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writes: help, i have feelings for a work collegue, i am in an 11 year relationship, i am 33 the work collegue is 19. we spend quite a lot of time together outside of work, sociallising . i thought i had things under control as some fellow work friends where commenting on the amount of time we were spending together and i just saw him as a very good friend, now i cannot stop thinking about him, i have no interest in my partner who is a good man, i feel like teeneager again, i do not know what my friend feels but i sense there is something there as he always wants to spend time with me and he is always phoning me, what should i do? it is driving me mad. Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, fran, writes (7 February 2005): i know how you feel. your marriage isn't going anywhere so you get friendly with this colleague. you'll find that you're more attracted to him because he's giving you the attention that you want. he makes you feel young again.you need to find out how he feels before you do anything because you could ruin everything. have you thought about spending time with your husband and trying to rekindle what you once had? if you manage to do that you might find you don't need this younger person,and think about what life will be like in 10 years' time.
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