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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have known my Best Friend for over three years now.Over the past year i have fallen for him.He was my first for everything and we are extremly close.I have always given him my all,put him infront of me,and always have tried to make him happy.I get Nothing in return.He has constantly taken me for granted,and had sex with some girl he doesnt even know! He's trying to act like a player since he's growning up.So i told him that he cant keep taking me for granted and always putting me to the side,and i was done with him.We havent spoken in 5 days! Might I mention we work together..Well,he was like my first love,and i feel like im dying.I dont know what to do and how to handle this! Our mutual friend told me that he looks so sad.And I love him and miss him,but i know that i deserve much more and am tired of not being treated right.So when or If he comes back to talk try and be my friend again i dont know what to do! I dont want to be treated like im worthless,and everytime im around him he's constantly stressing me out because i worry so much about him.I would really like someone to talk to.thank you.xxoo
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Honey, I hate to say this but could it be that you think a lot more of him than he does you. He doesnt sound very grown up, and I would be very surprised if he could stay faithfull. You say he is a player, so why would you want to be with a guy like that??
Find someone that will treat you like a proper G/F and let this guy grow up a bit before you let him back into your life emotionally.
Dont let him take advantage, you are too good for that
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