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writes:I'm in love with a teacher at my school. I don't know what to do, because I've told too many people and he's probably going to find out.I don't want to get over him. He's so nice and... I just don't know what to do. His wife is my French teacher, which is kind of... awkward.What should I do?
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reader, Lady Aunt +, writes (27 January 2008):
He has probbably found out but the best you can do is carry on the way you are.
Who cares if his wifs your french teacher, just keep going on the way you are theres nothing wrong with falling in love and having a crush.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): If your french teacher find out you like her man she probably try in give you a bad grade just beacause you want her man ......... In if she think he want you back ........... you are in big trouble just leave him alone you can still like him but have your distance between you in him !!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Tevote  +, writes (3 January 2008):
 ok to the person who wants to know why we fall in love with our male teachers, they are a lot sweeter than young idiotic males. for one young males are very disrespectful and just plain immature. Also we can't really help falling in love it kind of just happens. Male teachers are respectful, kind and just plain mature. That doesnt completely sum it up but hopefully you understand a little better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): oki ignore that person who put that comment! You cant help who you fall for .. my advice would be to flirt with lads your own age or do something where you can get him of your mind its illegal and hes married! you dont want to screw his marrige up, also if he dont feel the same way things are going to get complicated round school.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): I wish somebody could explain to me why there are so many posts on this site from teenage girls who are in love with their male teachers. I mean, WTF is up with that? This doesn't make sense. I have been reading posts from girls your age who say they are in love with male teachers in their 40s and 50s, and that doesn't make any sense to me at all. How could a girl so young fall in love, or even be remotely attracted, especially sexually attracted, to a man who is old enough to be her father? Can anyone here explain why this happens?
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reader, findingme67  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 Well it's common for student to have a crush on their teacher sometime during highschool years. Unfortunaltely, most of them do not hold a real relationship with their teacher.
If I were you, I would try not to tell anyone else, that's how rumors could get started. With his wife being your teacher as well, I would strongly advise you to let him go. You can admire him from a far, but this situation you're in SCREAMS trouble. Do yourself a favor and try to find a guy in your grade to help you get over this teacher, it will help you out in the long-run.
Also, is this teacher nice, or is he flirty? If so, then you should notify a faculty member in the school.
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