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writes: I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years now and I completely love him to bits. We plan to move in together next year and eventually get married. But two days ago I went to my work Christmas party and got stupidly drunk. I ended up going on to another pub with a guy who knows my work mates and we ended up having a kiss. I do not fancy him at all, and if I was single I probably wouldn't want him to be my boyfriend as there is no chemistry. But now I feel so guilty and terrible! I don't know if I should tell my boyfriend... It would break his heart. This other guy knows I have a boyfriend and has said he won't mention the incident again. I feel like a terrible person. What should I do?N
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, TIsh, writes (3 January 2005): If you love this man, and want your relationship to progress then tell him. You can't take the next step in your relationship if you feel guilty. Explain yourself to him - tell him everything that happened. He may loose trust for a while, but at least you will know where you stand and you'll be able to sleep at night. It's better that he hears it from you! If the other guy doesn't slip up, someone will. Hearing it from someone else means your relationship is OVER! You can't keep a realtionship on lies.
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