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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Why is my ex bad mouthing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - My ex and i dated for about a year. He was the one who broke it off not really giving a reason. We have been broken up for about three months and i haven't spoken to him since February. My question is why is he bad mouthing me to others saying im ...

Can I reconcile with my gay best friend under these circumstances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4401 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - Hey guys.. I need help here. So i have been trying to reconcile with my ex who is a male. Long story short, he was my bestest friend and although we never clearly opened up to each other that we are gay/bi, i can sorta confirm he liked me (romanti...

My ex is torturing me because I had to break up with her! What can I do? Can I approach the police?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - hello all.. i really need some help. i am in terrible situation. i had my first girl friend (for 1 year) and we had to breakup for some reason and after that i really didnt want to get into a serious relationship. i met this lady in club who is...

I'm 22 weeks pregnant and I think he might be cheat on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - When I started a new job last June, I started a relationship with a man at work. Not the best timing since he was just at the beginning of ending his 12 year marriage. That being said, I guess I'm worried now. I've heard rumors of him cheating, and ...

Best sex with the ex and will that happen with another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Hello! I recently broke up with a guy who I had dated for a few months. It wasn't for lack of attraction or enjoying each others' time - basically, he didn't see it going further, so whatever. It's done and I'm moving on. Trying to anyway. Thing is ...

How do I get back my ex? We've started talking and see each other regularly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - What do I do? I think I love my ex again but this time it is different. We broke up two years ago and since then we have both matured and lately we have been speaking more especially over the last three months we have been speaking nearly ever...

Getting married but all I can do is think of my ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Hi, thanks for reading this. I am a mother of 1 in my 30's Getting married next year but all I can think about is my ex!! We were together 10 years ago for 8 years and haven't seen each other much since! Our parents are friends and we have a fe...

Is it normal for the person you are dating to tell you that they will always love their ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Is it normal for a guy you're seeing to tell you they'll always love their ex? This ex was actually his first real love, and I'm the first person he's dating after he's been with her. I'm wondering if it's normal because the last guy I da...

Why doesn't my ex want me to date his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I want to remain in contact with my ex- we finished 4 weeks ago. We were talking regulary still but not as much but in the last week or so its became even less- which upsets me. I miss him. I miss the conversations we used to have. He just clearly ...

Why does my ex have one rule for me and another for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Why does my ex have one rule for me and another for him? My.ex snd I parted in Jan this yr. He was verbally, emotional and occasionally physically abusive to me. I wasn't battered but.he certainly had no respect.for me. I ended it and he left. ...

Why does my boyfriend act defensive when I ask him to delete ex's pic off of his phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - im in a longdistance relationship. we knew each other for 2 years and 8 months together. he just went here last month for holiday. hes in australia and im from singapore. when he was here in singapore i open his phone accidentally saw his ex ...

Why has he not offered to take me out? He's my ex. He'll spend time with me but that's it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I am starting to develop feelings for my ex-boyfriend AND I don't really know If he's attracted or if he still has feeling for me. We dated years back AND I hadn't seen him in quite some time, like 11 years ago. He is not married, but he is dati...

Boyfriend liking/saving sexy pictures of exes and attractive female friends, how to overcome my jealousy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - I know my plight is not as dire as some and I should consider myself lucky its not worse. I just want to know how to get over my anger and jealousy so we dont have to fight about it anymore! My boyfriend of nearly 6 years (hes in his early thirti...

My friend is dating my ex. I want to hate her but I miss her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - A couple of months back, one of my friends decided she wanted to be with my ex boyfriend as she had strong feelings for him (which i knew nothing about until it was too late) He and I had only just decided that we weren't going to stay in touch an...

Over three years and I still can't get her out of my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - Hello, right this is an ongoing thing really, about 3-4 years ago a long relationship of 5 years ended pretty bad. We hadn't been talking for about 3 months because I locked my self away because I didn't feel I could give her what she deserved. ...

Did my ex want me to kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Hello, I am a 16 year old female. My ex-girlfriend is going out with my ex-best friend at the moment. The thing is that I am in love with her and she knows it. Her girl friend does not want her talking to me but she does anyway because she says she ...

Boyfriend is going on holiday with his ex wife and kids, should I just accept it or should I say something?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 779 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Iv been dating a guy since January and he has just told me that at the end of may he will be going on holiday for a week to Tenerife with his ex wife and their two children. He says it's just to make the children happy but I still feel jealous and ...

Is this hard demeanor just a front because he still has feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - I have recently started hanging out with my ex-boyfriend. We had not seen each other in over 10 years. We dated and lived together for 4 years and I left him because we both were hot heads, young, immature and did not know how to compromise ...

I'm falling for my ex again, but she's not giving me any assurances

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - Hey everyone, My problem is getting back with an ex. We broke up about 2 months ago, after a nearly all that time waiting for her I started to move on but then she suddenly wanted me back. I happily said yes as we never broke up for any decent r...

Why is my ex planning to copy my travel dreams when he said he hates traveling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - My ex is planning to travel to the same country I went to, after refusing to come with me when we were together. I broke up with my ex 4 months ago. We were together for over 3 years. I broke up because I felt he showed little interest in sharing ...

He told his ex he loves her then denied it with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - I just saw emails that my boyfriend sent his ex 2 weeks ago, that say how he misses and loves her. There was mention that he had a girlfriend but yet he stated he love her......why? Also he lied to Me by telling me he never bought her an engageme...

Why hasn't he asked me to be his girlfriend yet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - i have been dating a great guy for 2 months now and we agreed to only see each other, but he has never asked me to be his girlfriend. could this be because he thinks it is still too soon? or maybe he isnt over his ex, who he broke up with at ...

Is this just a gift or does it mean more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - My ex and I broke up when I was 14 wks pregnant. His choice not mine . Through my whole pregnancy he was less than Kind. As advised by an attorney I kept him up to date on dr appointments and allowed him to be at the birth. We were together...

My roomate and my ex are getting too friendly, am I wrong for being upset about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - My roommate and I are supposed to be best friends. Well about six months ago, I dated this girl that I really, really cared about. My roommate knew I really cared for her and knew that when we broke up, it really effected me. Well fast forward six ...

My ex and his mother are both strangers to my son yet they expect me to hand over my son when they come to visit! How can I find peace with this visit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - My son is 3 years old. He hasn't seen his father since he was 18 months old. Suddenly, his father wants to take a visit across the country to visit for a week, (with my ex-mother-in-law), none of whom have kept a relationship going via internet, ...

Him and His new "girlfriend" like to taunt me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - A guy that I dated for years all of a sudden didn't want to see me anymore. It had always been kind of casual but we had always been really close friends, for over 10 years. When he said he no longer wanted to see me, he said that he just didn't f...

will you always love your first love more than other boyfriends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I'm going to try and make this as short as i can. When i was 16 i lost my virginity to my then boyfriend and got pregnant but suffered a misscariage. This has affected me badly and still 4years on it hurts as much. Me and the dad split up not long ...

He cheated and had a baby with another girl, we broke up because of this but he still thinks he can get me back! How do I tell him he has no chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - This guy and I were together for almost a year from 2010-2011. While we were together I thought everything was fine until 2011 came and he told me he had a baby. After finding that out, I ended it with him because the baby was a newborn meaning that ...

My ex husband kept coming around my house but now claims he hates my guts! What is going on?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - My exhusband has been coming around the house, I do let him with hopes things were maybe going to work out.. but I noticed he never asked me out for coffee or anywhere....I am not ugly..I dont want to sound conceited but I dont have trouble getting ...

Can't move on and it's painful...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4406 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - Hello, Thank you so much for reading my email Ill try to be short. My ex and I dated for about 1.5 years, the last half year was mostly on/off and we were both immature and I myself made a lot of mistakes (as I am learning now). To make...

Why is my ex hanging around my family? She is only friend's with my brothers ex! Am I in the wrong for being annoyed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

25 April 2012 (?) - Okay, I've been split up with my long term girlfriend now for just over a year now. She was friends with my brother's girlfriend and my brother has been civil to her as he didn't want any fighting. He's kind of a passive guy. My brother has a ...

Should I be roomates with my ex boyfriend who is still interested in me, and I kinda like him too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I was in a relationship for four months and then my boyfriend decided to break up in March. There were many reasons, but one was that he felt I was comparing him with my ex. I probably was, but I really wanted to get over my ex (that was another ...

I think I'm in love with my first love again and I want to make it official with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

24 April 2012 (M) - Wow, it's been over a year since I last visited this site but I definitely need you guys to help me out here. I'll probably be waffling so I apologise. If anybody remembers my last question 13 months ago roughly, I had a horrible post break up ex...

I'm in love with my ex's brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

24 April 2012 (?) - I fell in love with my ex boyfriend's brother. We became good friends while I was with his brother. I broke off with his brother about two years ago because he has a really difficult and selfish character. Even though it was hard for him when I ...

I want to get married to this man someday, but to stand at the alter with the man who used to abuse me standing by his side, is unthinkable!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I love the man I am with, unfortunately his best friend is an ex of mine, an abusive ex. His argument is that they have been friends longer than I have known him and that everyone makes mistakes. He is a godly man and believes we need to forgive one ...

She has a new boyfriend. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) - Ok so Ive dated a girl on and off for almost six years. We were really in love, my niece was even named after her (crazy i know) of course we had ups and downs. This time she broke it off over some issues we had, she wanted me to leave her alone. A...

Is it weird that my boyfriend still talks to his ex girlfriends mum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Is it wierd that my boyfriend still talks to his ex girlfriends mum about how much he misses the family? Let me give you some background.. He was with the girl for about a year and a half and, as it was a long distance relationship he would often go...

My ex is now married and I'm having a hard time actually moving on with my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) - Hey all, so I used to write on here a while back when my ex and I broke up. Basically the gist is that she started dating a new guy like a few days after ending it with me. I pretty much assumed that she had feelings for him and wanted to be with ...

I think that's his way of breaking up?? So I move on for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - I am in need to vent. My ex-bf and I have been having some issues. We've been on and off for a while. He initiated the first two and I initiated the last one. I initiated because I was just so tired of him not responding to me and just wishing he ...

Does it sound as if my ex-boyfriend could be the motive behind this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - It's been almost a year since the break-up between my ex and I, and we haven't spoken to each other since. Well, when I decided to check my Facebook page I noticed that I had a new friend request. So I simply clicked to find out who it was, and it ...

My boyfriend cheated with over 26 women, how do I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - Dear cupid I need advice on how to stop thinking about my horrible ex boyfriend and moving on with my life. I cant sleep I can barely eat I'm so hurt but anyway here's the story. We were together for three years, high school sweethearts and very ...

I think I'm in love with his brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 6 months ago when we were in a relationship he had cheated on me 3 times maybe more! We was living together so when it ended I moved out I had no where to go so I stayed at his mothers for a bit,I was happy their until I ...

Do I still like/love my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4409 days ago

21 April 2012 (F) - there is this guy an ex boyfreind of mine. he got really hurt the other day and i was there it was scary i thought he was going to die he went to hospital.one day after that happened i made him a card and everyone signed it we were going to give it ...

Why does my ex try to get my attention when I'm with my b/f?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

21 April 2012 (F) - Hello, recently ive had a double guy problem. I have this ex who I fell in love with but is kinda a jerk and comes and goes as he pleases and breaks my heart. This has happend 4 times already in the past year, he leaves then begs me to come back. ...

Should I consider going back to my ex after years apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

21 April 2012 (F) - My ex and I split over 10 years ago while I was pregnant. I wanted children but he was already a father and wasn't reliable so decided he would leave for mine and the babys sake. He went on with his life getting married etc and I with mine, finding ...

My boyfriend thinks I still have a thing for my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - I am a 40-something woman dating a 40-something man for over a year. I have been divorced for 6 years and have done a little dating, but have only had one serious relationship before my current boyfriend. I met my ex husband just after high school ...

Still sleeping with my FWB when I have an amazing guy waiting for me....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - The man I love (M) lives across the country from me. We have decided that when I move back we will be together but it's really hard for me to cut the ties I have here. I was with M for 1 1/2 before I move and we were on good terms when I left. He ...

I still can't get over his indiscretion of 3 years ago! What can I do without professional help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

20 April 2012 (F) - To cut the long story short, me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years now. When we first went out, I found out he spoke to his ex behind my back saying sexual things to her. I was absolutely mortified by this, it made me very ill at the time. ...

He texts his ex every day. Should I be trusting him, despite all this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 5 years - he's never cheated on me but he texts his ex who is the mother of his daughter everyday. Sometimes up to 36 texts per day. I've asked what do they talk about and he responds with "things about our ...

We split up 2 years ago. How do I get over him? It's getting harder not easier.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

19 April 2012 (F) - my ex boyfriend and I split up for 2 years now, I know what you're probably thinking 'you're only a teenager', but I still find myself crying myself to sleep most nights thinking about him. I really try my hardest not to think about him but its ...