I'm married and in love with a younger co-worker. What should I do?
Q. Hi All, I'm a 30yr old Married man for 1 year now, but have been in the current relationship for 10 years. After a very long engagement we finally got married, not because we didn't want to, it was just a money thing. We have 2 kids. One form ...
A. 24 November 2009: Good man!
Glad you are taking action. You are doing way better than most.
PM me for an update when you get a chance.
Good-on-ya mate!... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 24 November 2009:
"Because DUCE, they try so hard to be GOOD, too hard"
Amen anon!
Being GOOD is only GOOD if both are being GOOD together. Otherwise it is BAD BAD BAD!
... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 24 November 2009: Cegena looks pretty babe-ilicious eh Q? I agree. Quite a waste on that cheating hubby too. Whole nother post on that subject for sure. I wonder if we would get the same fight out folks on that one eh?
"Why good women stay with cheaters"
Any tak... (read in full...)
I can't trust women and it's ruining my life!
Q. I can't trust women (it's almost like a fear, I guess and yes, I am a girl). I know why, though: I was bullied when I was younger because I couldn't speak English very well, all my female "friends" have stabbed me in the back, and most of all my ...
A. 24 November 2009: Well...I think your age and background are setting this off. I have trust issues with women too but we are in different arenas. Young women are especially cruel in my experience and they either wise up or become more coy. Another thing you can do... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 24 November 2009: Dam Q! I just got done with that big ol' speech about elevating the male species and you roll in out of no where with that? Ahhh that Texas wind beneath my wings! Where would I be with out you.
"Men are not simply dicks with a brain attached... (read in full...)
I'm Falling for a Married man, "my boyfriend"...I Need Some Advice.(affair)
Q. Im Falling for a Married Man,were having an affair. Ive allowed him to consider me as his girlfriend, and hes my "boyfriend" Ok, I will tell you all the informantion i think you need to know to understand what im going through, from beginning t...
A. 24 November 2009: Well...if you want advice as you say...STOP!
If you want some more information take a look at this thread and you will see the flip side of where you are, plus alot of heated comments etc.
http://www.de... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 23 November 2009: Well as a man I would like to say a couple things because there are NO points that have been missed by me. I am all ears because fidelity is a VERY important subject to me.
One thing I think needs some distinction here and is not being addresse... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 23 November 2009: First off: Credit to the moderators. You folks never get the credit you deserve and I am grateful for the time and energy you put in on this site. It was nice to see a referee here.
Second off: Katyayni is not somebody you will be able to judge by... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 23 November 2009: You are catching on my boy!!!
You yourself said it best.
"Frankly, I'm kind of starting to see that maybe she can't be trusted. She snuck around behind my back--she snuck around behind his back--why wouldn't she sneak around again?"
If yo... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 23 November 2009: This post hit some nerves for everybody. I don't recall folks putting so much of them selves into what they say in any previous post in my time here.
I found myself struggling for a clear answer...a perfect solution...that silver bullet of truth... (read in full...)
What movies are good to go too?
Q. Hey People!!! this is just a weird question but...i know everyone loves movies and i was just wondering.... do you think movies have been bad lately...(well suckish...you know)and... if you could produce a movie what would it be about??...
A. 22 November 2009: ?? No rude answers to the question of what movies to go "too"???
OK I will let you slide on your spelling.
I "F" it up some times TOO (proper usage of "too" by the way)
Try "Adventureland" if it is still showing. Kinda of a "chick-flick"... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 22 November 2009: Dear Anon,
The thing I respect most in all people is honesty and sincerity. Your situation is not one I would agree with but your sincerity is something that wins my respect. I mean that sincerely.
You could have tried to bullshit us with... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 22 November 2009: Basic truth:
She is in control of this situation and you are an emotional mess.
You are searching desperately for love and reason and truth and it doesn't appear to be anywhere on the current horizon.
If she is, or is not worth what you ha... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 21 November 2009: Hey DoubleM, those temptresses are still out there and willing. Nobody can miss them. They are the ones dressed like 16 year old girls and you just might mistake them from the back but a full frontal tells the whole story. Sad sad sad ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 20 November 2009: Dammit Garm! SLAP!!!
You gotta stop pining away by the dam phone!
Go do something productive, something you can take pride in.
You are wasting your life right now dude!
... (read in full...)
Do nice guys finish last? Help me get a gf!
Q. I'm a 25 year old virgin and I've never been in a relationship I feel at this point it's almost hopeless, the bad part is, is that, I'm almost ready to accept the fact that I will live out my life being alone and never understanding wh...
A. 20 November 2009: Well there are women who like ass-holes. We see them here often. They are 10 times as broken up as you and get all kind of attention from the opposite sex.
Here are a few pointers I think work and I hope the aunts jump in too.
1-Confidence!... (read in full...)
Ex still wants sexual favors... WHY?
Q. my bf and I live together but have just recently broken up. He asks me for hand-jobs, why? We are broken up but he asks me for hand jobs and also asked me if I still want something from him. I said I don't want anything sexual from him because we ...
A. 20 November 2009: He is asking you for sexual gratification because he is a highly developed and intellectually mature man.
DUUUUUHHHHHHH!!!!!
Hand him a bottle of KY and send him on his way! ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be unhappy with my girlfriend performing Burlesque shows?
Q. hi recenty my girlfriend started doing burlesque shows. i think it's just a way for her to get on stage and strip to her under wear and talk dirty with a room full of strangers. is it wrong that i don't like it, i haven't told her out right ca...
A. 20 November 2009: Ohhhh baby! Carly Fiorina! I would like to see her do a a hostile takeover at a strip pole. I would shove all 3 dollars I have in her Kevlar panties. ... (read in full...)
My wife intends to file for divorce to be with another man!
Q. I have been married for 13 years to the love of my life. Like so many other men on this site I too became comfortable in our marrige, and did not give my wife the attention she desired. We have four beautiful children together. I found out about ...
A. 20 November 2009: It sounds like a complete flip of the switch. You did not say what your shortcomings were in detail and I am just asking this to try to make sense of the situation. Can you pause in this chaos and look at that for us.
Judging her behavior as wrong... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 20 November 2009: I will take a different tact:
You are in love with her but you are still in the process of figuring out who she really is. Your emotions are clouding your judgment and that is a bad combo.
How do you think I figured that one out? Was it a bo... (read in full...)
I orgasm thinking of my ex. Does this mean I'm still attracted to him?
Q. hi i love my boyfriend more than anything in this world, been together for ten months but i have known him for years. we are really close and we have so much fun together. its just the other night when we was having sex i thought about my ex and i...
A. 19 November 2009: You are fine unless you get the names confused in a moment of passion.... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 19 November 2009: I must say that all your anger and resentment at women while having the moniker of "female" is confusing me.
You sound intelligent and have a functioning moral compass with a dash of moxie. Way too many good qualities to be mired in this garbage.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be unhappy with my girlfriend performing Burlesque shows?
Q. hi recenty my girlfriend started doing burlesque shows. i think it's just a way for her to get on stage and strip to her under wear and talk dirty with a room full of strangers. is it wrong that i don't like it, i haven't told her out right ca...
A. 19 November 2009: Ipthhh alwiiiight Q all Im bether now...sniff sniff... (read in full...)
How can I dress more attractively?
Q. i am a short , fat and black guy. plsss pour your suggestions for dressing attractively. i usually wear jeans trousers and t - shirts. but my friends insist me to wear formals that 'd be looking nice for me... plsss yur ideas!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 18 November 2009: You have to work out, pure and simple. It isn't even about losing weight primarily, you will carry yourself more confidently and that is what they will notice.
If women only looked at how men dress to be interested in them then we would have it ... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 18 November 2009: As a single man, I wish that these women stuck only to one MO in what they peruse. Women who like married men also like ANY man that makes them feel a little more powerful.
They will feed on any type of male, married or not.
I just had th... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be unhappy with my girlfriend performing Burlesque shows?
Q. hi recenty my girlfriend started doing burlesque shows. i think it's just a way for her to get on stage and strip to her under wear and talk dirty with a room full of strangers. is it wrong that i don't like it, i haven't told her out right ca...
A. 18 November 2009: On the serious side:
You probably wont be happy with this relationship. It sounds like she enjoys being the center of attention more than trying to really give what it takes to build something of value.
On the funny side:
My first experience... (read in full...)
I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!
Q. Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...
A. 18 November 2009: I agree with heartfullalove. Do not consummate this relationship. Two things could happen...
1-A trip to the emergency room with a an embarrassing boo boo
2-You grow older...get married...get divorced...and look back fondly at what a wonderful... (read in full...)
Help me get over this "desire!"
Q. How can a man get over the desire to have a threesome?...
A. 18 November 2009: On the serious side: Why is this even a problem? Are you in a relationship that its a bad subject? Dude, you are giving us nothing to work with.
On the funny side: You could just lop your dick off and end your angst.... (read in full...)
Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?
Q. there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...
A. 18 November 2009: This all makes perfect sense.
The answer is 42... (read in full...)
Mom wants me to be with another race!
Q. Hi aunts, serious problem here... my mom is obsessed with me getting married to someone of a different race of my own, I am african american and she wants me to be with someone caucasian.. She has this thing against african americans because the ...
A. 18 November 2009: Hate to say it but there is a big stereotype on black men and relationships. There are a couple white women I have met who have dated black men and don't have much nice to say about they're sense of loyalty.
We all know it aint 100% true and your... (read in full...)
What should I choose, earth shattering sex or the great looking guy who is not so good in bed?
Q. Which one should I choose earth shattering great sex you know the kind that brings a tear to your eye and make you pull out the hairs on your head and ok looks or do i choose that guy when he walks in the room everyone creams their pants. You know ...
A. 18 November 2009: Hoooraaaa for the normal looking guys!!!
Same goes for the ladies too!!!
You said something that seemed off to me though.
"Teaching is not my thing for men I have a child to teach."
For that you do deserve a little tongue lashing!
In m... (read in full...)
Should I continue to feel frustrated, or is there a simple solution to our sexual differences?
Q. I'm in a relationship with the sweetest man I've ever met.He is thoughtful caring and loving,but the problem is he doesn't care to make love.He says were at different stages in life where I'm in my 30's and wanting intimate love and he is 40 and not ...
A. 18 November 2009: Im almost 40 I think I'm about average on sexual drive.
Recently I was removed from Home Depot for an unnatural act with a shop-vac. The police officer was 50 and reminded me with a big smile that Lowes has them on sale and he got one just the... (read in full...)
I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!
Q. Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...
A. 18 November 2009: On the serious side: Sounds like projection of the Anima. Look into the school of psychology created by Carl Jung. I
think it might fit here.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anima_and_animus
On the light side: This is the perfect woman. She w... (read in full...)
My cheating wife says she wants her family back.
Q. I recently learned of an extramarital affair my wife was invloves in. I came home early to discover her texting on her cell phone. When I asked to see it she screamed empahtically no and ran into my 4 year old childs room. Upon convincing her I ...
A. 18 November 2009: When men get angry it doesn't always mean they are wrong, when women get angry it doesn't always mean they are on their period. Fair enough?
Such a broken record in the male female relations. Lets rise above folks...really!
As for the OP conce... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's threesome is haunting me...
Q. My girlfriend recently let slip that she was involved in a threesome when she was 16. The threesome involved her older sister (age 23) and the sister's boyfriend. Some things can't be unheard or rewound and it is now driving me nuts. The words ...
A. 17 November 2009: Its a collateral damage thing in my opinion. See, its all fresh to you and you have to process the stuff that she had years of digesting and getting therapy on. You probably expect her to have stronger feelings than she does about all this don't ... (read in full...)
How will my ex react if I wore another guy's jersey?
Q. heyy guys :) i need fast answers for this one please! so this guy tht i flirt with all the time wants me to wear his football jersey to school 2moro. we both jus flirt, he has a gf tht goes to a different school, we will never be in a real ...
A. 17 November 2009: I think we all need to stop beating a dead jersey here.... (read in full...)
Guys only - circumcision advice needed!
Q. ok this is a strictly GUYS ONLY question, so please i suggest that girls, dont read this. i developed a urinary tract infection, so my doc said that it is best if i get a circumcision done, as it will prevent further infections.so th...
A. 17 November 2009: I did some homework and I strongly suggest you do the same!
This is a totally new subject for me and I am circumcised from birth and never really considered all the ramifications. Almost seems like there is an advantage to being uncircum... (read in full...)
I'm at a kind of crossroads after losing a dear friend and don't know what to do with my life.
Q. A dear friend of mine passed away only 2 months ago and i cant help but feel miserable. His other friends know me and have continuously asked me to hang with them and i accept but when the day comes they dont call and ditch me for no apparent ...
A. 17 November 2009: Baby duck made some good points...
Grief is definitely a funny thing.
I know a bit about grief myself. Mine was conflicted with unresolved anger and it really messed me up for a long time. Even today it bubbles up when I watch a stupid commerc... (read in full...)
He threatened to put me out of my misery. Should I dump him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. Currently, I am not speaking to him. A couple days ago, we were talking on the phone, suggesting ideas about what we should do that day. Well, I put him on speaker phone so I could view my ca...
A. 17 November 2009: When most men get REALLY angry its a burst of rage and it is unfiltered, unedited and usually leaves him feeling pretty darned stupid afterward.
He was WAY out of line on that one but what you need to assess in this man is whether he is the psyc... (read in full...)
Husband keeps graphic photos of his two ex wives!
Q. My husband of eight years, soon to be ex, has kept a collection of pictures and videos of the sex life he shared with his two ex wives. These are very graphic -- he describes himself as perverted -- and would qualify as hard core porn, not love ...
A. 17 November 2009: I am getting smarter as I read more and more posts like this. There is a bottle of scope next to my desk and a spittoon close by for when I need to clear the upchuck that comes when I read posts like this.
Ahhhhheeemmm...
1-Erase every... (read in full...)
I'm married and in love with a younger co-worker. What should I do?
Q. Hi All, I'm a 30yr old Married man for 1 year now, but have been in the current relationship for 10 years. After a very long engagement we finally got married, not because we didn't want to, it was just a money thing. We have 2 kids. One form ...
A. 17 November 2009: Trapped or not trapped, Penny or no Penny, drunk or stone cold sober...none of that tail chasing is going to cure what is ailing you.
You are fundamentally discontent.
All the intellectualizing and remorse does not cloak the basic fact that ... (read in full...)
My cheating wife says she wants her family back.
Q. I recently learned of an extramarital affair my wife was invloves in. I came home early to discover her texting on her cell phone. When I asked to see it she screamed empahtically no and ran into my 4 year old childs room. Upon convincing her I ...
A. 17 November 2009: Ughhhhh...
Ever heard of "phantom limb syndrome". Its when a person looses a limb but can still feel it sometimes.
Right now I am feeling a 12" kitchen knife hanging out of my back. I walked around with that dammed thing in there for so lon... (read in full...)
How will my ex react if I wore another guy's jersey?
Q. heyy guys :) i need fast answers for this one please! so this guy tht i flirt with all the time wants me to wear his football jersey to school 2moro. we both jus flirt, he has a gf tht goes to a different school, we will never be in a real ...
A. 16 November 2009: Sigh...I am really sorry you didn't understand my answer. Its a real shame because you will have absolutely no chance with men by behaving like you do. You will do just fine with boys though. You have a few more years to do that. I hope for your ... (read in full...)
How will my ex react if I wore another guy's jersey?
Q. heyy guys :) i need fast answers for this one please! so this guy tht i flirt with all the time wants me to wear his football jersey to school 2moro. we both jus flirt, he has a gf tht goes to a different school, we will never be in a real ...
A. 16 November 2009: OK! Quick help is here!
Come on Lacey...cant you step out of your own shoes and get into his for 2 seconds? That's the key to making respectful choices in a relationship.
Sorry to add insult to injury but you will get far better help from... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 16 November 2009: I would change your approach to how you draw the lines in the sand on this one.
Stop making anything about her and ultimatums. To put it bluntly it is weak, and it continues to put her in the drivers seat because you are still making your choices ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 15 November 2009: Honest moment here...mental issues aside. Tread lightly brother.
Everybody has their challenges, some are lucky enough to have a medical explanation, but most are just the walking wounded trying to find peace in this chaotic world.
Don't g... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 11 November 2009: Sorry bro but my BS meter is going in high gear with all this. Unless you feel that you your life is lacking in drama and heartbreak...
GET OUT!! ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 10 November 2009: Hard as it might be to face, she might not be willing to go back to because she saw what can happen if you dont have your meds. It might have totally freaked her out.
Who she is seeing now may be a reflection of her insecurities and you should h... (read in full...)
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