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41-50,
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writes:I have been with my boyfriend 3 months.We are still in that 'honeymoon' period, and I really fancy him, physically and personality wise.But sometimes I have doubts.Is this normal?You can't ever be 100% happy and completely satisfied all the time can you?
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reader, Cherriepie  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 No you cant ne 100 percent happy! You can be 90 percent happy and compromise on the ten percent. I dont think even the best of relationships everybody sees eye to eye and is perfect. thats why you have to put some effort in making a relationship work. Because we are all human and think diffently thats the way it is...
And even if you thnk its perfect, never get lazy in a relationship...it takes work and effort no matter what.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Yes, this is normal. But realistically, we will never find Mr. Perfect, and I think this is what your realizing. Certain behaviors you may notice are unacceptable, or just make you feel bad. This is where communication begins. If you discuss these issues and he changes, realizing they are bad behaviors and that others to are repulsed by them, he will change, if he cares. If he changes and communication remains open lke this, your feelings may change. Your young, and realizing communication techniques will help each other will make future relationships happier. We may all continue feeling the blues at times, but these blues are just reminding us we still have work to do with either ourselves or our relationships.
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