Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 12 September 2007: Your right to steer clear of this girl. Sorry dude, but I havnt yet seen any redeeming qualities in her yet. At her best of times she seems tollerable.
Theres so many great women in this big 'ol world. Get out there and meet one!
Duce ... (read in full...)
Why can I never orgasm during sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have just recently started having sex. He's the first person I've slept with, so the experience is still kinda new to me. I enjoy having sex with him and he's very sweet and loving the whole time and really tries to please me. I ...
A. 6 September 2007: This has been a rather common question lately, dont feel alone. I will just give you some direct experience that may help.
My last girlfriend was quite similar. No orgasm without clitoral stimulation its just how she was wired, it had allways been... (read in full...)
I just want to know why my girlfriend doesn't know when she reaches climax...
Q. I just want to know why my girlfriend doesn't know when she reaches climax, she always say "I don't know if I'm done or not" That makes me crazy. What is this and what can I do to make her feel that sweet thing?...
A. 6 September 2007: I think that if she was reaching climax, both of you would know it. Maybe you should focus specifically on getting her to orgasm. Some women can only get this orally. Theres plenty of techniques to giving a woman good oral and different women like ... (read in full...)
He wants me to sell my jewellery to pay for HIS debts!
Q. I'm in real trouble please help me quickly, I'm married to a nervous guy who spends money around and at the end of the month he wants me to pay the rent; I'm not working so he wants me to sell my jewellery to pay his debts which he took from the ...
A. 6 September 2007: Cant you see a trend here?
HE'S USING YOU!
You will never be able to sell enough jewelry or give enough money or make enough sacrifices. These kind of people allways want one thing. MORE!
Dump him!... (read in full...)
Can a guy and a girl be platonic "friends" and nothing more?
Q. I need opinions here! Do you think it is possible for a guy and a girl to just be friends or is there always/almost always romantic feelings at some time for the other person?...
A. 6 September 2007: Sure men and women can be friends. The catch is how close they are. I have alot of female friends, infact half or more. I can trust them and get good advice and have alot of fun, but there sre certain boundries that cant be crossed or it makes for ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he's cheating on me, he says he loves me... what do you think?
Q. Hello, I have been with my partner a year and half. We use to get on really well till October last year his dad went down ill and everything changed between us, we never have sex, he is always strange with me. Then his mum and dad died this year and ...
A. 6 September 2007: Its both of you in my opinion.
He has some serious emotional trauma going on. Im sure you can understand that. Losing his parents so closely together cant be easy. His grief process is multiplied by 2 and he is no doubt struggling through ... (read in full...)
Where is the g-spot????
Q. where is the g spot?...
A. 6 September 2007: Dear Anon male,
Please go take a look at this site and disregard the people who cant tell a clit from a g-spot.
http://www.themarriagebed.com/pages/biology/female/gspot.shtml
There is a VERRY distinct difference in the location and the ple... (read in full...)
My ex said I didnt give him enough sex. How do I deal with this in future relationships?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I were together for over three years and had an amazing sex life. We had sex atleast once a day if not more, but when he would get drunk and wanted to have sex he would be so ruff and demanding which was a complete turn off. ...
A. 5 September 2007: You need to stop second guessing yourself! You did the right thing by dumping this guy, so dont look back and wonder if you were at fault in any way.
When you settle down into your next relationship I strongly doubt you will have the same issu... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and desperately want feelings of love. What should I do?
Q. Dear All I’m very innocent and 15; I have never had a ‘ petty girlfriend’ – a relationship tat means nothing. I have never kissed a girl etc. I never intended to have true feelings of love to a female until 16-18+. Last year a girl who I th...
A. 5 September 2007: You strike me as quite mature for your age so I wont treat you like a little kid.
Can you see the connection between your parents divorce and your desire to feel love? I sure can. Love is such a darned complicated thing. It takes on so many diff... (read in full...)
My older girlfriends daughter is worried I'm only using her mum for sex, even though we haven't even had sex yet!
Q. I am a 34 year old male and am dating a 41 year old woman for two weeks now everything is going great between us. we have not had sex yet as i am prepared to wait till she is ready, but the problem is she has a 21 year old daughter who is worried ...
A. 5 September 2007: I think the factor here is simply a protective daughter. This happens at all ages for the children of single parents. Im of the opinion to NOT discuss it with the daughter untill you have discussed it with the mother. I wouldnt want a woman making a ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and want to have sex! I'm scared but I want to. Should I???
Q. i am 12 i want to have sex with my boyfriend. what should i do? i am so scarde but i want to, so should i have sex with him ...
A. 5 September 2007: I guess the other aunts have pretty well driven the point home for you havnt they? All I can add is that what you are talking about is not really sex. Its known as experimentation. If you want to have sex you will have to wait untill your mind ... (read in full...)
Is what you see on porn films real or camera trickery????
Q. In a porn vidio i just watched, this guy put a ping pong ball in this girl's vagina. then he pushed it in so it was out of sight. Then he did something with her ass or something. i saw him put his finger's in her vagina, and fish out the ball.could ...
A. 5 September 2007: Honey, what are you doing watching porn at your age? Good God, if thats not bad enough it involves sports objects? Sheesh! What happened to the good old days of a playboy centerfolds? Ohhh I feel sooooo old now! hahahahaha
Ok I just had to be a ... (read in full...)
I insulted my girlfriend while drunk! How do I redeem myself?
Q. I recently sent a text message to my girlfriend that was taken out of context. She replied and I was drunk and said some really really mean things I wish I didn't say. I hurt her very badly. Is there anyway I can try to redeem myself? I do not want ...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi cyritikus,
Ive said things during an argument that I wished I could take back too. Your not alone there my friend! I guess I dont need to harp on you about drinking and texting. Hopefully you wernt trying to drive, drink AND text too! Watch th... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you really love someone and its not just a crush?
Q. How can you tell if you really love someone and its not just a crush????...
A. 5 September 2007: Hi M&M 185,
Thats a really good question. Im in my 30's and have asked my self the same darned thing before! In my experience you need to get through the initial phases of everything being warm and fuzzy. I believe that our definition of "love" e... (read in full...)
Had sex with my twin sister's husband. Not sure if I should tell my sister or wait to see if I'm preganant...
Q. Hi my name is Stacy. I need some advice. I have had sex with my twin sister's husband. I do not know if I should tell her or not. I know it is wrong for me to have done that. The first time it was only anal sex just because I was curious and my ...
A. 5 September 2007: I guess I dont need to harp on you about your decision making process. The other aunts have taken care of that quite accurately.
I would only speculate (and I do mean speculate) that you have some serious boundry issues with your twin sister. Woul... (read in full...)
My boyfriend calls me nasty names and expects me to do all the household chores
Q. I love my bf vry much but he disrespects me by calling me names like bit** and then expects me to do all the chores in the apt just because I don't have a job yet. i've just started to attend languages classes because the language is a barrrier from ...
A. 4 September 2007: There the answer I will give you and the answer I really want to give you
The answer I WILL give you: Leave him and pull on any resources you have such as friends, family etc. Get out of there and work on being as independant as possible... (read in full...)
Is it just my situation, or are American men lazy and want to live off the woman?
Q. is it just my situation or are American men lazy and want to live off the woman? Not only do I have this problem but some of my girlfriends do too. My father is from Greece and in my family the man has always been the one that carries most of the ...
A. 4 September 2007: It sure would be easier if only American men were lazy wouldnt it? Wouldnt the world be a better place if good and bad fell into nice little catagories like that?
It sounds like you want a more traditional man. This makes sense based on your Gre... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 4 September 2007: Ok, some elaboration on what I meant by "finding out for her self".
It is my opinion and experience that looks dont count for very much all by themself. Infact, women who are stunning to look at are often less than interesting to talk to or be ar... (read in full...)
What are the chances of a relationship working in the long run, if you left someone else for them?
Q. I just wanted to know that if you are in a long term relationship and leave for another person. What are the chances of this working out? What's in it for the long haul?...
A. 4 September 2007: I think hlskitten is right about the greener grass theory. Hopefully the wandering partner can see what many of us believe to be true. The greener pasture is having a stable, trusting, loving relationship. Its really not such a hard choice once you ... (read in full...)
Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?
Q. Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...
A. 4 September 2007: There has been more than one question along this line of thinking lately. Im with hlskitten and probably most other people that will read this. What matters is how the chemistry is.
For example: My last girlfriend got over the strange hump on ... (read in full...)
How can we have a good sex life with children living in the house???
Q. Me and my wife have always had a really active and healthy sex life but at the same time we also have two kids, one at 17yrs old and another at 3 yrs old. We have always felt abit awkward having sex with them there but when it was just our 17yr old ...
A. 4 September 2007: Im with hlskitten,
Get a lock! Tell them they must knock when your door is closed. Thats just basic respect for another persons space. Obviously thats a little harder on the 3yr old so maybe waiting till afer they are sleeping is better. Putting ... (read in full...)
I didnt grow up living with my mum and we are having problems getting on. Have I done something wrong?
Q. HI, Please help. My mother never raised me but now i am grown up she is being sooooo to me, as i know its normal for parents and kids to argue and fight. but with her its differnt she raised my brother and my other two half sibling. but whe...
A. 4 September 2007: You asked if you did somthing wrong...that right there is a sign of a dysfunctional childhood. How could you do anything wrong, you were a child?
Its good to forgive your mother but maybe you should focus on your own needs first. My mother was a po... (read in full...)
Do guys care as much about weight as girls imagine them to?
Q. Do guys care as much about weight as girls imagine them to? Or do girls simply create this belief that most guys like slim girls? I'm in a fairly new relationship and i'm really happy with my boyfriend but i'm extremely insecure and am completel...
A. 4 September 2007: Great question Anon Female! Ive had two serious relationships with women who "have a little meat on theyre bones" as it were. Both stressed it occasionally and thought I was WAY more concerned with appearance than I am. I hope I dont hurt y... (read in full...)
I have a married woman chasing after me. Do I need to play hard to get?
Q. I have a married woman chasing after me. Do i need to play hard to get? she has been married for 14 years and has two children. I have already told here i was attracted to her. her response was "that why i told you i was married up front" i am a ...
A. 4 September 2007: Well, I guess you could "tap that ass" as you put it. Maybe you wont get a disease and you wont "fall weak to the game". Maybe you will have the best sex of your life! Theres one little catch though my friend. What comes around goes around (as they ... (read in full...)
My girlfriends boss is flirting with her and sending her innapropriate texts
Q. So my girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and things for the most part seem to be going great. I even bought a ring a few months ago with the intent to propose on our anniversary now 1 month away. Here's the problem. She started a new ...
A. 4 September 2007: That must really burn you up to have this guy texting and persuing your prospective fiance. I know Id be a little peeved to say the least!
I dont understand why you havnt talked to the woman you are hoping to marry in more depth about this yet... (read in full...)
I am 34 and my clock is ticking. Will I ever meet 'the one'?
Q. Hi, I am a 34 year old woman who has been single for a while now. I have been in a succession of long term relationships, usually with older men, which have not developed into anything such as marriage or kids. I feel like my clock is ticking and I ...
A. 4 September 2007: Dear Anon Female,
I sure can relate! What a great question. My situation is a little different but the desire to find that person that you can share a lasting loving relationship with is the same. There are many here who recognize that desire. ... (read in full...)
A married woman is flirting with me at work, what can I do to avoid this situation?
Q. Hi, apologies for the length of this... but I really need your help. I'm 23 years old, single, and have been working for a large company for 2 years now, and recently a married woman (she's 34) has been flirting with me. I've told her no, st...
A. 1 September 2007: Hi Rick,
You really need to watch out for those cougars when your a young man. They are doing the same predatory behavior that society frowns on men for doing yet somehow its considered less offensive when its a woman. I know what its like whe... (read in full...)
I want to be in a relationship too, but I always end up as just a "friend."
Q. Im a 14 an i feel i really want to have a girlfriend. Most of my friends are having sex and have girlfriends and i just feel left out ?? ive never been in a proper relationship before,and also i never feel confident to ask girls out because i dont ...
A. 1 September 2007: Hi young anon male,
I can relate to your situation. I was similar when I was 14. That basically means I lack advice for getting past the friend barrier with 14yr old girls, sorry dude but your not alone! Didnt get it then and not interest... (read in full...)
Does her starting smoking again mean she doesn't care about me anymore??
Q. I met my girlfriend in England 6 months ago and we both love each other very much! She lives in Turkey and returned 1 month ago trying to get visa to return and study. Whilst she was in England she quit smoking, she said that it was all because of ...
A. 1 September 2007: Hi Monkey76,
Smoking is an addiction not a personal gesture to somebody. I have smoked on and off, mostly during stressful times. Its probably her only coping mechanism. She will probably quit when she is back with you. Theres some things you shou... (read in full...)
I have a married woman chasing after me. Do I need to play hard to get?
Q. I have a married woman chasing after me. Do i need to play hard to get? she has been married for 14 years and has two children. I have already told here i was attracted to her. her response was "that why i told you i was married up front" i am a ...
A. 1 September 2007: Hi bm1555,
This isnt complicated man! All you need to do is go out and meet some un-married women. They are alot of fun trust me! Plus theres no guilt factor or psycho husbands wanting to kill you!
OK I know Im being a little flip here :)
... (read in full...)
Before we broke up 3 weeks ago, she had gone off sex. Do you think she had someone else?
Q. Just before me and my ex broke up for the last 3 weeks she was very resistant with having sex. She wasn't really turned on that much and I think it was building tension to our break up, would this play a factor in why we weren't having sex? We had ...
A. 1 September 2007: Hi bboy_gadget ,
Theres still some unanswered questions here my friend. What if any, were the other factors in your breakup? Did the relationship just go cold? If the only answer you have is that she just wasnt being turned on by you anymore then... (read in full...)
What causes night terrors in adults and what can be done to prevent them?
Q. My boyfriend suffers terrible night terrors; he has violent dreams in which he is being tortured and can usually still feel the pain when he first wakes up. He gets so distressed even though he tries to put on a brave face. He's had them since he ...
A. 1 September 2007: Once again Escalaya is on point and has some good info to back it up with.
Ive seen a few things that many people dont see. Death and natural disaster type things. It really messed up my sleep and I was definately suffering from post traumati... (read in full...)
How can I attract a 'good' man, who's looking for a relationship and not just sex?
Q. Hi, I am 26 years old and my last and only relationship ended when I was 19 years old. I have hardly dated much since then. I think I am an attractive woman as I get alot of male attention, and asked out on alot of dates. But, it seems like I ...
A. 1 September 2007: Well done Escalaya,
Well Ms Alone and Distraught, Id take Escalaya's advice. She hit on all the things that came to mind for me when I was reading your post. The only thing I can add is maybe some counseling for the sexual assault and abuse is... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I like a girl in my class. Im shy. How can I let her know I'm interested???
Q. Hi i am 14 years old and there is a girl in my class at school that i have wanted to go out with for 3 years. but im relly quiet and shy. just wanted to know of any ways to let her know im intresded without having to do much talking to her....
A. 1 September 2007: Ahhh yes, I had a crush like that once too. I wonder where she is today?
I cant give you the best advice on dealing with 14yr girls because I was like you when I was 14. Just as awkward and yet passionate too. Ive learned a few things about wo... (read in full...)
Is he really into me or does he just see me once a month for sex?
Q. Is he into me or is it just sex? We have went on trips together and we see each other once a month. We don't spend much time talking on the phone. We usually just call to say hi and ask how each other is doing. We have spent time together with out ...
A. 1 September 2007: Maybe you should ask him the same question you asked us. When you get a chance to be face to face just shoot straight with him. Tell him your not really sure whats going on.
He says he loves you and maybe he just needs a little nudge to start ta... (read in full...)
I'm a married woman, I like chatting to the net guy, but the conversation always turns sexual! I'm afraid of running into him sometime in reality...
Q. Oh man, what have I done? Someone please knock some sense into my head! I am a married woman, my husband is away at the moment, and my hormones are getting the better of me. I met a guy online who knows I am married. At first he was cool and was ...
A. 1 September 2007: You arnt stupid...YET!
Its good that you jumped on here to get some outsiders advice before you really lose your marbles and "do the deed". Being alone is getting the better of you right now but try being your own best friend instead of look... (read in full...)
I went abroad for a month, came back and he had met someone new. What affected him? Was it because his dad was ill?
Q. The past 2 years I spent dating a guy I thought was the answer to all that I was looking for in a guy. From the moment we met, he swept me off of my feet. We loved being around each other and we went on fun trips as well as some of the best dates ...
A. 1 September 2007: Hi smerchan10,
Whew! You really got thrown for a lulu didnt you? I understand about the surprise you feel when you find that somebody isnt as you had thought. Been there, got the t-shirt.
I think you are begining to sort your way through this act... (read in full...)
I need some tips on oral sex
Q. i really want to perform oral sex on my girlfriend (she wants it too) but im not sure how to do it!ive never had it done before and neither has she so neither of us really know what to do or know what feels good! this is my first relationship that ...
A. 1 September 2007: Thats awesome! Glad you were able to put these new methods into action. No doubt you will begin to come up with some of your own in time. Pass on your insight when you do, we all love to learn. Especially on this subject!! ... (read in full...)
How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?
Q. Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...
A. 1 September 2007: Honestly its hard to put all the taboo stuff aside but I also understand you come from a completely different culture than most of us who are trying to advise you. I also understand you have some personal issues that are skewing your decision making ... (read in full...)
He left me and our 3 children twice, for someone else, but now says he wants us back. AGAIN. What should I do?
Q. Hi I had three children with my partner of 9 years. He left me during my second pregnancy but I gave him a second chance and we got back together. He then left me when I was 7 months pregnant with our 3rd child after having an affair with a (r...
A. 1 September 2007: You are in a difficult situation. Ultimately you are in control weither you believe it or not. I understand that when the S%!t is hitting the fan its hard to reason your way out but it is YOU who have to make the change because this shmuck isnt ... (read in full...)
My fiance cheated and she's pregnant. He told her in front of me that he doesn't love her but will I ever trust him again?
Q. I found out a few months ago that my Fiance had been cheating on me for 2years and the girl is now pregnant. He told her infront of me that he doesnt love her and has always loved me but couldnt seem to get rid of her. Will i ever be able to trust ...
A. 1 September 2007: One of the hardest things about being a parent is being a good role model. Children arnt stupid, they figure out what is going on eventually. Ughhh trust me they do! Maybe stepping back and putting your kid first would be the best approach here. ... (read in full...)
Myself and my husband to be have been trying for a baby for almost a year without any luck. My cycle has become erratic, has anyone got any suggestions please help!!!
Q. Myself and my husband to be have been trying for a baby for almost a year without any luck. My cycle has become erratic, has anyone got any suggestions please help!!!...
A. 1 September 2007: As a father I can understand your desire to become a parent. Its the most amazing and enriching thing you will ever do. Frank B Kermit has some valid points, stress is probably a major source of your fertility and cycle problems. I did a little ... (read in full...)
I need some tips on oral sex
Q. i really want to perform oral sex on my girlfriend (she wants it too) but im not sure how to do it!ive never had it done before and neither has she so neither of us really know what to do or know what feels good! this is my first relationship that ...
A. 31 August 2007: Well the advice on oral youve gotten is great and they have the same equipment you do so its definately from the "source". Thanks for the pointers chrissy32789 and cheerycharlie :)
I will humbly add my opinion here if I may because I, like you... (read in full...)
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