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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend is out flirting with women while I'm home studying. All I get from him was a drunk text 3 days ago. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Today at night I received a message from our mutual friend that my bf was flirting and kissing with women at some party. Not a woman but women. I am pretty hurt. We had a good relationship but last three weeks he behaved really weird. He didn't want sex sometimes, he pushed m... (177 words)

Does sleeping in separate beds always lead to the end of a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - does sleeping in separate beds always lead to the end of a relationship? i ask because my fiance and i live together and i find it hard to sleep next to him due to his snoring. i've had important professional exams today, so for the last week, he's slept in the spare room to ... (255 words)

While I know that I completely ruined everything by expressing my fear of sadness when he's away, and deserve his current feelings, am I stupid to believe that he'll come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupids, I would really appreciate some advise..Apologies for the long post! I've been with a guy for the last year and a half..I adore him...We've had several ups and as many downs..I am his first proper relationship and he is my third. In a few days, he lea... (423 words)

Why do guys pay flirty, promiscuous girls so much attention?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Do guys usually like the flirty and promiscuous type of girls? I need some advice because I hate to say I'm a little jealous of this girl I know who gets so much attention from my guy friends and just a lot of guys in general. She sleeps around with them and is always flirti... (159 words)

How will I manage not being able to see the guy I have a crush on as often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have an issue, im currently about to leave my sixth form after 7 years. I have liked this guy for majority of the time, and i'm wondering just how i am going to manage with not seeing him so regularly. We've always had a sort of weird relationship, never properly dated or... (155 words)

What advice can I give my friend whose long distance boyfriend seems aloof?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, It's been a long time since I was here. You all were great help. So now I'm back with a question for my friend. My friends have been in a relationship for 5 years. Mostly they are in Long Distance Relationship, since the boy went to study abroad. They started the... (162 words)

How can I tactfully reject him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, First off thank you in advance for taking the time to read and offer advice :) I have a FRIEND that insists on hanging out with me and stuff. He invited me to a wedding in Washington state, he calls me "sexy", "Pretty lady" and things like that, he will always... (790 words)

My long distance girlfriend has been avoiding me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Actually my girlfriend has started behaving strangely from past few days.. we are in a long distance relationship and now we are going to complete our 2 months. so here my problem goes.. we have met just 2-3 times then we came in a relationship on whatsapp.. firstly we u... (183 words)

I'm drawn to my girlfriend's friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

23 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We have had our ups and downs like anybody and currently we have been getting along great and having a blast together. But for the past two years now, I have not been able to stop thinking about her best friend. ... (206 words)

I feel jealous now that my ex-boyfriend has a new girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've dated this guy when i was in school. He was my first boyfriend but we broke up after 5 months, we were still young and didn't know how to work things out. Now that 7 years pass we remain friends, we still keep in touch and some days we would just hang out and do crazy st... (182 words)

No sex for 2 years - should I walk away from this otherwise happy relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age - My mate and and I have not had sex for 2 years He says he can't get a hard on anymore, but he can materbate and watch porn alone, I am not sure if it is me or if he avoids me, I am happy about everything else in our relationship but the sex. He keeps saying he is going to get ... (81 words)

Does guys keep their female friends so long so close because they really want to be just friends or because they like them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend of 5 years and I kinda like him ever since we first met. He is an amazing guy and I would love to be more than just friends, but even though we are close, and there is some tension, he never actually said he likes me or he never tried to kiss me on the lips ... (331 words)

My girlfriend may be hiding her past from me. How can I know whether she's a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

23 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey friends.. I have a girlfriend and i love her much. we are in relationship from past 2 months. we met and became friends in her hometown. actually i guess that she is hiding her past from me and i dont feel good..so here her past goes.. she went to a different town f... (192 words)

When is the right time to take down dating profile when you've met someone you like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts I've been dating someone for several weeks, all is going well, and it's getting increasingly intimate though we havent had sex. I only date one person at a time, which is still normal for my generation in the UK. I met him online and we both still have our profi... (301 words)

Am I being selfish? My BF wants me to wait and travel with me - I want to travel next year, with or without him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes my boyfriend’s family make me feel swamped. They talk business all the time. My boyfriend and I both attended high school together and University together though he is one year ahead of me. The plan is to finish our studies and do some travel and then settle down. I... (394 words)

My fiance says that if I gain weight, he won't make love to me in the same way! How should I respond?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age - My fiance has told me he hates fat women. He thinks they are disgusting and have no self control. His mother is heavy and he points to her for his reasoning. He told me, while making love to me, that if I ever gain weight, that he will not make love to me in the manner th... (153 words)

Ex BF says he won't consider a reconciliation if I go on a holiday with my friend! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been split up with my ex for 3 weeks now. We were living together and he said he wanted a break. We have argued constantly over the 2 years it seems he wants me of a weekday then of a weekend he just wants his mates. I can admit I have been to soft with my ex boyfrien... (278 words)

I don't know if I've had an orgasm. What does it feel like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm just going to get right down to what I want to ask. I just recently lost my virginity and before any of you very nice agony aunts ask if I used protection and all that. I did, that was the first thing I made sure we had, it was a whim, but I'm happy. I picked a really... (180 words)

My bf's sex drive has dropped and I am worried he may not be interested in me. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm having insecurities about sex and my boyfriend. He's recently started a low carb diet to get more in shape. He's a trainer and knows a lot about food. He says his sex drive has dropped since he started it. We were doing it about 4-5 times a week and now it is on... (231 words)

We broke up. What life lessons can I learn from this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - hi aunts and uncles.... i finally got the chance to ask my ex after a year and a half of being seperated and divorced, why he left me. i wanted to know what mistakes i made so that my next relationship would not end up breaking up because of a mistake i had made. he t... (542 words)

Living with an abusive partner but we are not together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for ~8years. In JULY 2012 HE kicked me out of his house. Then wen me and my son had no place to live he paid for my ticket back to live at his house and raise our son. We r not together anymore. During those past years he was and still is physically ... (241 words)

Can you think of advice that could give me encouragement with the big life change I'm facing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts and Uncles: It seems like I need encouragement. I wish it were something my folks could give me. I have been in a stable and loving relationship with my boyfriend for over 4 years. I am in my mid-twenties now and he is in his thirties. He has a master’s degree... (541 words)

Feels like my Gf does not trust me. How can I cheer her up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4007 days ago

23 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - "Dear Cupid", I just got a girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. We get along really well and we love being around each other because we can almost predict what the other one is thnkng, which I think is a massive improvement on how we acted around each oter the first few days, bu... (274 words)

Am I being "friendzoned"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 May 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I really like. I've been hanging out with her for the past month and a half: I got her number, she started texting me, we've gone to the movies and to a bar afterwards and we really connected. Then, last saturday she came to my house to watch a movie an... (292 words)

Is he using me? He gives me no physical contact but wants me to buy things for him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple weeks now. So far I have bought dinners, lunch, he told me he needed sunglasses, and then that he needed rent. He doesnt have a car and have been running him up and down the road. I dont particularly mind, but sometimes I wonder ... (99 words)

At what point has a relationship boundaries been crossed and the necessity for privacy to go by the wayside?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

23 May 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been struggling with some issues in my relationship. My girlfriend of a year has remained in contact with some exes. She has stated that its not a big deal they just message her on occasion and the conversations do not really go beyond "hello". It has always bothe... (417 words)