I'm stuck between 2 girls, past and present, can't help comparing them!
Q. Hi people! This is my first comment here, I've just signed in because I really need help with this. Also, today's my birthday, so any answers will be appreciated double on this day =) Let's start from the beginning: In 2006 I went to Japan f...
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I am crazy about this guy, and he is about me too. But he won't commit and I find that hard to deal with
Q. Dear Cupid, I don't know where to begin with this one. I'm in love with this guy I've known for years. I know he has strong feelings for me as he admits this much but he has never wanted to go further. We have traveled the world together and bee...
A. 9 March 2008: Sorry I mean FIRM answer!... (read in full...)
I am crazy about this guy, and he is about me too. But he won't commit and I find that hard to deal with
Q. Dear Cupid, I don't know where to begin with this one. I'm in love with this guy I've known for years. I know he has strong feelings for me as he admits this much but he has never wanted to go further. We have traveled the world together and bee...
A. 9 March 2008: You just need a form answer, it sounds like you don't know where you stand.
He flatters you and talks to you like a princess, but won't have a relationship with you.
Does he just like having you there, without having to commit to anything... (read in full...)
I'm going through a tough time with my girlfriend, who is still living with her ex boyfriend
Q. i am 29 and seeing a girl 25. she's everything i want in a woman,but we are going though some tough times. she was seeing a male about six mounths ago until they went on holiday and he beat her up. but just before they went away i kissed this girl ...
A. 9 March 2008: If she's gone straight from being with him, to being with you, you have to be understanding that it takes time to untangle after having lived with someone. If they are renting, she might be tied legally to a contract, or even to a mortgage?
At leas... (read in full...)
My parents hate my fiance even though they have never met!
Q. I have been going out with this guy for over 2yrs and recently got engaged. I love him more than anything but the problem is my parents dont like him even though they've never met. He is 44 and i am 20 and this is probably the reason why they dont ...
A. 9 March 2008: Oh yeah and I should add, arrange a meeting on neutral territory, if they agree. Go for a coffee, go out for lunch, a small cafe or something. Everyone will be more relaxed and it will be easier for your fiance rather than going to your parents ... (read in full...)
My parents hate my fiance even though they have never met!
Q. I have been going out with this guy for over 2yrs and recently got engaged. I love him more than anything but the problem is my parents dont like him even though they've never met. He is 44 and i am 20 and this is probably the reason why they dont ...
A. 9 March 2008: It's a bit unfair of your parents to decidee they dislike your fiance before they even met. Is it something to do with the age gap? You should ask them. Try to arrange a meeting, it might not be all smooth sailing, but it sounds like you'll need ... (read in full...)
How do I attract girls? I'm young and inexperienced...
Q. im a 14 year old boy i dont have a lot of experince with girls i also need adviceon how to attract girls? im not sure what to talk about on msn orface to face ?? to be honest im shy and not confident aswell how can i build it up? help! thanks... ...
A. 9 March 2008: Confidence is the most attractive thing to the opposite sex!... (read in full...)
Is my foreskin normal?
Q. Hi im 16 n my foreskin stil dosnt cum past my foreskin is this normal??...
A. 9 March 2008: I'm sure if you're not in pain, it's ok. Maybe you should go to the doctor, or if you're too shy, call the NHS Direct helpline 0845 4647 ... (read in full...)
I envy my boyfriend because his life has been much more interesting than mine, and I feel lame.
Q. I am 19, and my boyfriend is 22... My parents were always kinda (still are sometimes) quite overprotective of me - that's why I don't even know how to ride a bike. So I've always been mostly home, yes, I did have/do have some very good friends at ...
A. 9 March 2008: So make up for lost time! Start being the person you want to be, stop just dreaming about it and envying him!
Make a list of what you want to do, work out what is actually do-able, and just do it!
Your boyfriend obviously likes you for being yo... (read in full...)
I am crazy about this guy, and he is about me too. But he won't commit and I find that hard to deal with
Q. Dear Cupid, I don't know where to begin with this one. I'm in love with this guy I've known for years. I know he has strong feelings for me as he admits this much but he has never wanted to go further. We have traveled the world together and bee...
A. 9 March 2008: Basically, you need to be straight with him. He has feelings for you, you have feelings for him. So why can't you be together? If he just wants friendship, and you can't handle only friendship, you have to tell him you can't see him, and get over ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl and she is very flirty/friendly, but I'm shy!
Q. I met this girl and i like her; we are good mates and we have only met 2 times but always talk to her on msn. i have got a bebo site and she puts stuff like love you and emails me and when i say bye she says love you and she puts kisses How do...
A. 9 March 2008: You've really got to take the plunge and ask her out, or you will spend en eternity agonising over this.
Ask her if she wants to go to the cinema, or bowling...... (read in full...)
I'm stuck between 2 girls, past and present, can't help comparing them!
Q. Hi people! This is my first comment here, I've just signed in because I really need help with this. Also, today's my birthday, so any answers will be appreciated double on this day =) Let's start from the beginning: In 2006 I went to Japan f...
A. 9 March 2008: If you stay with Naomi, you are settling for second best.
You won't get anywhere with the relationship because you will always be comparing the 2, Naomi isn't as good, but she'll do, basically. But she must know deep down that she doesn't ... (read in full...)
I'm a lonely male single parent, am I past relationships?
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, I will be fifty in a few months time, I'm single and spent the last 10 years raising two children on my own, whilst trying to succeed in a career. But men who look after kids have a glass ceiling as well, and relationships la...
A. 9 March 2008: You remind me of my Dad.
My parents divorced almost 10 years ago. My siblings and I straight away lived with my Dad. He concentrated on his career and us kids totally up until about 3 years ago. But I could tell he was lonely and unhappy,... (read in full...)
We had sex and he's not interested now, what do I do?
Q. Heya I need help im madly in love with someone, I have been for years but there not interested anymore and im quite certain about it. I cant move on we are really close. These feelings arnt going away. He didnt want anything to do with me after ...
A. 9 March 2008: Basically this guy took advantage of the fact that he knows you like him. He used you, it's as harsh as that.
There are many guys out there who are only out for one thing, you just need to get wise to the type.
You sound like you are quite in... (read in full...)
He's in the popular group, I'm not. Does he like me??
Q. There's this guy who I've liked and I think he's liked me aswell (because of certain signals) for about a year now. We are both shy. I asked him out just before some important exams and he said he didn’t know and then 2 days later he said not now ...
A. 9 March 2008: The problem with being at school is that friends get involved and it's never a relationship really with just the 2 of you. Your friends really put pressure on - peer pressure is a bitch! Plus, the whole different groups thing, status means alot ... (read in full...)
I stayed but we didn't have sex, but haven't heard from him since, is it because I didn't sleep with him?
Q. Hi. Im 17. Still A virgin (through choice) i dont have a boyfriend and dont really want one...i go out alot and end up snogging guys and getting their numbers etc... inparticular two guys recently... one guy i knew from school that i met up with ...
A. 9 March 2008: It depends if you think he is "that kind of guy"?
Only one way to find out - call him, ask him if he wants to go to the movies or something.
Maybe he's just not interested, maybe he did expect a one night stand...
If you're interested in him... (read in full...)
I am not sexually attracted to him. Will we grow into that?
Q. Dear Cupid, My first and only serious boyfreind started when i was in year three. He gave me a ring and card on valentimes day, so he was my first valentime. We were together till year six but then split up because we changed schools. Now, 4 ...
A. 9 March 2008: In my opinion, if the passion/lust/physical attraction isn't there in the first place, it's never gpong to be there. I had a GREAT relationship with a guy who was like my soul mate, we were amazing friends, just didn't have the passion. We worked ... (read in full...)
This relation bores me to tears but I'm terrified of moving on and being on my own again!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now and feel that I'm stuck in huge rut and am finding it difficult to leave him. I've reached the stage that having sex with him is a chore and I don't really want to spend time with him. We are toge...
A. 9 March 2008: I was in this situation, I was with a guy 4 years, the love went, and we just drifted on for a bit. Both too lazy and scared to break up. He ended up going away for a month with work, in that time I built up my network of friends, and got to test ... (read in full...)
I'm a young Mum who recently had an abortion and am going through a tough time!
Q. hi im 21 and have a little girl she only 13 months old and i found out a few months ago i was pregnant with twins well at the time i was not ready for them and was going throw a bad time with my boyfriend i was really ill and i could not cope with ...
A. 1 March 2008: You need to visit your doctor or find out if there is a local counsel group for people who have had an abortion. Your doctor surgery probably run a counselling service - if you make an appointment and see your doctor he can arrange counselling ... (read in full...)
I'm really into him but he doesn't seem to have much time for me, should I tell him to get lost?
Q. Hi, I met someone new about 8 weeks ago. At the start, he was very enthusiastic, texting, ringing me etc. First date went well as did the 2nd. He wasn't free then for a few weeks and I wasn't really sure whether he was into me as much anymore ...
A. 1 March 2008: I wouldn't bother with him. You want someone who's going to appear enthusiastic about seeing you, not leave you wondering when you're next going to see him!
He sounds like he either doesn;t know what he wants or is enjoying the attention you give... (read in full...)
How can I have my cake and eat it too?
Q. I am growing close to a man who I work with despite us both living with our respective partners. We both know we have feelings for each other, and a greater connection on a mental and spiritual level. The thing is, I don't want a relationship with ...
A. 1 March 2008: It's true you do need to look at why you're obviously not satusfied in your relationship and why you are looking elsewhere.
Sometimes this is a big indication that the person you are with is not right for you, sometimes it's just an indication that... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my cousin feels the same about me as I do about him
Q. SO here...goes ...its VERY long i feel as if i might be getting over my cousin but i know its only temporary. because it's almost like a cycle, i have on and off feelings for my 1st cousin (who although is adopted) i should treat like a brother. ...
A. 1 March 2008: It sounds like you don't really know what you want. Back away from these guys just for a little while so you can get your feelings straight then go from there...... (read in full...)
Why is he kissing and cuddling me if he doesn't want a relationship?
Q. Im so confused. There's this guy that iv known for 5 months now and we were gettin really close. we would hang out togther, id go over his watch a film..he would ring me a few times a day for a chat, evrything seemed great and knew that he liked me. ...
A. 1 March 2008: First of all it seems like you are bveing quite clingy - which is natural when someone you like starts backikng away. This might be the cause of him playing it cool.
He obviously likes you, yes you're right friends don't generally kiss and cudd... (read in full...)
I think I'm ready now but not totally sure? Any suggestions to help me calm down?
Q. hi i'm 15 and my bf is 16, i'm kinda scared of having sex its not that im scared of getting preg or anythink like that (we're not that stupid) and i know it's kinda but at the same time of me being scared i have this like feeling that i really can't ...
A. 21 February 2008: If you're not totally sure, then don't do it. Because you're obviously not ready. And the more you think about it, the more stressed about it you will become. When it happens, it will happen. I know that sounds dumb, but it's true. Just let it ... (read in full...)
I'm really stressing out, could I be pregnant??
Q. I'm really worrying in case I'm pregnant... On valentines day, the condom split, so next day I took the morning after pill. As far as I was aware, everything went fine. A few days later, he ejaculated, but there didn't seem to be anything in the ...
A. 21 February 2008: It doesn't sound likely that you are pregnant, but do a couple of pregnancy tests, just to check and most importantly to put your mind at ease.
You might have thrush, that could explain the itching. Or you could have an STD? Check it out with... (read in full...)
It appears the measurements grant different results, decreasing? What's going on?
Q. Alright, so I was starting to notice this a couple weeks ago, but figured I was imagining things, and now I'm possitive that I'm not. My penis is shrinking, I know that sounds ridiculous, but it's true. It wasn't big to begin with, only a...
A. 21 February 2008: I know you said you don't want to go to the doctor, but if something is not right, that's really the best place to go...?... (read in full...)
Is this what you call a love triangle? Is my problem in fact that I'm hesitant to like anyone who likes me firstly?
Q. i cant even, i dont even, i dont even know how to start this one. well. so, there is this kid in my school, lets call him M. i was always intrigued by him, you could say interested, but more of from afar. hes goofy cute i guess you could, not y...
A. 21 February 2008: By M being, as you said, oblivious is his own world, he is aloof and cool, and that intrigues you. You want to get under that cool exterior and find out what's inside, M is a challenge, and that is much, much more appealing than someone who lays ... (read in full...)
I wish he could last longer in bed, how do we achieve that?
Q. hi, i'm 17 and me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 9 months. we have sex a lot and i love it, but sometimes i wish he could last longer. any advice on what to do? also, i've never orgasmed either, and i know loads of women take ages ...
A. 21 February 2008: I used to have this problem with my ex. You can try using lubes or condoms that prolong his ejaculation, or you could try what we used to do, we would often have a quickie where he would come, then we would have sex where he would play with my clit ... (read in full...)
My fiance can't come through sex, he wants a blow job which I find revolting
Q. okay. I've been in a relationship of a little over a year now and engaged for a bit of it. But my finance can't cum during sex. he can cum using his hand fine, this bothers me a bit, but I have gotten over it to some extent. I still feel bad for ...
A. 10 January 2008: If you genuinely find it revolting, don't do it. It's not really as bad as you might think though, and it's great for you because you know they're getting great pleasure.
You can set down certain rules, he must wash beforehand, you could try (fla... (read in full...)
I slept with him and now he's avoiding me, what's gone wrong?
Q. hi, i'm a 20 yr old girl and i've recently met this guy who works at my gym. we went on 1 date on boxing day, which was great fun and a couple of days later i met his mum and stayed the night. we talk for hours and had a great time and I ended up ...
A. 10 January 2008: Unfortunately, sleeping with him so soon was probably the wrong move. Certain types of guys lose interest once the quest for sex is gone. ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated and we divorced, but we want to try again, should we?
Q. Please help?? I got divorced last year after my husband had an affair, the whole break up was very painful as we had been together since I was 17 I am now 27 and only married for about 8 months. It nearly lead to me taking my own life I had a ...
A. 10 January 2008: You won't know if it is the right decision until you give it a go. Take it slow, date, get a feel for whether he has changed or not. The thing is - he's with someone else, and telling you he wants to be with you. Could you trust him?... (read in full...)
Why do so few women masturbate?
Q. OK, so I know the question I'm going to ask doesn't apply to all women but... Why do so few women masturbate? I was doing an interveiw on facebook, and with each new question it shows you the answer given by the last 10 participants. The que...
A. 10 January 2008: I think women are more ashamed to admit it...I bet the real figures would be 9/10 women do masturbate but don't admit it.
Most of my girl friends are like that as well, they say it's gross or act like it's a bad thing to do. But a few of my frien... (read in full...)
He's married and I have a boyfriend but this guy keeps touching my bum!
Q. Um I have two questions actually so here goes: 1. This is a bit stupid to be honest but Im going to ask it anyway, im anaemic and when I smoke (because Im an idiot like that...) I get quite dizzy, are the two connected? 2. Theres this guy a...
A. 10 January 2008: You need to be firm with this guy, he's not taking you seriously when you tell him to stop. How would his wife or your boyfriend feel if they knew? He's overstepping the boundaries and putting you in an awkward position.
As for the getting ... (read in full...)
I like my boyfriend, but my ex is on the scene again, confusing me
Q. I am going out with someone who seems really into me, he calls me all the time and always wants to be with me. But recently my ex-boyfriend has started calling me and texting me, also i like another lad but i like him more than i like my boyfriend i ...
A. 10 January 2008: It sounds like your current boyfriend is more into you than you are to him?
And is there 3 guys you like, or just your ex and your boyfriend?
You probably still like your ex because you shouldn't, and because he's familiar. Just remember you brok... (read in full...)
Any ideas from the girls on sexy underwear?
Q. hi all. i am 19 and have a healthy sex life with my bf however our anniversary is coming up and we have decided 2 wait until then 2 make it extra special, weve rented a hotel room. he wants me 2 wear a corset style seductive outfit which im all up ...
A. 10 January 2008: I'm a C cup as well...I find Wonderbra's are great for cleavage, I don't know the name but there's one you can get with adjustable cleavage, you pull 2 strings in the middle of the bra to make it tighter together.
Also, La Senza do an awesome bra,... (read in full...)
He's given me his number and shown interest, how do I ask him out?
Q. Hey Aunts Ok, theres this guy whos building my next door neighbours kitchen who is amazingly cute. I asked him for his number yesterday found out hes 19 and he stayed behind for an hour after work talking to me today and yesterday. I wan...
A. 10 January 2008: So you already know he's interested, giving you his number and spending time talking to him.
Ask him if he'd like to go for a coffee when he finishes work. Spend some time talking and getting to know each other. He'll probably ask you out afte... (read in full...)
I don't feel anything when I have sex!
Q. i am a 18 year old female and i dont get a feeling when i have sex, is this heard of and is there somthing wrong with me?...
A. 10 January 2008: Get some lube, have him stimulate your clit before sex, and then during. Alot of girls don't get pleasure from straight up sex. I don't, my last long term partner and I used to do as I said above, or he would make me orgasm through oral sex and ... (read in full...)
I'm disabled and having trouble in the bedroom. Any suggestions?
Q. I have a pretty serious problem.I had a near fatal car crash,which left my right arm paralized,ankle bones shattered and removed and a knee that doesn't bend much.I can still walk though.I haven't had sex since my accident which was in 1992 because ...
A. 10 January 2008: Excuse my crudeness...But if you love giving oral, can you not lie on your back and have her sit on your face, as they say?
There's a way around everything...She loves you. She wants to make it work. Insecurity will be the only thing to drive her ... (read in full...)
What can be done to dismiss the pain of first-time sex, apart from using lubricant? Is something wrong with me?
Q. My bf and I have been together for a while...I'm a virgin, but he is not. We want to have sex and are ready, but everytime we have tried it really hurts me. I know it's supposed to hurt some the first time, but this is pretty bad...and he can only ...
A. 7 January 2008: Definately doesn't sound like you are warmed up enough! More foreplay...... (read in full...)
We really want to have sex, but she's afraid of the pain and her body won't let her. What can we do?
Q. This question is more for sexual advice than dating advice: My girlfriend and I, of about a year, are madly in love. We seem to be in a healthy relationship, except when it comes to sex. I have had sex, about 5 years ago. But I lost my virginit...
A. 7 January 2008: It sounds like she might have a psychological problem...She should speak to her doctor and see what help is available, counselling etc.... (read in full...)
We really want to have sex, but she's afraid of the pain and her body won't let her. What can we do?
Q. This question is more for sexual advice than dating advice: My girlfriend and I, of about a year, are madly in love. We seem to be in a healthy relationship, except when it comes to sex. I have had sex, about 5 years ago. But I lost my virginit...
A. 5 January 2008: She just needs to get over this mental block. Every girl is scared at the thought of losing their virginity - yes it hurts, but she's lucky because she has someone who is patient and wanting to make it a good experience for her.
I suggest ... (read in full...)
How do I get over a 3 year relationship? I'd drop everything to be with her.
Q. This may be a little long, but please take the time to read I could really do with some advice. I met my ex at school when we were 16. She was absolutely GORGEOUS, everyone at school knew of her and stared at her. I had a couple of classes with ...
A. 5 January 2008: It sounds like it all went too fast for her. At the time, it always feels right, but then afterwards, sometimes reality hits hard, and people freak out.
I don't doubt that she wasn't being honest about her feelings for you, but a small voice insi... (read in full...)
There has to be another way - but what?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 9 months and we are in love. At the beginning of our relationship, we used to mess around all the time. There wouldn't be a chance that went missed without us having sex or even passionately kissing. ...
A. 5 January 2008: This actually happened with me and my boyfriend for a while.
We've been together a year, but after 6 or 7 months, we'd settled into a routine, were living together, and I think subconsciously your mind tells your body that you don't have to try s... (read in full...)
I'm 16 with a baby and pregnant again, the father has left me, please help!
Q. Hey there, this is a pretty big question and i know you will think im stupid when you hear the first bit but if you can help me at all i would appreciate it. OKay im 16 and have been with my boyfriend since we were 13, However we only beca...
A. 2 January 2008: Oh my God...My heart really goes out to you. What a horrible situation to be in. I'm sure you've had a million lectures but I can't believe you were stupid enough to get in this situation, why didn't you take the morning after pill, or use ... (read in full...)
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