I like a man, but he has a girlfriend. What should I do?
Q. I've recently met a man who I really like. The problem is that he has a girlfriend. We met at a bar and kissed and then texted each other alot which lead to him coming over to my place to get to know each other better. We chatted alot and we ha...
A. 23 January 2008: I hope you are not saying this to impress us but saying it honestly,for your sake.In the event you are telling us da truth,i congratulate you and best wishes in your future endeavours.
Good Luck.... (read in full...)
Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?
Q. I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she ...
A. 14 January 2008: You really have to be careful now.It'll be basically be your own decision.You'll have to really sit down and talk with her and understand what she's saying.However,be careful coz you may be back to square one.From my own personal experience,i would ... (read in full...)
Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?
Q. I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she ...
A. 14 January 2008: You really have to be careful now.It'll be basically be your own decision.You'll have to really sit down and talk with her and understand what she's saying.However,be careful coz you may be back to square one.From my own personal experience,i would ... (read in full...)
I found there is hope for us but I must leave her alone for some time, how do I stop thinking about her and how to stay happy even if things don't work out in the end?
Q. I had a relationship that I'm trying to get back. I found that there is hope for us and i'm willing to take the chance. I know I need to try and dissappear from her for a while so she might have the time to miss me basically. That aside, my problem ...
A. 11 January 2008: Believe it alsso makes me so sick.It seems women are becoming heartless by the day.Ladies bring up unnecesary complications in their lives.One thing i've learnt from experience is that when you truly love a lady,you might end up hurt.It's like women ... (read in full...)
Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?
Q. This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...
A. 11 January 2008: In certain cultures when a boy reaches puberty,he's taken into seclusion and taught how to be a man which includes dealing with women but i know they are few if any books that will give you such guidance and coaching.Like our friends in the east ... (read in full...)
Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?
Q. I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she ...
A. 11 January 2008: It's good that you are thinking like that.Don't allow your life to come to a standstill because of one person.You are worth more than what you've been offered.Look for better opportunities.
Take care.... (read in full...)
Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?
Q. This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...
A. 10 January 2008: That's a very classic excuse.If not that she'll tell you she doesn't know why she did it meanwhile deep down her heart she knows why.These women at times are so complicated and it feels like a waste of time understanding them.Don't bother finding ... (read in full...)
Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?
Q. This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...
A. 10 January 2008: Man you were just too much into her.I sense that maybe she was looking for something less serious than what you were offering.No matter how well you click,you always need to asses her level of commitment.Others actually cheat on this from the ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get a boyfriend?
Q. I have never had a boyfriend. Last year i asked out a guy that i liked and he said no. Ever since i have not been able to talk with boys face to face. The guy that i liked a month ago (i liked him for about a year) found out that i liked him and we ...
A. 9 January 2008: It's because you are trying too hard.Give it time,you'll soon meet someone.I also used to feel as though i'll never have a girl coz they used to turn me down.Now i have a very beautiful girl who my friends even admire.With time everything will ... (read in full...)
I can't get over the thought of her having sex with this other guy. How can I get it out of my head?
Q. Hello, I really need some help. It all started 2 years ago when the love of my life walked into my house. I fell in love and we got together. My life was great for about 2 months until she started acting different. And she ended up breaking up w...
A. 9 January 2008: Man i always wonder why da good guys are da ones treated bad by girls.I think most women have a phobia to true love.In most cases,including mine,you always find that when you really,really love a lady she'll more than likely either cheat on you or ... (read in full...)
If he's so attracted to me, why doesn't he want to get physical?
Q. I've been VERY close with my guy friend for about 5 months(we seen each other EVERY DAY and never tire!). We've talked about dating, or fooling around at least, but when the kiss that I expected NEVER came, I called him on it. (I've tried once ...
A. 9 January 2008: It's either the dude isn't really into sleeping with you because he sees you as a friend only OR he's in love with you but wants to take things slowly but is worried at how fast you want things to move.Baby girl maybe you are coming onto him too ... (read in full...)
What is going through her mind?
Q. Hie there. recently i broke up with my first true love because of arguements. i have looked at the reasons for the arguements and i dont think they are worth the love we had.now i left her a letter the other day explaining how wrong i was and how ...
A. 9 January 2008: There are ways of breaking down the wall but women love an understanding man so be just that.As much as it may puzzle your mind,just let her be for a while although that's not my style but at your age aggressiveness will get you no where.Relax and ... (read in full...)
Should I wash these men out of my Hair?
Q. Dear Cupids My current boyfriend is opening up a business that will be making some hair cosmetics products. My ex boyfriend works for an ad agency so a Chinese client that gave them a hair product making machine for free (as a gift) as a donat...
A. 9 January 2008: I see some indecision here and i see that you don't wana temot yourself with your ex.What reason are you gonna give your current boyfriend for not asking for the machine? How much do you care about him? In such situations it's best to put your ... (read in full...)
Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?
Q. I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she ...
A. 9 January 2008: It seems like women of the 21st century are becoming more heartless by the day.How can a man stop breaking hearts when his has been broken like this? I now understand and partly support those "hit and run" kind of men because they fear such things ... (read in full...)
Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?
Q. This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...
A. 9 January 2008: This is one of the more interesting questions i've ever seen on this site and was actually waiting to see other people's response.
I've been cheated on.Have you ever asked a lady why she cheated.Most of them will say they don't know why.Let me tell... (read in full...)
I found there is hope for us but I must leave her alone for some time, how do I stop thinking about her and how to stay happy even if things don't work out in the end?
Q. I had a relationship that I'm trying to get back. I found that there is hope for us and i'm willing to take the chance. I know I need to try and dissappear from her for a while so she might have the time to miss me basically. That aside, my problem ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hey man i feel your pain.I had just been going through a similar experience with my current girl until i decided toget back with her.It's either you tell her you also need your space and frequent calls are not doing you any good or you try and win ... (read in full...)
I know what an orgasm feels like but I can never get one through sex. Any advice?
Q. Ok, Im jus going to go all out here because I really need some answers, and its not making any sence to me. I masterbate, and I know exactly what having an orgasm feels like, but I never get one having sexual intercourse with my fiancee. I talked to ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hey just try to relax and don't make yourself feel you are going for the world cup! I hope things turn out well for you.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
She consented to sex but is now crying rape
Q. My friend was telling me this story about him and it has made me a bit confused. He and his girlfriend had sex for the first time a few days ago. He asked her if she wanted to have sex (they were both sober) and asked her every now and then if ...
A. 8 January 2008: It's either your friend is telling the truth or he did actually rape her.In any case don't be put off not all girls are like that.In such cases,the first thing they look for is physical evidence which may prove beyond reasonable doubt your friend ... (read in full...)
The second condom split but he did not ejaculate, does it still mean risk of pregnancy?
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend today the first time we did it he ejeculated and he changed the condom to a fresh 1 but when we started again he didnt ejeculate again but the condom split does that mean i can still get pregnant and would i need a ...
A. 8 January 2008: There are still chances of you being pregnant because even after ejaculation,some sperms are in the urethra and trickle down and end up coming out after a while so it's possible some may trickled down into you either from the new condom or from his ... (read in full...)
What can be done to dismiss the pain of first-time sex, apart from using lubricant? Is something wrong with me?
Q. My bf and I have been together for a while...I'm a virgin, but he is not. We want to have sex and are ready, but everytime we have tried it really hurts me. I know it's supposed to hurt some the first time, but this is pretty bad...and he can only ...
A. 8 January 2008: You really can't run away from the pain no matter how many hours of foreplay you do or lube you use simply because it's your 1st time.So the only solution is to just bear the pain.You won't die,that i can promise you.It'll hurt for a while but the ... (read in full...)
My bf said he could not see a future for us as we have two totally different career paths. Should I try to convince him or let go?
Q. well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year and a half.its been going really good, but the other day he wanted to talk about the future.he said that he couldnt see 2 people(as in us) who have two totaly different career paths to ...
A. 8 January 2008: I'm also thinking the same that your man has a hidden agenda and is using career path excuse to convince you.There are two options.Either you try to convince him,you never know he may just change his mind and stay,it's worth the risk,that's if you ... (read in full...)
I thought we were both virgins, but she isnt , can we still have a future?
Q. I am just about to get married, and I am still a virgin. I just found out my future wife has had sex with a couple guys before me. I was hurt when i found this out...and still am...because I was expecting her to be a virgin too... I love her very ...
A. 8 January 2008: Man i understand your worry and disappointment and probably expect everyone hear to tell you to leave her because she lied to you.Think through carefully.If she had told you her whole sex history,would you have even reached this stage of almost ... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's bf...a lot! Should I go after him?
Q. ok i really like this guy but his girlfriend is like my best friend............and im best friends with him to.............but i really like him... i dont no what to do!!! i dont want to ruin our friendship!!! and he likes me to! and i really rea...
A. 8 January 2008: I really don't know how you girls think but the way i've grown up as a man and boy,my brothers',my friends' and especially my best friends' girlfriends are out of bounds no matter how attractive they may be and no matter what they may ... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's bf...a lot! Should I go after him?
Q. ok i really like this guy but his girlfriend is like my best friend............and im best friends with him to.............but i really like him... i dont no what to do!!! i dont want to ruin our friendship!!! and he likes me to! and i really rea...
A. 8 January 2008: I really don't know how you girls think but the way i've grown up as a man and boy,my brothers',my friends' and especially my best friends' girlfriends are out of bounds no matter how attractive they may be and no matter what they may ... (read in full...)
I plan to wait for a person to "discover" me and love me for who I am, but how do I find the strangth to wait?
Q. I've only been loved by one person...... And I want to be loved but, I know I need to wait and let it find me...... But I want to know how do I make myself want to wait?!?!?! I've been trying to figure it out for a while and I was wondering if any ...
A. 8 January 2008: I know how you must be feeling.Most of us have grown up thinking like that.If you really want what you are saying,i'd advise you to adopt a few things.Don't jump into any relationship a guy offers you.I can testify that when you are single you think ... (read in full...)
Any way I can have an abortion without my parents' knowledge - at my age?
Q. Hey i just found out i pregnent... i cant tell my mum n dad they will KILL me, is there any way i can get rid of it with out them knowing???...
A. 8 January 2008: Don't worry the'll kill you in such a way that you won't die! We all feel like that when we are scared of our parents but the truth is that they can't kill you.So no matter how scared you are know that they can't kill you.Just tell them what ... (read in full...)
I love him but the spark has gone. How do we rekindle what we used to have?
Q. Hi. I am a 21 year old female who has been engaged for 4 years to my highschool sweetheart. He has been with me through some pretty tough times, including the revelation that I was molested by my stepfather. We used to have a very sexually exciting ...
A. 8 January 2008: I really wish i could go to school and understand this particular behaviour about women.My girlfriend is going through a similar phase and even ended up cheating on me.Based on what i'm going through right now,there are two options.Either you stay ... (read in full...)
I know what an orgasm feels like but I can never get one through sex. Any advice?
Q. Ok, Im jus going to go all out here because I really need some answers, and its not making any sence to me. I masterbate, and I know exactly what having an orgasm feels like, but I never get one having sexual intercourse with my fiancee. I talked to ...
A. 8 January 2008: Welcome to the big family of women who never come from penetration only.You are one of the many women who may learn to enjoy oral sex (cunnulingus) and if done right may help you get started on having an orgasm.To be honest,i find it easier to make ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with the way we have sex?
Q. I am a 20 year old female and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a long time. This is a really embarassing question but I feel like I have no one else to ask. My boyfriend and I are both sexually active and have had sex many times ...
A. 8 January 2008: Stop thinking that you must ejaculate for you to fully have and enjoy an orgasm! That's wrong.You need to understand what sexual pleasure is and it does not automatically mean female ejaculation.What's important is to be able to orgasm if you can ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated on me but she says nothing was wrong in our relationship, what can I do to understand why this happened?
Q. Hi All My girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me in december with somebody from work. As you can understand i was pretty shocked by this and am still hurting now. I asked her why she did this and she said that she didnt know why. I asked her if the...
A. 4 January 2008: Welcome to the big sad family of "cheated on".My girlfriend(or ex) also says she doesn't know why she cheated on me.I wish i could talk to that female anon who cheated and learn abit more about a woman's brain.Atleast she's willing to continue with ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being jealous of his sexual past?
Q. Ok, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. He wasn't a virgin and I knew it. It was a nice first time, way better than I expected. However, I always grew up with this fantasy of losing it with anoter virgin. I thought it'd make things more spec...
A. 4 January 2008: I get the same feeling as well about my girl but i think the problem you have is that you have always had this fantasy about losing it to another virgin.Forget his past and enjoy him for as long as you can.Besides you have the whole future ahead of ... (read in full...)
I pushed her to open up to me, so she dumped me; her friend says she likes me but finds it hard to be close to someone because of her past. Any ideas?
Q. I was in a long distance relationship for 6 months,i admit i went much to fast i really fell for her,we are both middle aged and early on Ann told me she issues with feelings and expressing herself,her mother gave her away when she was 12 and her ...
A. 4 January 2008: Some women are like that and the earlier you understand that the better.She needs her space but tell her how sorry you are for pushing her beyond.I guess you could use the services of Ann again.Just plead your case and i'm sure she'll give in but if ... (read in full...)
Should I fight for her or let her go?
Q. I was with my girlfriend for almost two years and it was a long distants relationship. She was always kind of insecure and I never knew why...I never really gave her a reason to be. We had always planned to get married and settle down eventually...a ...
A. 4 January 2008: "Never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love".What were you up to flirting with your ex and you never even had the decency to erase her messages incase yo gal checked your mail as ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for 'doggy fashion' to hurt like this?
Q. Me and my bf have been together for over a year now, and have recently started having sex. Don't get me wrong, I love it. But I've began to have a problem. He wants doggy all the time... He has this way of making sure we do it, and I try to move ...
A. 4 January 2008: There's nothing unusual about it all.When you position yourself in doggy style you are actually reducing the distance between your vagina and cervix,which is the reason it will hurt for most women all over the world.Some enjoy that pain ,others like ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend lives at campus and has nine males as roommates, I don't know what to think and do?
Q. I have been dating this girl for about two and a half years now. It has been a great relationship for the most part. We have helped each other through hard times in both our lives. However, there is five and a half year age difference between us. ...
A. 4 January 2008: Man i suggest you help her find another place because it seems you'll never be comfortable with just like i wouldn't.I trusted my girl 100% until i found out she had cheated on me.Don't wit for disaster to open your eyes.We are all human as you've ... (read in full...)
I have a conscience - so what should I do?
Q. Hi , got a love letter from a guy already in a relationship with someone else but has been a long - term admirer saying that " he thinks we are on the same wavelength " , and finished the letter with" don't forget the happy ending " . ...
A. 4 January 2008: Be brave and make the right decision.Don't do something that'll hurt others because others may do the same thing to you.Tell him you can't get involved with him because he's seeing sum1 and don't give him hope that if he dumps her you'll have your ... (read in full...)
I am ready to commit to someone. How will I find the right girl?
Q. Dear Cupid My situation is probably fairly commonplace. I was with a girl from Spain for nearly 4 years. We met in boston, at the New England conservatory of Music (we're both musicians). About a year and a half ago we broke up. The c...
A. 4 January 2008: There i was thinking i'm being childish about my girl breaking up with me.It seems love's got da same effect no matter the age.The 1st step was getting over her and you've done that.2nd will be patience and you are still learning that.3rd will be ... (read in full...)
I want to date my borthers friend, but how do you think he'll react?
Q. hi i wonder if anyone can help me. i have know my brothers best friend for over 10years now he is nearly 18 and i am almost 16. i have always had this feeling that there was something between us as he would always make time 2 come and c me n talk 2 ...
A. 4 January 2008: As a guy i'd really have reservations about my young sis dating one of my friends.If it were my older sis,i would have less reservations.There are two options here.
1.You forget about dating him and look elsewhere
2.You hook up without your bro... (read in full...)
I like a man, but he has a girlfriend. What should I do?
Q. I've recently met a man who I really like. The problem is that he has a girlfriend. We met at a bar and kissed and then texted each other alot which lead to him coming over to my place to get to know each other better. We chatted alot and we ha...
A. 4 January 2008: You should do what you'd expect anyother woman to do if that guy were your boyfriend.However,it's really up to you because it's clear you've really fallen for the guy.If you don't mind being the other woman,go ahead.But if you want a man of your ... (read in full...)
How can I make my girlfriend orgasm (faster)?
Q. Hi there My girlfriend and i have been togethere for 5months now, and we are having sex, but i can't seem to make her come, and i come so kwickly sometimes, sometimes when she comes, but she takes verrrrrrrrry long, is there anything i can d...
A. 4 January 2008: From my personal experience,if you make giving her an orgasm your goal,you are bound to fail.Just relax and arouse her as long as possible and enjoy each other.Let the orgasm come naturally.My current partner is more challenging in bed and i used ... (read in full...)
I have been apart from my ex bf for a year now, we have however maintained contact and he is always sweet and flirty! Should I ask him back?
Q. Hi I need help I have been apart from my ex bf for approx a year now but we continued to text and talk after the initial dust had settled, It was the most painful time of my life so far because i truly love him so much, i believe that we should ...
A. 4 January 2008: Since you guys had been dating i can support that da next time you meet up get flirty with him and see how he reacts and try mantaining eye contact.It tells alot.At this point don't tell him yet,wait for his reaction.Then arrange to meet again.You ... (read in full...)
Do I deserve this mental torture? I forgave my ex everytime she decided our break ups were a mistake, and every time I forgave her she broke up again.
Q. hi i am 38 years old , never married or engaged . I thought maybe i had commitment issues and always thought the grass was greener on the other side . One year ago i met a lady , a single mother and got on really well with her six year old child. We...
A. 3 January 2008: Even though your situation is more complicated and you are more older,i'm going through a similar situation with my ex.Only that i'm the one who keeps asking her back even after she breaks up with me.Even though some people think men are naturally ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of one year started hanging out with another guy! She tells me not to worry but I feel something is not right, what am I to do?
Q. Hello there. My girlfriend and I are together for more than one year now. I love her so much that I can't even tell you. Recently she met some guy and it is obvious that he likes her. She knows that but tells me not to worry. She says that she likes ...
A. 3 January 2008: As a guy handling a disappointment,i have to say you'd downnright dumb to sit back and think all's ok.You need to ask yourself why is she spending so much time with him.It's understandable if it's a friend she's known for ages.In your case,i ... (read in full...)
He can't seem to make me orgasm... Is there something wrong with me?
Q. Hiya, me and my guy have been together for a while, and the problem is when ever we trying to please each other i never have any problems pleasing him and making him cum, but when it comes down to me i always struggle, he seems to hit all the righ...
A. 3 January 2008: There's really nothing wrong with you,you both need to relax and stay abit longer on the foreplay.Fingering is also another way of overcoming this and if he's ok with it and you are.Let him go down you.Women are usually more tense than men when it ... (read in full...)
How can I make my girlfriend orgasm (faster)?
Q. Hi there My girlfriend and i have been togethere for 5months now, and we are having sex, but i can't seem to make her come, and i come so kwickly sometimes, sometimes when she comes, but she takes verrrrrrrrry long, is there anything i can d...
A. 3 January 2008: I strongly believe the longer the foreplay the better the sex.Did you know that it takes about the same time for a man and a woman to reach climax but what's needed is to get her to what we call the plateau of sex,where she's ready for intercourse.I ... (read in full...)
Girls tell me I am good looking and nice but they never give me a chance!
Q. I'm a 10Th grader in high school i went to a small private middle school so i didn't have many social skill coming into high school i really wanted to meet a girl (my first girl) but two years later i've been rejected many times and i don't know wat ...
A. 3 January 2008: Dude relax.There's nothing wrong with you except you thinking looks will win you girls.Girls are more interested in guys with "mojo".Get to make friends 1st and you'll slowly learn what girls really look for in guys.I know i don'y have the looks but ... (read in full...)
Ex seems confused, won't reconcile but wants to stay in contact - what should I do?
Q. My ex of 15 months broke up with me 5 weeks ago, said she didn't think her feelings for me were strong enough anymore. We didn't have any contact or a few weeks (we're at different universities) but over the Christmas period I've bumped into her a ...
A. 2 January 2008: I like your line of thinking.Quite mature.She seems to be unsure about you and being friends with her may be risky on your part unless you are excellent at drawing the line.She doesn't want the committment part but misses your affection.My ex's ... (read in full...)
How can I make myself believe there's no hope of a future with him?
Q. I'm 27. I dated a guy for two and a half years, and he was the love of my life. It wasn't my first serious, long-term relationship, or even the first time i'd been in love, but it was the first time i felt like I knew what people meant when they ...
A. 2 January 2008: I feel your pain girl.I'm in a similar situation even though i'm a man.My ex likes it when i call her everyday and even plans on coming to visit me and stay over.I know it must hurt when your heart still wants him back but he doesn't want the same ... (read in full...)
I really like him but he's with someone else at the moment. He wants us to start off as friends. What should I do?
Q. I kissed a one of my friend's friends last night and he just started seeing someone new. They aren't together, but I still felt bad about it because she was passed out in another room. I guess it was because I was drunk and so was he, but he kissed ...
A. 2 January 2008: Never a good thing to help someone cheat on their partner.You always have to imagine if you were the victim,how you would feel.Be friends for now and give it some time.I'm sure with time,you'll see what happens.
Take care... (read in full...)
I have been apart from my ex bf for a year now, we have however maintained contact and he is always sweet and flirty! Should I ask him back?
Q. Hi I need help I have been apart from my ex bf for approx a year now but we continued to text and talk after the initial dust had settled, It was the most painful time of my life so far because i truly love him so much, i believe that we should ...
A. 2 January 2008: I really wish i was your ex.It's really sweet when a lady wants you back and if you truly love her,as a man,you won't hesitate to have her back in your arms.However,either way there's always a risk that your ex may not want the same thing but hey no ... (read in full...)
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