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Would you sleep with a man knowing that he flirts with most females that come his way?

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Question - (10 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

Would you sleep with a man knowing that he does flirt with most females that come his way? he is aged 56 and wanted sex with me on holiday but I didnt "do it". then we met up and all he talked about was other women he liked flirting with-which, indicated to me he was a womaniser.

Whilst I know men like looking and laughing about- he made me feel uneasy and when he wanted sex with me on holiday. Even though the meals were included in the holiday he didnt say shall we go for a meal on our own and get acquainted.

He ate his meals with other people, and to be honest I felt a bit insulted that just for ONE evening he couldnt ask me, especially as he wanted sex with me, and was expecting me to go into his room without having the "romantic scene set".

Did I do the right thing here by expecting a bit of "romantic setting before sex"?

(which I didnt do)

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A female reader, 48years  +, writes (26 December 2008):

48years agony auntHas this fellow been divorced very long? He may be an out of practice fumbler....

Guys talk to you about conquests or flirtations to let you know that other women desire them...they think it makes us want them when it actually has the reverse effect.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008):

It sounds like this guy is a 16 year old BOY in a 56 year old mans body. You should expect respect, attention, loving carasses, and special moments with a man, and yes Love, befor you should have sex with him...I am a Christian, and beleive in marriage befor sex, but if this is what you feel, I won't judge you on your decesion. God Bless my Sister. Expect more from this fella...you are a lady and deserver more.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (11 July 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntI think you did the right thing for you. He sounds like a man who is full of himself, generous to his own ego, but not to others. Actually, his bravado may be hiding a very insecure man. If he was so great, why would he need to brag about his past conquests to his current target?

Yuck to him. Good for you!

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