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writes:Would any of you ever forgive a girl (or boy) if they used you to talk more to my best friend when i thought she liked me? Well a girl who i loved used me to talk more to my friend. I was quite hurt when i found out the truth that she was just actin to use me e.g. she asked me out on date to see if my mate gets jealous. After she found out she made excuse to goin on date whereas i was lookin forward to it because she was simply the girl of my dreams It really hurts that i've found out. She has said sorry and said she did not intend to hurt me. Would you guys accept this apology?
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (1 July 2007):
 It sounds like she really didnt intend to hurt you and was in her own little selfish world at the time she was trying to get your friends attention. I deal with people who have their own little world all day, and sometimes they dont relise what they are doing. Forgive her but make sure she knows how much you were hurt from what she did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007): Hi Hun,
Im not a guy but i am surrounded on a daily basis by 3 of them....This is a very cruel way of getting to know someone for obvious reasons, as it has left you feeling so hurt and even though you are all still young i think there is a certain age where you no whats going to hurt someone or not.....And as this was preplaned then she new all along what she was doing. Saying that she probably had her mind so set on what she wanted she didnt think about the hurt and pain she would cause with her actions...Hunny you are young and i no your hurting but one day you will find someone else and think what was i thinking.... It is your decision if you feel comfortable talking to her again or if your going to let this pull you down and affect your chances of meeting other girls, All in good time of course... She is with your friend still? So you are going to bump into them if this is so its going to be hard... The thing that would be bothering me is if this is a friend of yours then he went out with this girl anyway even though he must have known you liked her.. How close is your friendship? There has to be trust in friendships to sweety, So are you going to let this get the better of you or are you going to rise above the lies and deceit and become a stronger person for it in time love... Your hurt will pass and you now no who you can and canot really trust.. I wish you all the luck TAKE LOTS OF CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, lilifoxy +, writes (1 July 2007):
 I'm sorry but I think you should forget about her she sounds cruel and how do you know that she won't do it again? Tell her she hurt you too much and you want out of the relationship.
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