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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Spoilt for choice! Which girl should I ask out?

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18 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am stuck between to girls I care for. I know the both like me and that I could ask either of them out. Problem is I don't know which one to ask out. One girl is my ex girlfriend who I've been having new feelings for one which I think is love the other is this girl I met this ... (86 words)

I am inexperiened in love. And too embarassed that I'm a virgin. Should I reveal this to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem that i feel quite embarassed about. I'm almost 27 years old, and i'm still a virgin. That makes me feel bad enough, but what makes me feel even worse is that i am currently interested in a man who is 23 years older than me. He apparently has only had a coup... (545 words)

She's 59 and I'm 18 so how can I tell her I love her? Also she's with someone.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Help i am in love with my mums friend and i think she likes me too. But she is with some one and she has two kids. I am 18. i really want to tell her but i am not sure because she is with this other person and she is 59 and she doesn't act nor look like that age at all. plea... (73 words)

Got addicted to on-line interaction and want to stop

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am going to ask again a question I posted yesterday but I am going to summarize things because I have realized people simply tend not to answer long questions. For those who want to take a look at the original question: ... (383 words)

Is and why is my ex girl friend playing games? Or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically...my gf of 12 months spilt up with me and got a bf within 3 weeks after the break up...mutual friends assure me that she didn't cheat... This week I went to see my mates who live in the same town as my ex and 3 different girls (her friends) have told me that my ... (340 words)

How can I let her down gently? She was a virgin. I was drunk. Her family could be a problem

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. i slept with my best mates sister the other day. im 20 shes 18 it was just a drunken mistake at a party. but she thinks were together how can let her down gently and without her family finding out. also make thing worse she was a virgin. plz help asap... (57 words)

I'm attached to him, dream about him. How can we be together despite obstacles?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, this is a question about my boyfriend. Anyways, i have been seeing the same guy for three months today. And his family is c r a z y to say the least. His mom has a tight grip on him because his brother had become a whore after dating a girl in high school so she absolute... (359 words)

I only talked to the new guy. Nothing else. How can I get my regular boyfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i need a bit of relationship advice now (sorry for this being long) im 14 and my bfs 15 were both in year 10 and the other day we were at a party recently we have been inseparable i dont know why but any way at this party we were at there was this new boy in our year and i a... (298 words)

I don't want to be messed around by a guy. How do I determine what he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, So, I met a guy a while ago and i was seeing him for a about a month. So much has happened. To cut it really really short; we were seeing each other, going really well, couple weeks in we argued on a night out because i got a tad jealous because i was ridiculously drunk wh... (370 words)

She's moody, I want her to dump me. Love's faded. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So heres my story: Ive been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years now, im 20 now and she is 10 months older, and have been with her since i was around 16, shes my first serious relationship. And shes the only girl ive ever slept with. We met at college and used to be re... (1601 words)

I don't feel anything for my husband and I don't know if I ever did

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a married woman with a major problem. I don't feel anything for my husband anymore. I don't know if I ever felt anything for him. He entered my life at a time where I was very emotionally vulnerable and I craved a relationship. As I sit here, I realize that he ... (886 words)

Would it be wrong to experiment with him? As a FWB? He's not sure of his sexuality

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi :) just need some help. There is a guy in my year at college. He has told me he is unsure of his sexuality and that although he likes girls there is a guy he likes. I really think he is cute and really like him. I can't decide what to do as I want to ask him out, but that... (170 words)

Not ready for sex yet. But later will being plump cause me problems with guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm worried about what a boy would think of me naked. although i am NOT going to have sex yet, i'm afraid of whether i would be judged. i'm not really fat, but i definately have a lot of bulge. i have lines on my hips and the inside of my legs. pubic hair is it really going to... (79 words)

Do some girls like seeing two men kiss together? Or am the only one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok listen GIRLS, we think boys are pigs, most of them, there are things guys like, for example, guys like stripper chicks, and we like stripper dudes. And this question has been in my mind for awhile, since dudes like to see two chicks kissing, do some of us girls like to see ... (92 words)

Am I still being played by my tourism employed fiance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Thanks for the help you guys have provided in previous threads. I think that I suffer from jealousy a lot of the time. The stuff with that married guy turned out to be nothing. They don't communicate with each other anymore. But I still have things that I'm not happy about.... (816 words)

Still crazy in love with my stud, still need to know, does he love me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am crazy in love with this boy at school and he does know, but doesn't say anything about it. he will come over to me at break and lunch or in lessons with his mates and they would say, do you like him when they know i do he just stands there and smiles at me which is swee... (257 words)

What can or should I do? we broke up, but he's giving me mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi dearCupid, I have been getting extremely mixed signal from my ex boyfriend. The story is, he dumped me about a week ago, but we still live together, and will be living together until July. The confusing part is he pays attention to what I do in the house, and wants to ... (240 words)

All his friends know I like him. he says nought. But does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this boy at school. He knows. He wasn't very cool with it. He acts like i am not there, and told all of his mates at school. His mates keep coming up to me saying, ''hey so do you like him? well he is stud'' I just go red. They all know. They just say it. i just say... (120 words)

Saw her naked for the first time and was kinda freaked out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, i need help, i am 21, my gf is 19.. she is really sweet n caring, we re both the first one for each other.. we ve been in relationship for abt a year now. we decided to take things slow, but last evening we were making out and she removed her jeans i first ime saw her ... (117 words)

Her ex is sleeping at her house...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a long distance relationship. She has her ex sleeping over at her house. It's been about a month since she broke up with him. A lot of my friends think she's just using me.... (37 words)

Is it unreasonable for me to skip the birthday party if his ex is invited?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and have been with my boyfriend just over half a year. Just over a year ago, he broke up with his current girlfriend of about 4 years because he says he didn't have feelings for her for the last 2 years of their relationship and just stayed with her as he was confused. ... (266 words)

She used to be happy, now she's acting strangely

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I m 21 yrs old man inlove wit a 29 yrs old woman. we use to b happy until now.Shes 7months pregnant now and shes acting a little bit strange lately and i dont no why. Sometimes i think of leaving her.my shes too old for me ? M i tinking strait? ... (52 words)

Relationship breakdown or throwout?

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18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and My GF got back together just over a month ago. (we are long distance) we have had a few agruements during thoses time we talk and agrue. I feel alittle, belittled and emotionally abused. Example would be tonights agruement: I wanted advice, went to ask her but she ... (200 words)

Falling for my best friend when I have a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and I feel like our relationship is losing it's spark. Me and my boyfriend argue over silly things, and I don't feel 100% in love with him like I did at the start. At the same time, I've been hanging out with my best friend from ... (94 words)

He acts like my boyfriend...but doesn't want a relationship....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just don't know what to do... I've been seeing this guy for about a year and half. We met online and we clicked. It's like we have so much in common and we talk about almost everything from music, books, movies, politics. He'll even attempt to talk to me about cars lol T... (242 words)

We're working on rebuilding the friendship, but I worry he'll meet someone else

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex (i'm 22 he's 23 if it helps) were together for the last 2 and a half years but we split twice in that time, once after about a year and again after about 6 months. We broke up for the third time about two weeks ago. We knew each other for about 4 years before dat... (374 words)

I assume sex is supposed to be fun but it isn't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyyy. So my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a few months. The thing is I don't really like it. I mean, everything but the actual sex is great. I assume it's supposed to be fun and feel great...but it doesn't. My boyfriend says it feels good to him - so what am I doing ... (58 words)

Is it his culture or is he just not for real?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello..read on, Im starting from the beginning.. I have met an Arab guy. He was in awe when we met.1 week after meeting we slept together. It was going to happen from the start.There was serious attraction. Before we even slept together everything was passionate and i... (1102 words)

I don't want to come between my friend and his wife

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend likes me and he is unhappy in his marriage and says that his child is the only thing holding them together in marriage. I don't know how to help him and how to talk to him because I like him a lot and really don't want to come between him and his wife.. anyone ... (101 words)

My partner has been emotionally withdrawn for 3 years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am at my wits end with my partner. She has been emotionally withdrawn for at least three years now due to her own emotional issues. She feels a lot of fear and is upable to go out. She is finding it hard physically to get up of or get into bed. She is seeing a therapi... (346 words)

Why not pay attention to me and not look at porn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4807 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 25. We have been together for 2 and a half years and we live together. It's a bit of a long story really he is my brother's best mate and I have known him since I was a kid, but we just ended up getting together on his birthday 2 and a half years ago. ... (166 words)

Is it normal that I can stay erect after 2 ejaculations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. Im 20 years old and I have had sex with a few people and just recently got out of a serious long term relationship. Its not exactly a problem, im just curious. When i do have sex i usually ejaculate in the 1st 5 minutes but i dont go flaccid. I can stay erect for an ave... (147 words)

I'm wondering if I might be bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, oka here goes. I really don't know what I'm on this website for but i need some help. Well basically i think i might be bi. I'm 16, so i've had relationships in the past, with guys. They've all gone well and i enjoyed the stuff we did together. So i defiantly know i'm ... (131 words)

I asked for more commitment, that backfired and now there's barely any contact

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I would appreciate some advice... I was seeing a guy for 3 months, we are both 27. I felt our relationship was too casual and told him i had to end it as i was getting attached. He asked me to stay with him and he would try to change. He did change for a few weeks, stayed over ... (257 words)

Why do I always ask myself why a guy is attracted to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - why when i meet a really hot guy who is attracted to me i always question myself on "why is he talking to me, how have a attracted such a good looking guy!?". It annoys me, because i'm not insecure or unnatractive. But it's me questioning as though i'm not good or beautiful ... (62 words)

Sleeping with my best friend's brother and she doesn't know....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been sleeping with my best friends younger brother for over a year now. No one knows about us. It started with simple back and shoulder rubs and went from there with him making the first move. I really like him and I'm not sure what to do. We don't see each other all the ... (257 words)

My sister thinks I should date her boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, So my sister is kinda of dating this guy, who I happen to really like, she is leaving May 25 to travel to the phillipines and told me I should date him when she leaves. She also told me that she has no attractions to him whatsoever, she just thinks of him as a... (159 words)

I'm scared I might have caught HIV

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 March 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I am freaking out big time here. I had protected sex with a guy I'm dating and the condom broke. He didn't ejaculate inside of me. Now I am dead worried I might have caught HIV. I'll be taking a test, but I'll have to wait for a couple of weeks, even a month to get an accurate ... (84 words)

I dealt with my insecurity by wearing coloured contact lenses -- does that present a false image?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This sounds stupid but i really want as many opinions on this as i can get. So here's the story, i'm attractive and i mean that in a non snobbish way! But yet ever since i started clubbing i've worn coloured contacts every time (very natural looking ones not the scary creepy... (299 words)

I'm married but want to talk to my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, I 18 years old and married with a daughter she is 10 months I have recently found out that my ex is back from the marines and I really miss him and want to talk to him badly but I know If I do my husband will be mad but I am still madly in love with my ex what sho... (66 words)

like a girl, but she doesn't see me the same.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked a girl out a few months ago and she said she didn't have feelings for me. It's been quite hard because I really do like her a lot. Some of my friends have also said that she may be hiding feelings for me because she likes somebody else more. Is there a way that I could ... (70 words)

Lost the feeling for my ex, cheated on him, but still cry about him months after the breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - well i first got with dominic when i was 15 couple months before my 16th birthday and we became inseperable from the first day we met, i practically lived at his, i loved him so much, if i stayed at home, my body used to ache for him ect... i sold out all my friends for him and ... (317 words)

I think he's going to dump me and I don't know how to stop it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This is prior to one of my questions some of you helped me on: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/apparently-my-boyfriend-has-changed-his-relationship-status.html But i don't know what I can do anymore....I talked to him about he just says b/c of a lot of stuff going on right... (87 words)

I just don't understand what he wants!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend and I have known each other for seven years. He is five years younger to me, though we have never felt the difference in any way. Lately the past year we have been hanging out a lot, almost every other day. Around 6 months ago i sensed our interaction changing, ... (476 words)

How do I go back to being the positive person I used to be and enjoy life again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there, This could be really long if I wanted it to be but I will cut a long story short, I spend everyday in tears, I am messing my uni life up and haven't got a job. I have been afraid to work. Having left a really messy relationship 2 years ago I moved into a shared h... (330 words)

I have been waiting for her for 2 and a half years, how do I get her to leave her boyfriend for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i love a girl and she also likes me but she is in relation with some another guy... i told her what i feel about her and i want to get commited with her and i am not able to forget her im truely and madly in love with her... i told her all this , she told me she would also like ... (321 words)

How do I explain to my husband that his son is ruining our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - 5 yrs ago my husband and I got married. he had 2 children 14 yr old twins Mitchell and Megan. I love them like they are my own children but I feel like I have done all I can for them. Mitchell is a smart, talented boy that some where along the line has gotten off track. He ... (240 words)

Can you sleep with someone and not get attached?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you sleep with someone and not get attached? Do you honestly think the 'friend w benefit' thing is possible?... (21 words)

So many excuses, each plausible, but all at once and then holding out on me till the last minute? Is there a message I'm not getting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My long distance relationship boyfriend (relationship 1 year living together, so far 6 months living in different cities because of work and visiting once a month)seems to either be trying to avoid me, get rid of me, is seeing someone else or he really has an awful lot of bad ... (235 words)

He says he cant have a girlfriend, but calls me to take me out, then pulls back again! What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months now but not consistently, he travels a lot for his job which makes it difficult for us to have anything serious. Last month he started taking me out more he even took me out two Fridays in a row, but than he pulled back and I ... (278 words)

My boyfriend flirted with a girl in a bar and then told me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. Please help me, I’d appreciate some honest feedback. Me and my bf have had a tricky relationship at the best of times. We are both complex artistic people. I was a heroin addict years ago and I probably have mild mental health issues, I guess this is not my f... (778 words)

Am I a lesbian because I like masturbating more than sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys,i enjoy mastabation more than sex,i have never reached orgasm during sex,when mastabating it only take me few minutes 2 reach orgasm is it normal,am i a lesbian??... (29 words)

How can I leave this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a bit of a pickle. My partner and I came to blows to the degree that he was arrested for domestic abuse. I panicked when he refused to get out of our home and after taking some hits I dialled '999'. I knew there and then that this was the end of the relationship. It... (170 words)

Does this sound as though it is more serious then just a transvesite who will want to dress up from time to time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Wonder if theres anyone that can help me that understands about Transvestism/crossdressers/transgendered/gender physphoria. I have tried to do so much research regarding the subject as my partner told me a year ago that wearing womens clothes is something he felt he wanted to ... (378 words)

What should I make of his behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - what the hell?! I used to have a crush on this guy, his interest in me was always all over the map, so I gave up. if anyone asked him if he liked me he would say no or not give a straight answer. the other day I was put in an awkward situation with him that left me blushing... (229 words)

Is it wrong to date her before she is 16?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 17 year old male and I met this 15 year old girl who lives in the west of London (I live in the east). I'm going to be 18 in May, she will be 16 in August, would I be a prevert if I dated her before she is 16?... (53 words)

I'm wondering, why the sudden interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so my day today was pretty much made by this guy lol last summer we met while partying, he was a "man whore" who owned up to it. I had no problem with him, I made it clear I wasn't interested in fooling around, and he backed off. He would message me on fb still hinting at... (568 words)

I feel cheated because she loved someone more than me in the past!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Please help me,I am suffering with this big problem,I don't know if I share this issue, you may think stupid but 'I am' what to do, here goes my story I believe in one women/one men in life for marriage/love, I have loved my g/f too much for 8-yrs to the point where I can't ... (275 words)

Complicated mess with a father, his mistress, son and wife....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - A son and his father ,aged 63, have started together a successful company that has over 30 employees. The problem started when one of the female employees wanted to start an affair with the boss which is the father. The father is married and has 4 adult children. His wife is ... (167 words)

Should I tell my husband his mother is pressuring me to have a child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am married since three years and we have healthy sex life we understand each other and both of us work in good organization. I am 26 and my hubby is 33. Me and my hubby have agreed that we will not have child till we have sound economic environment. But the proble... (123 words)

Questions about dating a girl I just met......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So, my good friend that's a girl has a friend I met at a party and she made out with my friend and long story short, we friend request each other's hook ups on facebook and talk to them. So I jokingly started talking to her and it got serious and I got her number. We were gonna ... (184 words)

Should I give up on him for good or should I wait until we see each other again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4556 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm back with my dumb questions . Well, long story short ; I talked to this guy for a while . . We " fell in love " . . I moved to a different state . . Okay, we kept in contact and all of that. He became my everything. We never dated, but you can practically say ... (354 words)

What happened to my sweet girl? Cant she see that I love her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

18 March 2011 (M) age 41-50 - Ok this is for the girls but if you lads know I'd like to hear you to. So say you got 2 girls. Girl A's a super bitch that don't chase a lad and don't let him treat her like crap and Girl B's a sweet rosebud who chase after a lad and keep being sweet to him when he treat her ... (230 words)

My parents have a problem with me dating younger guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I've always went out with guys older than me because I find guys younger very immature and childish.I've had many boyfriends in the past, all of them were at least a year older than I am. But now I'm a senior and I broke up with my boyfriend 2 and a half months ag... (369 words)

Is she interested in me or just friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, so I've known this attractive girl and we both go to the same school and usually share most of the classes. This year we had one class where we sat next to each other and got to know each other much more. Eventually we would team up on projects and meet after school often. ... (202 words)

She wants to make me happy, and I want her to give me head but I'm afraid of her reaction. How do I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so, my girlfriend told me recently that "I want you to be happy and I want to give you everything you want" We are 6 months in the relationship and I've sorta been yearning for head..she wants me to tell her what makes me really happy, ive told her just being with her makes ... (169 words)

How can I change his opinion of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, So I was curious about how to get a guys attention. I want this guy to view me in a different light, and I need help on how I should act. I'm not looking to change my personality, just tips to get him interested. So this guy, let's call him Bob, is a "player" I gu... (244 words)

Online dating has messed up my life, how do I stop and start afresh so I can get a real life girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so when I was 13 (now I am 18) my dad used to play chess with other people online and he introduced me to the site (pogo.com) because I told him I wanted to play too. So I started playing billiards, which I found to be very entertaining. My dad did not speak much english, ... (1221 words)

I thought I was straight and I have a boyfriend, but I have fallen for a female friend! Help!

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very confused. I'm a straight (I think) girl who fell in love with a girl. I have a bf, but still liked this girl even though she likes no one. My friend is going to ask her out and for some reason I'm upset about it. I know that the girl that she wants to ask out doesn't ... (103 words)

I'm so afraid I cant love my boyfriend as much as he deserves because of my ex! How do I overcome this?

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi fellows, I've been in the tough days presently so i thought me should leave a note here for your precious advices. I'm happily engaged with an amazing man who's been with me for 1 year, kept working hard on our long distance relationship, who's never left m... (521 words)

I want to ask her out but I cant tell how she feels about me!

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18 March 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I worked with this girl the past summer and got to know her really well. We get along great and became good friends and I developed feelings for her. I never made a move or made my feelings clear because of our co-worker status and a past relationship with her friend. We g... (154 words)

I'm scared to move in with him and set up house when marriage might not be on the cards!

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We took things very slowly and now have a strong relationship built on trust and respect. Last year we set up an art business together, and he often talks about properties we'll buy in the future, investments and the ... (397 words)

Can one big mistake define you forever? Can I ever fix this?

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18 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I worked 2 jobs to put myself through school, never been arrested or in trouble with the police, never been in a fist fight in my adult life, never done any drugs, never cheated on any girlfriends, I am a great parent to my 2 year old and I always took pride in being a ... (629 words)

Could changing my style help boost my confidence?

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like my ex's new girlfriend looks better than me. Even though my ex liked me for all of these reasons: 1. my style was different then most girls - uggs/northface/polos 2. My style was more girlie 3. I was confident 4. And i would accessorize with jew... (342 words)

Creepy or attractive?

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think a person with black-brown hair, very pale skin and blue-green eyes would be attractive--or creepy? Be honest! ... (20 words)

It feels like I am daydreaming my life away, help!

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello guys I was wondering if I could get some advice. I am falling into a deep deep depression and I cant seem to snap out of it. For the last year i have been a mess (i broke up with my emotionally abusive bf) and finished graduate school but i still feel worse than ever. I'm ... (419 words)

He's not as affectionate anymore.....

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy and I have been together for 6 months, and generally I'm very happy with him. Without giving the full story of how we've bonded, I'll give a little background by stating that we are friends as well as partners, we have a lot of fun together, and we're attracted to each ... (347 words)

Where can I go to find friends and especially dates?

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18 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I am in a very uncomfortable and difficult situation in life right now and this requires some difficult decisions on my part. I generally have a lot of will power and the ability to get through pianfull situationtions but one enduring situation has left me dazed an... (360 words)

Is there anything that I could/should do to convince him that it may work between us the second time around?

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy in college about 6 months ago. I was getting over trust issues and knew I wanted to take my next relationship REALLY slow and not rush ANYTHING. He knew my issues and I knew his. His issue was that he has been taken advantage of, was not appreciated, and he gave too ... (389 words)

Girlfriend keeping relationship secret, odd situation...

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18 March 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm 31, I've been renting a room in a house share (7 rooms in total, 3 on the ground floor where I am) for over 9 years. Last September a new girl moved in to the room next to me, she's now 21. Her (female) first cousin (also 21) moved in with her about a month la... (399 words)

Does my female teacher love me?

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - she stares at me in the hallways today when she talked about the new policies i got mad at her. i knew she knew about it and when we took a test i know mentally she tryed to comfort me. plus, i put a little love note on her desk she knew it was me. she looked at me smiling. and ... (143 words)

All he does is bring me down, but we used to be best friends, what to do?

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18 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, so here's my dilemma, bear with me, it's a little lengthy. So, a few years back, I had this friend i used to hang out with everyday. We (me and my 2 other friends we always hung out with at the time) always had a hunch he was gay, so when he came out a couple years ago... (545 words)

Am I being selfish for wanting something for myself and my partner, rather than having our lives revolve around the in-laws?

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married and living 100 miles away from my home town for 23 yrs now. 3 yrs after i married my mum died. I came from a large family but since mum died i haven't had much to do with them - they argue and fall in and out a lot so i don't want to get hurt again like ... (560 words)

How long should I wait for him to call before I move on?

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Boyfriend have been arguing on and off for a month. The last one was pretty bad. He asked me to leave his home...that was a couple of days ago. I am not sure if he dumped me or not. He didn't say it was over. I called once and text a couple of times. We have yet to talk ... (103 words)

How much is too much sex?

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18 March 2011 (M)

age - OK, this might sound stupid comming from a guy, But my Ex-wife said that I want sex to much and she couldn't take it any more,( I think she just wanted to get of and be with someone else). I don't think that3 to 4 times a week is to much and would like some feed back from girls ... (90 words)

How can I show him he hasn't got a hold on me anymore?

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy who used me, he seems to think that he can come back to me whenever he feels like it ! Which im not going to lie he can, i really like him. The problem is i dont want him to think i am there for him whenever he wants, i want him to see me and think that he hasnt ... (113 words)

Worried I might still be in love with my ex, but I have a boyfriend! Help!

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help! I think im still im love with my ex boyfriend. It seems like we go through this circle of being together for a good 18 months then break up for around the same amount of time. But its always me that finds a reason to break up again. We are highschool sweethearts ... (102 words)

After 5 years, how do I tell my husband just how unsatisfied I am with our sex life? Or is it just what married life is about....bad sex that eventually becomes no sex?

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 5 years. My husband has always tended to be a rather selfish lover. However I am now really struggling with this issue. He rarely does anything to pleasure me, and believes that sex is simply about his orgasm. He rarely gives oral to me, however... (430 words)

How do I get her to be my girl and dump her boyfriend?

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18 March 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - uhh yeah theres this girl i really like we talk all the time she invited me to her b-day party but the only problem i have is that she has a boyfriend!! and i like her and i think she knows this but she likes her boyfriend to soo what i want to know is how do i get her to be my ... (71 words)

Are these good baby names?

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am hoping to have a boy. If I do, his name will be Kylan Jake. But if I have a girl, her name will be Joselyn Nicole. Do these names sound good? Please help!... (35 words)

I have constant orgasms!

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18 March 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have constant orgasms! They happen when I'm out shopping, hanging out, during class, or even just riding on the subway. When they happen, I usually excuse myself and relieve myself in the restroom. But sometimes I can't! I once sat through a job interview with one - that did ... (57 words)

Online date: Confused about initial interest and the waiting game...

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18 March 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I was recently on a popular online dating website. I had intended on leaving upon the expiration of my membership. Four days before expiration the customer service of the website contacted me to tell my that a past match wants to re-open communication. I vaguely remembered this ... (389 words)