Broke her heart and lost her over Facebook, no excuses. But is what I did truly unforgiveable? I still love her.
Q. I Broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago. I sexted a girl on facebook when i was drunk. It was wrong and it was the only time it happened even though i dont remember doing it and my facebook was hacked when this was happening. Multiple sex stuf...
A. 11 November 2011: Maybe she wanted to get out of the relationship anyway, and has used what happened as an excuse to get free?
All I can say is.. learn from this, but don't feel you are any less good. She is obviously wanting to purposely make you feel bad. Bes... (read in full...)
Shouldn't I feel something (anything!) on the first date?
Q. I'm trying to forget this man I fell hard for and get into a committed relationship. It's hard but I'm trying. I went on a date and though the man was nice, cute boyish face, and we had a lot in common-I didn't feel anything. I hoped and hoped he ...
A. 8 November 2011: Sounds like either he aint the right guy for you, or you aren't allowing yourself to let go of this other guy.
Don't try to "forget" this past guy, rather "accept" that it is over. Give yourself the chance to meet a new guy, they could be WAY b... (read in full...)
Broke her heart and lost her over Facebook, no excuses. But is what I did truly unforgiveable? I still love her.
Q. I Broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago. I sexted a girl on facebook when i was drunk. It was wrong and it was the only time it happened even though i dont remember doing it and my facebook was hacked when this was happening. Multiple sex stuf...
A. 8 November 2011: Tell her one more time how you feel about her, and that if she does not want to give it another try then you need to cut all contact forever and move on with your lifes seperately, explain that the reason is because you love her and it's too ... (read in full...)
My parents disapprove of our relationship and I'm not sure what I'm letting myself in for....advice please!
Q. Hi Hope you can give me some advice on something I have no idea about! In my past I have had 3 very bad relationships. A lot of this was down to the fact they had money. Money never interested me, I just want to be happy, but my parents want...
A. 7 November 2011: Who cares if your parents disapprove over something that ultimately is none of their business? Him having kids does not make him any less "good" for you.
You are in your 30s. You need to take control of your life and make decisions for YOU. Wha... (read in full...)
Ex says I should have sex with him because I owe him my virginity since he waited for me
Q. Me and my now ex-boyfriend just broke up because of me not being in love with him anymore. Although we're broken up, he's telling me to have sex with him so we can both loose our virginities and then he'll move on. He says if we do have sex, he'll ...
A. 7 November 2011: Welcome to a new world of post-puberty where boys will do many things, including lie, to have sex with you.
A good combination of common sense and eventual experience will help you weed out the guys worth your time and the guys who aren't. ... (read in full...)
A 24 year old dating a 17 year old?
Q. I have a question about a 24 year old dating a 17 year old. I'm 24 and 7 months, and I do have a crush on a 17 year old highschooler. I'm wondering is it ok to get to know her and become close friends? I know I can't have sex, but would casual ...
A. 5 November 2011: Get to know each other on dates and see how it goes, who cares about the age difference. I dated a 17yr old when I was 24 and we had a great relationship.... (read in full...)
Are my concerns about her past justified?
Q. I have been going out with a woman for a few weeks and i feel a big connection with her. Everything feels easy and we get along great. The only thing that concerns me is her past. She has told me she was very flirtatious when she was in her late...
A. 1 November 2011: She obviously like you, as she is being very open and honest with you.
You should be careful, you are acting a little over the top like you are criticising her behaviour.
If she was to tell one of her friends about you bringing up things like w... (read in full...)
I'm feeling badly because husband missed his "Friday Night Special"
Q. Hello, I am a 31 year old married woman. I have gotten great advice from this board in the past. With three kids by birth and an adoption of a 4th in process, my husband and I have to take advanages of opportunities for sex. My hubby is something ...
A. 1 November 2011: Why don't you just say to him "I felt bad I fell asleep last night, let's make up for it NOW [WINK]"
Surely a quick fix to this ridiculous worry of yours.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend that I want an abortion? Or just go ahead and do it anyway?
Q. Well... I am 28 years old and have been with the same guy for 10 years... Yes, 10 years. We're not technically married, but do plan to stay together for the long hall. And, I just found out I was pregnant. Obviously we've been being careful over the ...
A. 31 October 2011: If you have spent 10 years of your life with someone then you really do owe it to him to tell him, you really do!
If I was with someone for that long and they aborted a pregnancy from which I was the father, without even telling me, I would ne... (read in full...)
Have I done the right thing?
Q. Hi. Been in my relationship with bf for 4yrs we have a daughter together thing is since the start of r/ship he has lied about certain things, he has an alcohol problem so he has lied about drinking. For some time I thought he was t-total! I told him ...
A. 31 October 2011: To be honest it sounds to me a bit over the top that you left him over that, especially considering you have a child together.
I'm not saying it's right to lie, but it's a bit of a drastic reaction. Is it the best option for your daughter... (read in full...)
I resent my boyfried for his past experiences!
Q. Dear Cupid, Me and My Boyfriend, we love each other so much. We've been together for 7 gonna be 8 months. And we're extremely happy together. The thing is, maybe two years ago, he had sex multiple times with his ex let's say her name is C. A...
A. 31 October 2011: Concentrate on all the good things you like about this guy. If you do love him, over time, you will start to see that his past is less important than how your relationship is today.
You have not been together long, and it takes time to establis... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 29 October 2011: Everyone said it was a pointless operation and there is no difference between small and larger nipples, yet you respond to say you are still having the surgery? Why did you bother to ask for advise if you're just going to ignore it?... (read in full...)
Qeustions for the guys ...do you prefer bigger women ?
Q. Qeustion for the men. What do you think about bigger women ? Would you ever date one, or do you prefer smaller women, do you find bigger women attractive or do find slim women more attractive ? I ask this because well im trying to start dating and ...
A. 28 October 2011: I've always gone for someone who is an average weight but has the right curves in the right places. But above that, someone who is healthy and active.
You said be honest with your answers so regarding chubby or fat women, they are a massive ... (read in full...)
Why are smaller nipples more attractive? And when I get mine reduced, will the scars be a turnoff?
Q. I have always wondered this. After hearing many pepperoni nipples and bologna nipple jokes and comments, it's easy to figure out that men are not fond of large areolae. Why is it exactly? Is it because smaller ones are more sensitive? Becau...
A. 28 October 2011: I am in my 30's and I have never until reading your question heard that large nipples are supposed to be less attractive than smaller nipples. Says who?
I actually think you must be MENTAL to want surgery to change them. It's not just scaring ... (read in full...)
My past is coming back to haunt me.....
Q. I have a very big problem about my past and I'm not sure how to handle it. My husband I are married almost 10 years, and together over 10 years. My husband thinks that I was not only a virgin when we started dating, but he also thinks that I was CO...
A. 27 October 2011: How do you think your husband would respond? Maybe he will understand. A lot of couples have a "don't ask, don't tell" policy. Other couples like to know each other including their past to feel that they truely know each other. Only you know how ... (read in full...)
Do couples with different beliefs usually last?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. We have discussed the topic about marriage and how we could work it out due to the fact that we both are different religions and were raised differently. He is a jehovas witness and I am ...
A. 27 October 2011: Just because your parents brought you up with certain religious beliefs doesn't mean you have to practice them. In fact, both beliefs can't be true at the same time, have you ever considered that?
I think you are confusing "beliefs" as in your ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
Q. Dear readers, I would like to hear your advice on my situation. To put it bluntly, I'm a 24 year old virgin male. I could try to look good and say that I've been waiting for that special someone, or I'd be honest and tell you that I've never had t...
A. 27 October 2011: My friend was 24 when he lost it to a prostitute about a year ago and he doesn't regret it at all.
The reason is, the stigma about being a virgin became too much for him and he just needed to "lose it" so that he could feel normal. I don't re... (read in full...)
Am I weird for not wanting to sleep around or cheat on my boyfriend? All my friends seem to be doing it!
Q. Why are my friends doing this? am I weird to think is wrong? My friends say am boring and I should change my rules when it comes to guys. I've always been the kind of girl to only kiss a guy or have sex with a guy when we're in a relationsh...
A. 26 October 2011: Your best friend is right, the other girls are trashy. They are not a very good peer group for you, it is they who should be trying to be more like you, than the other way around.
I know which person I would value more as a girlfriend and a friend... (read in full...)
My classmates are sexually active or in relationships. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. Im 15 and Im in ninth grade. Half of the kids in my grade had already lost their virginity (Im not one of them of course), and 3 of my 5 best friends have a boyfriend. Ive never had a boyfriend in my life, never been kissed etc. Im not a lesbian,or ...
A. 26 October 2011: There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. MOST of the people in your grade are probably lying or exaggerating their experience, because they want to fit in with everyone else. The truth is, most people are probably feeling the same way as you. ... (read in full...)
I cannot stop obsessing about my boyfriend's height! Please help.
Q. Dear Cupid. Please help. I am driving myself crazy. I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and I love him so so so much, but I am absolutely obsessed with his height. I am 5ft 9.5", and he is about 1-1.5" taller. Yet whenever we a...
A. 26 October 2011: I suspect you don't truely love this guy. If you did, you'd accept his height. In fact, it would be one of the quirky things that causes you to love him.
I wonder if you've just not got the courage to admit that he is not the right guy for you.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I shaved off my pubic hair?
Q. Ok, so about a week ago, I was shaving my bikini line, but I angled the razor wrong, and shaved off a patch of pubic hair that made my area, which is usually neat, trimmed, and proper looking, look stupid, so in an effort to try and fix it, I ended ...
A. 26 October 2011: Just tell him what happened in the say way you have told us.. nothing to be embarrassed about.... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong? Why do guys only want to sleep with me and not have a relationship?
Q. hey, i am 21 and know people say im still young should be enjoying myself not worried about realtionships but (and please dont judge me) iv slept with 53 boys and only 3 if had a realtionship with. it isnt that i dont what a reationship beca...
A. 25 October 2011: What you are doing wrong is that you are coming across as someone who wants casual sex, and not someone who is girlfriend material. Have a think about friends in your social circle, or friends at your college/work and try and think of one or ... (read in full...)
Meeting my online date in 2 weeks and I am nervous! Any advice?
Q. Just to set things up: I'm 18, just graduated high school in the spring and am now in college. I'm a gay guy and a virgin. Okay, here's the thing, there are no remotely gay people at my school. None. I've been to all the LGBT club meetings and I a...
A. 24 October 2011: You are looking for something special - and by that, I am guessing something more than some seedy shag.
This guy must feel like all of his birthdays have come at once!
Don't cheapen yourself to be some object for a pervy old man. Because tha... (read in full...)
Why would my girlfriend say that her ex was "just too huge"?
Q. I've been going out with my GF for about a year, and we're discussing marriage. I've done quite well in my career, and some of the things my GF has said have given me the definite impression that this is quite important to her in a potential husb...
A. 24 October 2011: I think sometimes you can tell the same story from different perspectives and it will sound very different.
In this case I don't your girlfriend is necessarily contradicting herself. I think you are "pushing" the issue and trying to intellec... (read in full...)
The girl I'm dating says "Just enjoy the ride" she doesn't see us long term. Should I keep dating her?
Q. Hi I've been dating a girl for 5 months now, i often mention long term plans, but she always says she doesn't think we will be together long term, as she feels she will sabotage the relationship at some point without knowing it, she also says th...
A. 24 October 2011: You are more commited to the relationship than she is. This is not good. You should take her at her word, and make sure you are making the effort to go out with friends, and invest time in yourself. The only way she is going to change her mind is if ... (read in full...)
Should I end all ties? It will upset me. But my FWB guy wants no commitment.
Q. Hi, I've been friends with benefits with this guy i've known since school for like 3 months now. We text each other constantly and are always talking to each other. We see each other about 3/4 times a week and when we're not with each other we...
A. 24 October 2011: Do a search on this website for FWB. I think this will answer your questions.
This guy will never see you as 'girlfriend' material, which is why he hasn't pursued you in these few months. You are 'casual shag' material and this the most you will... (read in full...)
I found out that my girlfriend was talking to another guy, on the phone? What should I do?
Q. My girlfriend was working and a guy that she use to hangout with called her and they were on the phone for 20 min or so. Should I get mad at her? Plus she was ignoring my phone calls. What do I do ...
A. 24 October 2011: You can't get mad at her talking to someone on the phone, that is just controlling and shows you to not trust her. Do you trust her? It sounds like you are feeling insecure about the relationship. Perhaps you need to work on your relationship, and ... (read in full...)
Do you think a longterm monogamous relationship is a realistic hope to have in modern society?
Q. Hey, Do you think a longterm monogamous relationship is a realistic hope to have in modern society? I'm asking because my bf of 1.5yrs has been making hints about marriage, and it made me wonder if anyone out there actually manages a happy marriage ...
A. 24 October 2011: It isn't technology that makes cheating easier, the reason cheating happens, and marriages (and relationships) fail is because people are a lot more selfish than they used to be. People think about themselves first, about what they need and want, ... (read in full...)
Since starting university, I go from missing my B/f terribly and wanting nothing more than to be with him to wanting to ring him up and end things, several times a day!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly two and a half years. We're very close (I consider him my best friend as well as boyfriend), love spending time together and still find each other just as attractive as we did when we first started ...
A. 24 October 2011: Your relationship is ruining your university experience, you should break up with him and concentrate on your new friends and new life. You'll be glad you did, rather than continue going through this turmoil.... (read in full...)
It irritates me that my sister in law won't go to my church but instead goes to her own
Q. Hi guys. I am staying with my sister-in-law. when she first came to live with us, she would go with me to my church. then all of a sudden she decided to go to her own church on a different day. why do i feel undermined and irritated by it?is it ...
A. 23 October 2011: What would Jesus do?... (read in full...)
What should I do about this guy my girlfriend is hanging out with?
Q. So my gf meet this guy on a dating sight just like she meet me. But this guy is 30 and says age is just a number. He buys her whatever she wants and she hangs out with him i know she hates this guy. SO DO I. But he keeps touchin her and picks her ...
A. 21 October 2011: You need to dump your girlfriend ASAP. What a bitch!
She is totally disrespecting you, and playing this other man. She sounds like the worst kind of girl to know.
You don't need this kind of drama in your life. It will only end one way, and... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cant stop looking at porn and explicit pictures, and lies to me about it! How should I handle this?
Q. Okay, so in the recent past I've had some troubles with my bf of nearly 2 1/2 yrs looking at porn and having explicit pictures of girls on his phone. For ages I knew and didn't say anything. Until one day I asked does he watch porn and he said no. I ...
A. 20 October 2011: What do you mean you "got through to him" have you ever thought that you are trying to get him to do something that he doesn't want to do? Have you ever thought that you are wrong to snoop in this way, and that actually you can understand why he is ... (read in full...)
I just had a baby - I wonder why my relationship is falling apart ever since having it?
Q. I just had a baby boy two weeks ago and my bf is not pulling his weight enough around the house to which he is the father of this one. I already have an 18 month old (not his - her father didn't want to know her nor has he ever tried to see her once ...
A. 20 October 2011: You are in one of the most testing times of a relationship, and it would be a shame for you to split up now without keep trying at working things out. You haven't even mentioned the effect it would have on his child that it would grow up without you ... (read in full...)
Honest opinions: Are all boys like this over oral sex or is he out of order?
Q. hi, have been with my bf for 5 years. we are both 26. we keep on having the same arguement ALL the time its regarding oral sex and we he nearly finished our relationship over it a couple of weeks ago. bjs are really important to him but i re...
A. 19 October 2011: It sounds like he is trying to change you, he wants someone who can passionately suck him off whenever he feels like it. But the reality of life is that you aren't going to be in the mood and want to do it at any given moments notice.
Sound... (read in full...)
Liking pictures of half-naked girls on Facebook, not changing his relationship status-Should I just give up on my boyfriend?
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend nearly 5 months. We see each other 1-2 times a week on average. The past 3 weeks, we have only seen one another twice, as he has cancelled on me numerous times. I asked him about it, and he just said he had a lo...
A. 18 October 2011: He doesn't see you as his girlfriend.
If he did, he wouldn't have "single" as his relationship status.
I think that is the bottom line.... (read in full...)
do guys even want to be in a casual relationship with a girl who doesn't want to offer him sex?
Q. i've recently starting hanging out with a guy who is in an open relationship with another girl. this works for me as i'm not interested in anything serious, i just enjoy the flirting and the company because we are both attracted to each other. the ...
A. 18 October 2011: Maybe he is hoping you will change your mind. Maybe he just likes hanging around with you?... (read in full...)
B/f wants to give me oral sex but I feel insecure about it
Q. Hi :) So just wanted to talk about a problem im having and hope you guys can offer some reassurance.. Iv been dating a guy for about 3 months now and its all going great. we've been sleeping together for about a month now and really care about ...
A. 18 October 2011: I'm sure he will love it, you just need to relax and feel how good it is rather than being worried about what he will be thinking.. personally I would say make sure there are no hairs in the immediate area but that's just my personal preference, and ... (read in full...)
Was this online girl for real?
Q. I started using Zoosk a couple of months ago, and contacted a few girls. One named Naomi replied to me, and we started to chat casually on email. She told me she wanted to exchange pictures, and although I regret it, I did send her some indecent ...
A. 18 October 2011: Oh dear, doesn't sound genuine to me.
How do you know it wasn't a middle aged man who had a thing for young boys?
Be careful from now on!... (read in full...)
Six years with no intercourse. Is this normal?
Q. I've been with my bf for 6 years,on and off.he wants to have intercourse but i dont for various reasons.he said he shouldnt have to wait any longer as 6 years is a long time and he said he doesnt want to be with someone who wont have intercourse ...
A. 18 October 2011: It's not about who is right, but it is pretty unusual, in fact, incredably rare for a couple to be together at your ages and not have had sex for 6 years. It seems fine to you because you don't desire sex. For any person who has a sex drive, this ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my boyfriend or am I overreacting?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. And we are about to buy our own house. He takes care of me etc..i don't know if all guys are like this or just him. I need to know if I'm making the correct decision. Anything sets him off when things ...
A. 17 October 2011: I don't think you've given enough details to justify someone telling you to leave your boyfriend after 4 years together, that's quite a long time to be together.
Relationships are about compromise, and about finding a way that both people are happ... (read in full...)
Prom? To go? Or not to go?
Q. Hello everyone I'm just wondering if I should go for prom this year. It's my only prom. As much as I'm excited at the prospect the price is a big turn off. It's 90 bucks. Although it's not as if my family can't afford it I feel that prom shouldn't ...
A. 15 October 2011: It's better to regret things you did do than thing you didn't do.
If you have the opportunity, do it.... (read in full...)
My mother calls him a waste of space. Why can't my parents accept him, despite all the good things?
Q. My parents dislike (and I suspect possibly even hate) my boyfriend. Why? I'm 19, and he's 21, he's got a job in IT / computer maintenance, went to uni and is qualified, doesn't drink (except as a social drinker) and spends most of his time outside...
A. 15 October 2011: I remember meeting the parents once, and I felt really critisied by her dad. I was in I.T. and he had spent his life driving coaches and thought people who work in offices were lazy. Thinking back on that relationship, I think a big part of me ... (read in full...)
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