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writes:I've just been out of a four year long relationship with a girl who's been really very close to me. Its been some time after our break up, but our relationship was very intimate and we went as far as foreplay. We're just in our twenties.She's been shy girl outside, but when we got to know each other well, she's been on the 'horny' side.She says she now has a new boyfriend. Is this possible for her? Would she feel bad for having done all that with me now that she's with a new guy?I don't know if I should even be bothering about it, but hey, we've been together for a long time, I just feel I should know.
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reader, popstar +, writes (10 December 2011):
popstar is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all. Your replies only make me thing in the right order.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2011): it's very possible that she already has a new guy. the 2 of you are done. she is free to find a new man. she doesn't need to feel bad about it. she probably doesn't.
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reader, bluecow  +, writes (8 December 2011):
 HiyaI can guarentee that its possible for her to now love someone else. Whether she feels guilty for the sexual experiences she has had with you isnt something I can answer. I would expect it depends on culture, personal morals and whether other people who are aware of her actions make her feel guilty over it. I find your comment about her being shy but horny actually very offensive. She has a HEALTHY sexual appetite... this is NOT something that needs remarking on or commenting on.AS for whether you should know... Her life, Her relationships, Her feelings, and Her sex life are now NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. Your relationship is OVER, so its time to let go and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2011): Plenty of people have done more than foreplay and then got together with someone else. Now she is your ex it really shouldn't be your concern, concentrate on yourself and make yourself happy and when the time is right for you, you will meet a new girl to share your time with.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (8 December 2011):
 Sadly for you,she's gone from your life and is no longer your concern. You should NOT be bothering about it. It's NOT your business. you have no right to know what she is doing now.
why are you so incredulous that she has a new boyfriend?? and I have no clue how she feels... ONLY she knows how she feels... but again, she's not your girlfriend any more so she's no longer your concern.
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