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writes:I am wondering if there is anything that an average looking girl could do to grab a guys attention? Is there a (non-slutty) way she could dress? A specific perfume? Any behavior? Something she could say? Have you ever developed an attraction for a girl after hanging out with her? (like initially you didn't consider her attractive but later did) Do average girls just have to be patient and wait for a guy to get to know her personality before he will develop a dating interest? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2015): Average is the majority and the norm. So I guess mostly average men and women get approached.
If you have issues with self-esteem, you will place blame on yourself and unrelated factors; when timing and location is the major determinate as to whether someone will be attracted to you and approach you. Home-bodies don't get a lot of action; and people fishing the internet for fish in a barrel get a lot of dates, but they don't usually match. Profiles are what people wish they were, or who they think they are. If you asked someone who knew them well, you'd get a more honest opinion. Pretty pictures can hide the devil beneath the image. There are great guys searching for lovely ladies, who don't have to be fantasy models to attract them. That's what you've told yourself.
If you don't see yourself as lovable or attractive, that's your problem. Desperate or self-deprecating behavior is unattractive. Everyone has something about them that will attract someone out there. It may not always be the person you may set your sites on. Love happens incidentally. It's never planned, and you run into people and chemistry starts from that point. It's not always about how you look, or what you're wearing. However; fixing yourself up is a plus, but it's your personality and attitude that says more about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2015): its not good to be too looks orientated.Whilst you consider yourself average let m assure you that young women have remarkable indefinable qualities that will always attract the male like a bee to a buttercup.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (14 August 2015):
Considering the majority of people are average and they seem to find mates, your answer is that you'll find someone. Whether or not it's a specific guy, who knows. Increase your chances by approaching him.
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