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I need to make it up to my girlfriend after being mean to her. Anyone have any ideas?

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14 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - hiya i have been with my gf for 6months and i have been completly horriable to her for 2 weeks and i decieded to finish it and i regret it so much i asked her can we get bk together and she said yea but first i got to prove i will change which i really want to do cos i love her ... (96 words

If a guy had cum on his fingers and he fingers a girl, could she become pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi i just wondernding if you could help me when a boy fingeres a girl and he had cum on his fingers would the girl feel this? im so worried im pregnant even tho i aint due till next week please help x... (46 words

My boyfriend and I just had a massive fight. He thinks I'm accusing him of being a theif. How can I fix this?

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - please help! my boyfriend and I just had a big fight. All because he thought I was accusing him of taking something of mine which I wasnt. Ok so basically 2 weeks ago I came home and I took my class ring off that my mom gave me and I put it on the kitchen counter, I know its my ... (318 words

Should I accept sharing my boyfriend with another woman???

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend who had this other not so serious relationship before we met. He continues to see that woman and tells me everytime that he sees her. As this bothers me, I do not know how to address this issue to him. I do not want to give him up completely but it does ... (66 words

My boyfriend wants a break to straighten his life but I don't want to wait forever help?!

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend told me he wanted a break so he can concentrate on working and moving out of his house so he can start college. I understand exactly where he is coming from too. He said he still loves me but now he never really tells me anymore. Im sorta scared that he is going to ... (130 words

Should we marry with clearly explained doubts?

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14 August 2008 (M age 51-59 - For you married Cupids... is it wise to go into a marriage with doubts? We love each other, but we have doubts that we have discussed and are working on... still, should we postpone? Thank you!... (39 words

I get upset when my husband masturbates without me. Am I over-reacting?

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I Have been Married for going on 3 years i am 20 years old my husband is a few months younger than me. I love to watch him masturbate but when he does it with out me i get so so mad i feel like he doesnt need me or i am not satisfying him i have tried telling him but he just ... (140 words

He has left his wife for me, but now my feelings have faded. What do I do?

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - For the last few years I have been seeing a married man. He is from another country and comes here for work every few months. I truly loved him in the beginning but now I am not so sure that I do anymore... - HE recently left his wife (for me) and has all of these great ... (162 words

I'm a 12 year old girl and I'm obsessed with boobs and sex and having sex, what should I do?

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14 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - im a 12 year old girl and im obsessed with boobs and sex and having sex, what should i do?... (20 words

I'm scared I'm pregnant and don't know anyone old enough to buy the morning after pill.

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14 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm Stephanie, I'm 13 and I've had sex about 2 days ago and that was my first time ever. I'm afraid I might be pregnant and I don't know anyone legal age besides family to buy me the morning after pill!!!! help please!... (49 words

My boyfriend lied to me big time. Should I break up with him?

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - so basically my boyfriend lied to me. big time. for starters, i don't want to be with someone that does drugs or drinks. so he told me that he's never going to drink or smoke weed ever again. so i trusted him and believe him. but then his friend left his phone at my house and i ... (198 words

I'm having trouble getting closer to my girlfriend and communicating with her properly.

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14 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 2 months is great! she's funny, stylish, and is full of energy. Makes me wonder why the hell she would even WANT to date me. The problem I'm having is: it is near impossible for me to talk to her or get close to her. I just wont let myself! I tried to force ... (98 words

I'm never in the mood for sex. I feel like I'm insulting my girlfriend.

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14 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey, I’ll cut straight to the point. I have two problems. I’ll start with the low libido soon. I feel like I’m never in the mood for sex or anything else. It frustrates me as my girlfriend looks amazing and I feel as if I’m insulting her by not being in the mood. My second... (112 words

Will he come and look for me? Or will he go to his ex?

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello, here is my issue. It's little complicated but please bear with me because I really need your insight to my problem. Okay here the issue. 6yrs ago I met a guy who was in the military. He told me he loved me and wanted to married me. I was only 19 back then and he was ... (864 words

My turkish fella didn't have a visa and he's been sent back to Turkey. I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

14 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - i met my turkish fella back in january this year. in july i found out that he didnt have a visa to be here and now he has been sent back to turkey. i love him so much and miss him. the only problem is that i have been told the only way he can come back to england is if i marry ... (151 words

I want to sleep with my boss

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I fancy my boss like crazy and i WANT to sleep with him, even though hes married and got kids? how do i get him 2 want me too? how shall i act? dress? make up? perfume? hair? ... (43 words

I have irregular periods, and my period came very early, after I had sex three days after my last period, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex 3 days after my period and its only been two weeks since I've had sex and I already have my period. I shouldn't get it for atleast a week. is this normal and do I still have a posibility that I could be pregnant? I'm only 15 and my periods are irregular.... (56 words

I had an affair with my boss, his wife found out, we still see each other, but no sex, what is it that he wants?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

14 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - After his wife found out about our affair, we still keep seeing each other, but no sex at all, his wife checks on him all the time and restrict him doing OT hrs (he is the boss), it's really hard for us to meet. What does he want from me? Why go through all the trouble?... (58 words

I am trying to find out if this guy only wants sex, and that's it, how do I determine this?

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - This bloke at work arranged to go chum me to a night out, however he blew me out at the last minute with no explination, we didn't speak for a few months, he sent me a text saying we wanted different things and recently he has started to show an interest in me. I think this ... (101 words

I am depressed. I fool aroung with a married man, I only talk to my ex, they both treat me like crap, I am an a treadmill, going nowhere in life, how do I change all of this?

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I dont even know where to start. I have become a needy person. i think everything started with my ex. i was with him 4 1/2 years and for what he cheated, lied and everything else, i met a guy that was an ass after i broke up with him got pregnant had an abortion, emotional mess ... (197 words

We are both 16, and all we want to do is cuddle in my bed, my parents absolutely won't allow it, how do I get them to understand that we are not going to have sex, we only want to hold each other?

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14 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - im 16 and my gf is the same we want to cuddle in my bed but my parents wont even let her set foot in my room do u have any advice on how i can convince them dat we will jus be cudlin and not goin to have sex... (50 words

My boyfriend of two years had a bad attitude, and though I moved with him to Boston, I could no longer take the way he behaved, we broke up, now he and I talk on the phone, and he appears to want to continue this odd relationship, should I participa

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Thank you for reading this. I was in a relationship for 2 years that just ended almost 2 weeks ago. When moved to boston (2 hrs away) his stress lvl was high and bickered with me about everything. Visiting him with his bad attitude made me feel like I didn't belong in his worl... (294 words

My best friend has mutiple personalities, and she likes to show off, it is getting on my nerves, how do I tell her in a nice way to knock it off?

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I dont like the way my bestfriend is lately. Shes been with her current bf, for about 3months now, and i've been with mine for just over a month. But whenever she is with him, practically all the time, she shows off and changes for the worse. I asked what's for dinner, as im at ... (175 words

I have multiple bumps around and on my penis, I thougth they were razor bumps, as I shave that area, but topical creams will not take them away, could it be herpes, how do I get rid of them, if it is not herpes?

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14 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, For the past year, or so, I have had small bumbs around my pubic area and base of my penis. I shave though, and I shave the base of my penis. I thought these were razor bumps, because of my shaving. However, some of them have been there for a long time, some many ... (247 words

I am a woman and it's been four years now, that I have cared for this other woman, she gives off mixed signals, maybe I want her to be gay, I don't know if I am a lesbian, I am confused, should I tell her how I feel?

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi Readers. I'm a female in my early 20's and I am completley in love with another female who's in her early 30's...I'm so lost as to what to do because I'm unsure how she feels. I've felt this way about her for about 4 years now, and I had hoped that my feelings would... (349 words

What are your thoughts on why teenagers want to have sex before 18 years of age?

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14 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Okay okay, I've been reading a lot of the questions lately and i keep wondering why teengers under the age of 18 want to have sex soo badly? Hey im 13 has a 14yo bf that wants to have sex he understands the wait.....but still, WHY HAVE SEX BEFORE 18 YEARS OF AGE!? I think its ... (71 words

I met a guy off the net. It got a bit complicated and now he's not talking to me. I don't want to lose him as a friend.

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey im gonna try and keep this as short as possible i met a guy off the net that night i lost my virginity to him we carried on talking via texts and msn and he always said we would meet again after 3 months of him promising to meet up again and then canceling i gave up on... (363 words

I have to have a tympanoplasty operation. I'm scared.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well ever since I was small I've had ear infections through out my life.Well I went to the doctor recently and he said that I had holes inside both of my ear drums..he said that I have to have a tympanoplasty.Well I am scared because you know I am scared.I've researched the ... (123 words

Why the black out? (Truncated)

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14 August 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hello I'm another bloke who not so good at understanding women. Met up with group of fiends about 3 weeks ago who had not seen in over 4 years,as I had moved away. One of them I had softspot for before but she was only 18 - could not say or do anything (I am a few years ol... (511 words

Should I give him the space to work things out in his head or should I do something else?

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have this male friend who I have recently been getting closer and closer to. We spend nights in together just having wine and chatting, we go out places together and we’ve both admitted we really like each other. I don’t know what it is, but there’s something really special ... (626 words

My husband isn't fulfilling me sexually and now I want a woman!

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - How do I tell my husband that he's not fulling my sexual desire and I want to be with a woman. I think a woman will be more dominate than my husband. Can anyone help me?... (36 words

He is overly obsessed about this new car!!

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14 August 2008 (F age - My problem is with my husbands obsession over what is supposed to be a joint car and it is causing arguments all the time. He has always been a bit possessive over whatever car we have had in the past but I have always been "allowed" to use it to get to and from work, he has a ... (385 words

He's a heroin addict, I finally kicked him out, did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Well how do i start, my partner has been a heroin addict for two years, after false promises and hope that he would get better i have found out that he still is on it, he lies to me about what he is doing. It is so upsetting because we can be so good togther, i have tried my ... (293 words

I don't want a huge fuss with my mom, will this blow over?

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi again i recently did a post saying that i was worried about telling my mum about my periods. i did tell her and after i got over the slight embarassment i was releived. im not too fussed about having my periods as everyone has to but she acts like im 4 and i just want to ... (182 words

Nipples, or cleavage?

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14 August 2008 (F age - Do men prefer seeing hard nipples through a shirt or ample cleavage?...I have both... (14 words

She never really had much to say and it's making me miserable!

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14 August 2008 (M - I don't know what to do about my girlfriend. We've been together just over 3 months. She's 35 and I'm 33. I'd been single about 8 months before we met. I tell her I love her whenever I feel it, buy her flowers, visit her every day and send her messages so I think I'm a ni... (439 words

I really would like to be more with her, but she's been seeing her ex behind my back!

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have a problem..i met this girl about 5 months ago and originally we were just friends. at the time she was going through a tough time with her ex having cheated on her. Since then though our friendship has grown and for me i want it to be something more.at times i feel tha... (217 words

My friends said he was just using me for sex and I asked him if he was. Now I can't take back what I asked. Help.

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old, and I have a friend who I have slept with on a number of occasions. The thing is, because of things that have happened in the past, none of my friends approve of me being friends with him. Because of this, they constantly tell me that he's just using me for ... (285 words

I need to be more confident in my relationship. How do I get over this hurdle?

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I love each other very much. For the past couple of days we haven't been talking that much to each other when we get on the phone. We, in some cases, have a talk here and there about me not being confident sometimes or that Im always sad. I feel like I can be ... (139 words

I keep breaking up only to go back and become confused again!

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years im 21 and he is 25 and we have broken up 3 times all done by me. He is a great bloke but i just got bored as he is quiet, but sometimes we get on great. We broke up for a week recently and i went out on afew dates and loved the ... (123 words

We broke up, but I miss him. He said he just wants us to be mates.

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14 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Heyy :) Can anybody tell me what to do or give me some advice ? I was goinng out with a boy for almost 2months i no its doesnt seem long but i liked him so much. its been almost 3weeks since he finished me, he said his reasons was because he didnt like me as much anymore ... (205 words

My boyfriend says I smell more fishy when I eat a lot of fish. Does that really make sense?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend has told me that my vagina smells more fishy when I eat a lot of fish. I do eat a lot of fish, but I am struggling to understand what he says is correct. Is it true that a vagina will smell more fishy depending on the amount of fish consumed? Thanks, T... (59 words

My BF who is Buddhist will be living in a hermitage in the middle of nowhere - should I join him??

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I just wondered if anybody had any words of 'wisdom' for me. My boyfriend of a year has just gone into retreat - he is a Buddhist. He will be living at a hermitage in the middle of nowhere for an indefinite period - a year minimum. We are still 'together' so to speak, but I ... (134 words

At my first attempt of sex I did not penetrate her properly, should I worry?

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14 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - My penis size is 35mm width, 9cm length and I don’t know whether it is enough to satisfy a teenage girl. I only had sex once in my life with a virgin girl and the problem is that I did not penetrate properly is like my penis just entered 3cm.Please give me advice so that I can ... (73 words

I'm in love with Beyoncé...

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14 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - i can't stop loving beyonce, what the hell should i do?... (11 words

My boyfriend is in a mess after he took someone's car.

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - what must i do my boyfriend is in a big mess,he took someone's car just to please a fling woman to take her home,i found out about this after it happened and he told me the whole truth and i did forgave him but after punishing him. my problem is that the insurance want him to ... (135 words

My boyfriend works all the time and I hardly ever get to see him

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - my and bf and i have been going out for a year but he works all the time and i never get to see him maybe once a week but sometimes only 1 every fortnight ots really getting me down because we text everyday but i have to wait till like 10 at night to talk to him bause thats ... (116 words

I want another baby, but my husband says we can't afford it. Help!

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 21 and my husband is 25 we have a 3yr old daughter and have been together for 6 yrs. Just recently I told him I wanna have another baby and he says no because we aren't financially set but then again when will be? I'm hurt and this is affecting our relationship help please ... (67 words

What do guys expect it to look like 'down there'?

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend is thinking of fingering me for the first time. and i was just wondering, what do they expect it to `look like` down there? ...like will it be abnormal if my pubic hair is shaven etc? please help. xxx... (49 words

I don't know what to make of what he said - does he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi! the guy i love has a good job but didnt meet his potential. i first met him 2 yrs ago. our families know each other really well and well,he called up my mom(who he is pretty close to)and told her that he is changing is job..with double salary,and more benefits... (199 words

He's leaving, do I text him that I'm still crazy about him and will miss him??? He has a GF.

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have an urgent request, my friends are sick of me asking and im spinning with this. The guy ive loved for years is leaving to go travelling tomorrow and ive found out he has a girlfriend out in oz who he is meeting up with. We dont talk but occasionaly text we were suppose to ... (132 words

My husband was diagnosed with bipolar, recently he drinks a lot and fights a lot. I'm scared and worried about our daughter...

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Me and my husband have been together for 10 years, married 4 years on the 28th of Aug 2008. We are having alot of problems and had a huge fight this weekend. My husband was diagnosed with biopolar disease about 2 years ago, he always mentioned that he is depressed. He is ... (430 words

Has anybody been rejected by their partner when they have dressed in sexy lingerie?

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I want to dress up this evening for my partner in some nicec lingerie, it is something he loves. However, he has had a period of no libido as he was on medication. We were intimate last week for the first time in months and nothing this week. I know he looks at women o... (118 words

I don't know what to do when or IF he comes back to talk and try to be my friend again!...

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have known my Best Friend for over three years now.Over the past year i have fallen for him.He was my first for everything and we are extremly close.I have always given him my all,put him infront of me,and always have tried to make him happy.I get Nothing in return.He has ... (214 words

I love him and I want to trust him, but he's making it extremely difficult?!...

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I trust my husband and I don't doubt him normally, but over the past few weeks he's been making it really hard. He's a truck driver and drives a lot at night so he sees hookers and they approach him. That doesn't bother me, but when I ask him what he's doing at work he says ... (147 words

Will the pill work in this situation?

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - i had unprotected sex with my bf on the last day of periods when i was drunk after half an hour i took an i pill i am scared i will become pregnant as i was drunk. will the pill work ... (44 words

My 11 year old is ill and I'm supposed to be in court... she says she will be fine but...?

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14 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - Today could only get slightly worse, but not much. I have been up since 3am with my 11 yr old daughter. She has been sick twice. Some sort of tummy bug. At 2pm i'm suppose to be in court at a hearing to put £1000 charge order on my exes house that he owes me. Now i dont kno... (146 words

My penis skin is stuck to my penis head... what is wrong?

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14 August 2008 (M age 26-29 - hi I am 12 years old and their was little white things on the head of my penis. Since i masturbate, it came off after a while. But then i noticed that my penis skin is stuck to the head of my penis. when i pull on it, it bends and hurts alot. I know it is not supposed to look... (85 words

What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin?

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14 August 2008 (M age 36-40 - What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin. thats my situation. im not ugly or fat.... (21 words

I'm scared of leaving this controlling guy because of his threats

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14 August 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been in this realtionship for 10 years. We have had alot of problems. When I first met him we dated for like 2 years and seem to be the sweetwst guy on earth. When we got married it all seem to change slowly a little at a time. When he was bad he would apologize and say ... (252 words

I am 17 and I like an older guy..please help me!

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I am 17 and the guy that I like is 30 years old. I dont know what to do. He is the most amazing guy that I have ever met. Hes not immature like the boys my age. I know that there is a huge gap between our age difference but I think age is just a number when it comes to ... (97 words

The guy I'm seeing tells me that hes not happy with his wife and the marriage is only on paper to him and she is just a roommate?

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. He is married and i knew that the day i met him. Ive known him longer than ive been seeing him. I am in love with him and i know for sure he is my future. He was the one to say I love you first and he wants to be with me. he... (131 words

I warned him that if he doesn't start wising up it will be over... what now?

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14 August 2008 (? age 30-35 - My boyfriend (whos a few years older then me) is wants go all the way with me but I'm not ready. He been putting a lot of stesse on me. Like the other day were in his car after a date and he was all over me. I didn't like it. Push him off then got out of his car. I did talked ... (92 words

I've become attracted to a guy at my new school, who is similar to my BF in personality, I'm so confused. Do I try to make my LDR work?

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey there, I'm a 16year old girl and i've been going out with my boyfriend fo rjust over a year. This summer i finished my GCSE's and left to go abroad to boarding school. Me and my boyfriend were together everyday until I left, and just before we left we sat down and had... (235 words

I've been having sexual thoughts about my best friend... do I tell her?

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14 August 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hi... this is odd for me to say but recently I've been having sexual thoguhts about my best friend...and it's a girl. I don't like her as anything more then I friend but I want to kiss her and have sex with her but I don't want a realtionship.... and I don't know if I should t... (84 words

My boyfriend cheated on me, I dumped him, but he seems to have really changed. Is forgiveness possible?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Okay, I need some advice... I don't normally come on these asking random people for advice but I'm in a really difficult spot and thought I could hear some people's opinions. My boyfriend of a year and a half just recently cheated on me. It broke me in two... we had a great ... (435 words

How do I get my boyfriend to pick up after himself? It is seriously driving me crazy.

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have a 1yr old that I clean up after all day. Well my boyfriend has gotten a lot better with helping me with our son but other then that, the only other thing I don t have to ask him to do is cook because thats onething he loves. I cook, wash clothes and ... (322 words

Any tips on my first kiss?

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14 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - Ok. well as you know by my name im a youngiin to be accurate im 14. And yea i do have a bf of 2 months now (( today being 8/13/08 )) but i still havent had my first kiss, cuz i wanna have that with someone i truly care about and i really do care about my bf. like alot. but im s... (108 words

I'm taking a blood test soon, but I'm terribly afraid of needles. Help me!

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, I know this isn't a romantic question, but I really need some help about this. First, I'm terribly afraid of needles. I can stand the sight of one but once I see one I start thinking on how it will go into my arm and then many horror images would flash into my eyes. It... (234 words

Should I have sex even though I'm just 13?

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14 August 2008 (F age 26-29 - ok im 13 and i want to have sex. i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for about 4 months and i think i am ready he is 14 and is a freshman in high school i am still in middle school (8th grade). but my main question is, should i even though i am too young? and this ... (70 words

I like this guy at school, but I don't know if he's gay or not. What do I say?

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14 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - im gay and i like this guy at school.Last year we became really good friends and we tell each other everything. i wanna be with him but i dont know if hes gay what should i say without ruining our friendship.Please help me im really crushing on him... (48 words

Does he like me, care about me or is he just being polite?

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Me and this Air force guy have being in email contact since we met in a radio delivery a year ago. He was stationed in Japan (Misawa AFB) so he left shortly after. I decided to contacted him and he remembered me also. So I started emailing him and he always replied right aw... (225 words

Our relationship has changed, she flirts with other guys, and does not talk to me as much as we used to, should I be worried that she doe not care anymore or what?

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14 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - my girlfriend and i have been together for 4 months, we had been though alot and even an unplanned pregnancy (she got an abortion which was a mutural decision and i went through the process with her but i favored having the abortion more and put it out there when we first found ... (530 words

My parents beat me, my fiance is the only one keeping me going. I made her parents angry and I might not see her again. What do I do?

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14 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - Im lost... Me and my fiance are 18 and 17, she honestly keeps me alive, im beat daily by my parents, and i cant keep going with out her. Ive made her parents rly mad at me cause i snuck over after a huge fight with my parents. I may not see her again... Thats something that ... (70 words

I have these thoughts that my boyfriend is having gay sex with our roommate, I confronted them, after I followed them, my boyfriend started crying and denied any of it, am I wrong to have these thoughts?

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I think that I am just highly insecure and crazy. Okay, my boyfriend has a best guy friend and he moved in with my bf and i after he came out of jail cuz he had nowhere to go. His girlfriend of three years also broke up with him cuz he was abusive to her and the last time he ... (736 words

I met this cute, smart guy, had an encounter, a lot of fun and went on my way without a number or any way to contact him, he is constanly on my mind, what do I do to remove these thoughts?

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14 August 2008 (? - I met this great guy by total chance, and we hit it off right away. He was cute, built, and smart. We talked for hours and ended up doing more than just talking, if you catch my drift. I took off without catching his number or giving him mine, like a fool. I tried to find him ... (227 words

He has lied to me, and I worry that he does not love me, we have sex less often than in the past, the relationship has me on edge, what should I do?

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - so i feel like i am so in love with my man after almost 3 years of dating. it feels like we are this old married couple. i do not have a ring yet and it worries me. i worry about our relationship everyday. sex has become less then it use to be, maybe once a week. i am scared he ... (147 words

I think my ex will use my dating someone as a means to gain full custody of our child! What should I do?

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been divorced for one month. My ex and I have a child (2.5 y/o) of whom we have 50/50 custody. The other night, when I had a date over, he called and asked how the date was. The only way for him to know I had someone over was for him to drive into the driveway and peer ... (242 words

He tells me how much he misses me over the phone, but never makes time to see me.

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two months talks to me constantly on the phone and we live literally five minutes away from each other, but he just never has time to actually see me, but he tells me how much he misses me and wants to see me but we just never do. the only time we ever do see e... (406 words

How can I better connect with other people, especially women?

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14 August 2008 (M age 51-59 - I am a healthy active 39 year old male.I have not been in a serious relationship for over 15 years,truth be told I have not had a date with a women during this period of time.I have some issues with being social and desire to connect with people on a more fundamental level. ... (158 words

How long do I wait to start dating again?

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - I recently moved and broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years who I lived with, and thought about marrying. I've been seeing this guy, but I think it's too soon in my life. How long should I wait to date again? and also I'm 20 should I date someone who is 34?... (53 words

I don't like being intimate with a guy after sex. Is this normal?

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay. I have a problem in that I hate being intimate with a guy after the act. But love sex. And I mean seriously love it. But I hate the intimacy afterwards. After I'm done, its rare that I want a cuddle unless I really dig the guy. So when a guy starts to try and kiss me or ... (129 words

I'm not physically attracted my boyfriend. I feel so shallow!

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend is the sweetest man, he protects me,is loving, caring, and the perfect person for me. We have the most incredible sex life i could ever ask for and gives me everything i need BUT... i do not find him physically attractive! I feel terrible and feel like I am being ... (61 words

I had sex with my best friend and now we've stopped talking. Help!

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 16 and had sex with my best guy friend we we're safe but it hurt at first but after that it was fine. i don't what to do when we we're around 14 we always used to finger eachother.but after we had sex we stoped talking to eachother i don't know what to do. please help. ... (58 words

My husband continues to abuse me, emotionally and physically!

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14 August 2008 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I am in a situation that I seem to not be able to get out. My husband continues to abuse me emotionally and physically. I have no trade or money to get out of this situation. No matter what, he continues to cheat, and when he gets caught and I say somethin... (168 words

He's a bit shy and he won't approach me. How do I get him to ask me out?

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14 August 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm kind of confused, there is this guy I like and I am pretty sure he likes me back. The thing is he is a bit shy and he won't approach me. How do I get him to ask me out? It all started when his friend asked me if I liked him, but of course I said no, which he thought mean... (105 words

I mean do all guys do this, and it's no big deal, or is it totally sleazy?

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I sent a very pretty girlfriend of mine to go work at my boyfriend's office as his secretary. She's 21, cute and little. At the time I didn't think much of it, I just knew he needed help. I can't work there b/c I have a FT job, and I was proud to be sending such an attractive ... (252 words

I'm wondering how long it will take me to get over her, and why I did it in the first place.

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14 August 2008 (M age 41-50 - I was having an affair (I have two children with my partner) for about 14 months which has just recently ended. The affair ended when she meet somebody else, since I had not at the time said I would leave. I then decided to leave to create some space for myself while the pers... (187 words

I've never been a needy person, so I'm not expecting him to spend every minute with me...

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello I need some help here, I have been dating this guy for almost 6 months, we are exclusive to eachother and we have strong feelings for each other. we live one hour and a half appart in train so that's why we will see eachother normally 2 times a week, sometimes one time, ... (224 words

I want to be the 'Miss' and him the 'Master', but it seems like he don't want to control me!

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - How do I get my husband to be controlling in the bedroom? I want to be the miss and him be the master. But it seems like he don't want to control me, or make me do things to him, but that's the only thing that gets me off, and in the mood. Can anyone help me on advice?... (60 words

I'm too different from most other teens? It seems like all the other teens are watching those dumb reality shows and Family Guy.

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14 August 2008 (M age 30-35 - How can I get a girlfriend, when I'm too different from most other teens? I always seem to have the unpopular or uncool opinion on things. Like watching school brawls, everyone else thinks it's funny and cool to watch. I always just walk to a different part of the school w... (262 words

I really don't want her to date others as well as me, and I don't know what to do next.

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14 August 2008 (M - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years. I'm the first serious boy friend she has had. She now says she wants to see other people (just on dates) but still go out with me. She said something she needs to get out her system to make sure she's making the right ch... (110 words

How does a woman know when a man is in love with her?

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14 August 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a question for a male. How does a woman know when a man is in love with her? Thank u. ... (30 words

I'm 12 and I'm getting my first kiss soon. Help!!

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14 August 2008 (M age 26-29 - im 12 years old and im getting meh first kiss in 2 or 3 days! i need to know every thing, like where do my teeth go? and how do i get her in da mood? and how do i know if she is ready? for both its our first kisses. im so confused?!?!?!?... (54 words

I need tips on positions to spice up our sex life.

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14 August 2008 (? age 36-40 - I want to try new sexual positions with my boyfriend. Does anyone have any suggestions that have worked out well with your own partners? Please no links to websites, etc. I just want suggestions. ... (49 words

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