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writes:Oh man. Alrighty will to start this off i am 17 and in my senior year of high school. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months now and love it. We NEVER fight, which is very odd but very stress free. He already graduated and now is 21. The age thing is always a problem for people, i just dont understand, wow 4 years, but nothing I can change about that. We've known each other for almost a year and completely in love. We do talk about marriage and kids, and thats our plan. But there is where im always effy at. See Im head over heels in love with him but i understand that most marriages dont work out when marrying young. He has given me a promise ring and says we're together forever. This is my 2nd long term relationship and his like 4th. He made the decision to move about 2 hours away for a better job which i back him up 100%. But ever since he has told me he is constantly saying that i better not cheat on him. He says he has been hurt by every girlfriend by cheating. How can i explain and show him that i wont? If anything i should be worried about him. New town, new girls, girlfriend would never know. Yeah. I mean hell i even lost my virginity to him. Ive had trust problems with him, but he hasnt proven me wrong in 9 months so i should be able to trust him... right?Ever since we started dating he has been at my house every single day. I seriously cant think of a day when he hasnt been here. So me being paranoid about him cheating is stupid, right? Ive never told anyone about our future we have planned out. The main reason i havent is because i see so many people marrying young and getting a divorce. I know its wrong thinking that its not going to last, believe me i want it too. But i am really too young to be thinking about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): You can't explain to him you're not going to cheat, action speak louder than words as they say.
There is nothing wrong with thinking about the future, so just enjoy what you have and see where the journey takes you.
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