (read in full...)
Women aged 20-29 - please answer this!
Q. I've been seeing my gf for about 4 mos (I'm 39- shes 25) I know big gap. Anyway, about a month in -- we had "the talk" ---and I found out about her not so innocent past. It made me sick to find out she had slept with 15 other guys before me. ...
A. 23 August 2009: You'd probably be quite amazed to find that is quite a common number of people to have slept with...I don't suppose you have many friends that much younger than you to talk with about these kind of things.
If what q1605 said about her average bein... (read in full...)
Will they sell lube to a 15 year old?
Q. i want to buy this...DUREX PLAY CHERRY PUMP LUBE.. http://www.superdrug.com/DUREX-PLAY-CHERRY-PUMP-LUBE-50ML/invt/512109 and bklist= im 15, will probally get it from Superdrug or something, will they sell it, and things like this, to me?? thanx...
A. 23 August 2009: Buy online...x... (read in full...)
I couldn't have sex with my boyfriend, I feel I've let him down
Q. I tried to have sex with my boyfriend of 6 months last night and i couldn't. His penis felt like it was too big for my vagina. It was so painful that I felt sick and shakey. This has put me off ever having sex again yet I know that my boyfriend will ...
A. 23 August 2009: Do a search on Vaginismus, might be you.
I experienced this once...But it was because I felt so sexual desire for him once we got into the bedroom...Was weird, relationship obviously didn't last!... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for trying to push my boyfriends "best friend" out of his life?
Q. I hate my boyfriends "best friend" this girl cam out of nowhere in his life. And I can't stand her. Today I got another friend of mine to send her some very hateful messages. And I am glad I did. Hopefully she will get out of his life now. Wh...
A. 23 August 2009: How spiteful. I guarantee you will push your boyfriend away before she's out of his life.... (read in full...)
I've been cheating on him for years but don't know why
Q. im a 22 yr old married woman, iv been maried since 20 and been with him since 18. but all along iv been cheating on him. i dont know why. hes such a good man, and a wonderful father to our little boy. im in the service and hes not, so were seperated ...
A. 23 August 2009: You're pushing boundaries, seeing how far you can go before you get caught.... (read in full...)
I want to get with him but I can't tell my parents
Q. hello. right basicly. this boy really likes me, and i like him but i cannot go out with him because i'm too embarressed of telling my parents, it makes me feel sick and i go red. what i am supposed to do because it's upsetting me so much :'( i ...
A. 23 August 2009: Write them a letter x... (read in full...)
I'm trying to do the best for her and she's distancing herself from me
Q. Should I admit to seeing my partners writings and how can I deal with this? Recently my partner made a list of things she wanted. 1. To visit her family. (500 miles away) 2. To go on holiday abroad to the sea. 3. To move in to ...
A. 20 August 2009: I was with someone 7 months. He worshipped the ground I walked on, declared his undying love for me, said he'd die if he couldn't grow old with me. I knew I didn't love him and couldn't ever feel the same way about him as he did for me, after ... (read in full...)
I'm sexualy attracted to other girls more than my girlfriend. Is this normal?
Q. Ok so I need help, I'm 16 years old, I have a girlfriend that I love very much and don't get me wrong she turns me on, I mean I sometime I jerk off thinking of her. I mean when I'm with her I watch her when she walks and even when we're in church I ...
A. 20 August 2009: lol, in church, that's hot ;)... (read in full...)
When is the best time to take a pregnancy test?
Q. hey i am 14, i had sex on friday night when me and a few others stoped at my lads mates house and we were not drunk we were sober and i was messing around with this lad and then we went upstairs because this lad had a bad sholder and i said i w...
A. 20 August 2009: The problem with unprotected sex is that yes you might get pregnant, but you might also contract Aids and die.
Sorry to be harsh, but have you thought about STD's? Warts on your bits that are there for life, that kind of thing?
Don't mean to lectu... (read in full...)
The ex or the new lover?
Q. i have recently split from a relationship that i have a disabled child with of 4years. i met someone else and rushed into things quite quickly.i love my new lover to pieces and am happy with him, my son loves him too. my new lover recently proposed ...
A. 20 August 2009: Who do you want to be with in 60 years' time?
Maybe you rushed into things...But what's done is done.
Are you just feeling guilty for hurting your ex?
Could you stay with someone you don't love?
Go with your gut feeling.... (read in full...)
I'm trying to do the best for her and she's distancing herself from me
Q. Should I admit to seeing my partners writings and how can I deal with this? Recently my partner made a list of things she wanted. 1. To visit her family. (500 miles away) 2. To go on holiday abroad to the sea. 3. To move in to ...
A. 20 August 2009: Hun...She put it in black and white, she doesn't love you.
I can't imagine how it would feel to read that, but she is letting you quite happily do all this amazing stuff for her, yet she feels like she is in an "unhappy marriage" - sorry but I real... (read in full...)
My girldfriend wasn't upfront with me about her past. How do I get over it?
Q. how do i get over the fact that my girlfriend kissed another guy and he felt all over her before we started dating and she told me way after we've been dating for 4 to 5 months? i checked and didnt find the question at all please post thanks....
A. 20 August 2009: What she di dbefore she even got with you to be honest is none of your concern.... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about the email I found implying he may have had a casual hook up while he was away?
Q. Hi there, my problem is, well for starters, to me and everyone who knows me, i have a fantastic relationship, i have an brilliant boyfriend who i have been with for apprpx 18 mths, we have lived together the last 9 mths. i have 2 children, one is 6 ...
A. 20 August 2009: You need to be honest with him about your insecurities and how this makes you feel, otherwise it's going to eat you up inside and kill the relationship x... (read in full...)
He seemed very interested but since the 2nd date when we had sex, he's been ignoring me. Did I get played?
Q. I am 31 years old and the mother of a 14 year old daughter, and 8 year old son. I am single. Anyhow, I decided to go back to school to advance my degree. I am always being hit on by younger guys, on campus, but never really thought much of it. ...
A. 20 August 2009: Sorry to say but it does sound like you got played...Sh*ttiest feeling in the world when you realise, but if it doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger...Chin up and learn from your mistakes :) x... (read in full...)
It's been 8 months since my lover and I parted so we could work things out with our spouses, but he told he he still loves me and thinks of me, what does this mean?
Q. My lover and I split in January 2009. It broke my heart.we told our spouses that we were in love and they both wanted to work it out. so we decided to try one more time. it was hard to let go for the both of us. It has been 8 months, we spoke ...
A. 20 August 2009: Life is for living, why live to be 100 and look back with nothing but regrets?
Follow your heart, do what makes you happy. Cold as it sounds, you can't live your life making sure everyone else but you is happy.... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and in love with my 33 year old teacher
Q. Well I am 15 years old and am madly in love with my 33 year old teacher, and i know most of you will probably say it’s just a stupid crush, to stop being so stupid and move on, but honestly i know for sure it isn’t a stupid crush, and believe me i ...
A. 20 August 2009: When I was 13 I had the biggest crush on my teacher, thought I couldn't live without him, was CONVINCED it was love, he was The One...Over 10 years on I couldn't even tell you his name.... (read in full...)
Is my vagina too large for my boyfriend?
Q. Dear Aunts, I am worried that my vagina is too large for my boyfriend. I am 30 yrs old and have not had any children, and he has a large penis (it must be 7 or 8 inches and is quite wide - certainly the largest I have encountered). Al...
A. 20 August 2009: Try some pelvic floor exercises :)... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and don't know if I am a virgin yet I've had sex
Q. I'm 22, and I had sex alot with my boyfriend and i never had blood coming out of me and i'm supposed to be virgin! and sometimes in certain positions there's pain inside me ! i wanna know how to know if am virgin or not ! and is it possible to have ...
A. 20 August 2009: OH MY GOOD GOD!!! LOL!!!
"I'm 22, and I had sex alot with my boyfriend and i never had blood coming out of me and i'm supposed to be virgin! "
"i wanna know how to know if am virgin or not ! "
... (read in full...)
I'm trying to do the best for her and she's distancing herself from me
Q. Should I admit to seeing my partners writings and how can I deal with this? Recently my partner made a list of things she wanted. 1. To visit her family. (500 miles away) 2. To go on holiday abroad to the sea. 3. To move in to ...
A. 20 August 2009: You are far, far, far too good for her.... (read in full...)
Why am I so vain in the beginning of relationships?
Q. In the beginning of relationships, after the initial attraction, I always try really hard to look really good in front of the guy. Like if we go on a date or if we are just hanging out, I always want to look good.. and I hate it! It's like a reflex ...
A. 20 August 2009: Pretty much every boyfriend I've had hasn't noticed the difference before and after I take my makeup off...To be honest I don't wear alot anyway. And pretty much all of them have preferred me first thing when I wake up all bed-headed and ruffled ... (read in full...)
I asked her out and told her to think about it. It's been a day since, shall I phone her or wait?
Q. i left another post saying about a girl well she told me friend that she really likes me and she dont love this other boy. So last night i asked her out and she said i dont know and i said ok can u think about it and she said ok. I havent spoke to ...
A. 20 August 2009: It's been a day?
Smother her why don't you...... (read in full...)
Although it seems unlikely my girlfriend is cheating, it doesn't seem right that there's info regarding dating on her Facebook! What should I do?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 7 years and I think that she may be cheating. The other day she was checking something on her e-mail while I was in the room and i noticed there were all these messages from some kind of online-dating th...
A. 20 August 2009: To be honest, is she going to be cheating online when you have all her passwords?
She's probably just curious, 7 year itch and all that? Sometimes it's nice to have a bit of male attention...Sounds totally innocent to me though.... (read in full...)
My partner broke up with me because her daughter doesn't approve! Should I stick around to see if things change or let go?
Q. I've been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 7 years. We are in love. Her teenage daughter has broken us up as a couple, and says she doesn't want her mom seeing me anymore. My girlfriend basically told me that has to make sure that her daughte...
A. 20 August 2009: Sounds like she'll always be ruled by what other people want her to do...Is it worth the hassle and heartache?... (read in full...)
We've been going out for 6 months, is it to early to be in love?
Q. Ok well basically I am in love with this girl who is also my age, I have been in love with her for around 3 months going out for 6 months. I was just wondering is it to early to be in love? I personally think i have matured enough to unders...
A. 20 August 2009: Yeah defiately :) feelings don't have to be defined, you know how you feel... (read in full...)
Is it normal for girls to check out other guys and talk about it with the guy theyre having a relationship with?
Q. i was on the phone with this girl that i have a relationship with. the reason why i didnt say that she my girl friend though is that she has a problem with officially being girlfriend and boyfriends. she always says she doesnt think that the title ...
A. 20 August 2009: My boyfriend and I do...If I notice a hot chick, I'll say...It's a bit of banter...... (read in full...)
He constantly lies and seems to be cheating, should I get a divorce?
Q. I am almost 8 months pregnant and am having serious marriage problems. We have been married for just over a year and our arguments are more and more serious. This time we have separated for over ten days now and have been talking about divorce. T...
A. 20 August 2009: Deep down..Do you really want to spend the rest of your days on this earth with this man?
Only you know the answer...Go with your gut feeling.... (read in full...)
He's 18 I'm 14, can he go to jail?
Q. I am currently talking to a 18year old and i am 14 and i would like to know if He could go to Jail??...
A. 20 August 2009: If you were being sexual, yeah...... (read in full...)
Flirting in the work-place. Is touching allowed or would this send out the wrong message to me?
Q. Hello. Just a very quick question about how to interpret a co-worker's behaviour. I teased her about something the other day and she reached out as if to touch me on the arm but then withdrew at the very last second. Can I read anything into this? ...
A. 20 August 2009: She probably thought you would get the wrong idea, but obviously wanted to touch you...... (read in full...)
Bi or Bi-curious? Not sure how to take the next step
Q. Recently i have become much more open about things with my best friend,for example, I told her I have a vibrator and I masturbate. Also, we both admitted to watching lesbian porn. We've kissed once or twice just a simple peck on the lips and we ...
A. 20 August 2009: I've never dated a woman. Yet I've been sexual with women, prefer watching lesbian porn. I don't really consider myself anything other than straight, it's just my preferences. A little bit of experimentation won't hurt...... (read in full...)
How could I win her back or should I let sleeping dogs lie?
Q. Hi, I recently split up with a girl I was going out with for about 3 months. I guess the main reason was that I wasn't sure if we had enough common interests. She kind of agreed but we were both a bit upset. I'm still in touch and have met, jus...
A. 20 August 2009: Take the plunge, ask her, or spend forever wondering "what if...?"... (read in full...)
Boy on Msn says pick me or your boyfriend
Q. i have been talking to this guy for about 4years on msn and a really do like him like actually soo much but he lives soo far away and he wants us to be more than friends but i just cant see it working because of the distance and hes away on holid...
A. 20 August 2009: A true friend would never ask you to choose something like that.... (read in full...)
Should I break it off with her despite her current loyalty
Q. breaking up is hard to do, ive learned, however ive never seriously done so. My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 10months, before that another 4months, and before that about a week. We met while highschoolishly young and naive, briefly ...
A. 20 August 2009: Christ, you have got some serious issues...You wereb't even together yet you feel you can't forgive her for sleeping with other guys? She's the one who felt forced into an abortion, you sound like you were a total drugged up flake.... (read in full...)
Do I contact the married man I had an affair with or leave it?
Q. Ok here goes,im worried about asking this question to my friends as im frightened of there reaction. Three years ago i had an affair with a married man,i was married too and not long given birth,my husband was an alcoholic,i was suffering with pos...
A. 20 August 2009: Contact him...If you think he will make you happy, and if you think he feels the same. What's the point in being in a marriage if you're not happy? You can't live your life trying to please everyone else...... (read in full...)
Why does he stare me in the eyes?
Q. when im with my boyfriend alone, he would lay down with his head in my lap and stare at me in the eyes. how does he feel when he does this and why does he do it?...
A. 20 August 2009: Perhaps because he likes looking at you and is besotted with you...?!... (read in full...)
Is it okay if a 24 year old has a crush on a girl that just turn 16 years old?
Q. Is it okay if a 24 year old has a crush on a girl that just turn 16 years old? Is it wrong for a 24 year old to masturbate to pictures of a 16 year old? There this neighbor that I know that is 16 years old and I am 24 years old. I can’t help but...
A. 20 August 2009: Umm...My sister's 16 and if she brought home a guy who's 24, I'd think why the hell can't he get girls his own age?? Age differences might be ok when you're older, and yes girls might mature faster than guys, but seriously, she's barely legal...... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and don't know if I am a virgin yet I've had sex
Q. I'm 22, and I had sex alot with my boyfriend and i never had blood coming out of me and i'm supposed to be virgin! and sometimes in certain positions there's pain inside me ! i wanna know how to know if am virgin or not ! and is it possible to have ...
A. 20 August 2009: Honey...A virgin is someone who HASN'T had sex...At 22 if you don't know that...Well that scares me!... (read in full...)
My ex got married and I'm in bits
Q. please dont think me a bad person but i need to write this. my ex fiance got married recently-i have to admit i was completely gutted. i made a huge mistake losing him-although we were both to blame for the split and now i dont know what to do....
A. 20 August 2009: Sometimes it's a case of the grass is greener...You broke up for a reason and might just be having rose tinted views of your relationship, remember why you broke up & concentrate on that. ... (read in full...)
Why won't my fiance sleep with me?
Q. hi i dont know what to do with my fiancee and our sex life i ask for sex in a nice way and not just oh i want sex and i still get turned away, it getts me realy frustrated and most time so angry because i dont want to argue with her but more so that ...
A. 20 August 2009: She doesn't know what she likes. Alot of women have low sex drives, but it's not fair that she's not even giving you the chance. Is she really worth all this? One sided relationship...Sounds like you're working at it and she's not. Sounds like ... (read in full...)
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