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writes:I secretly am in love with my best guy friend.We are both 16 years old.I want to tell him so bad,but we have been friends for over two years now,i am afraid it will ruin our friendship.Im not very good with words.I have no idea,because keeping this inside is making me have a short temper around him as it frustrates me.Anyone have any advise on what to do?all the advise i can get would be very much appreciated.xoxo Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): You poor thing! What a frustrating situation to be in! I think that if this guy is truly the friend you think he is then telling him is the best option. The first thing i would do is to start a conversation with him about dating. Ask him if their is anyone he is dating at the moment or anyone he sort of likes. If he says No then great push a little bit further and tell him that their is someone you like at the moment, when he asks who you can say 'well actually it's you'.If he likes you too then that's wonderful you already have a great friendship to build a relationship on.If he says he doesn't think of you romantically try really hard to swallow your pride and stay friends with him. No matter how hurt you may feel. If he is truly a good friend he will let you down gently. I would go for it at least then you won't be torturing yourself with a 'What If?'Good Luck !!!!!!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 January 2008):
 I think after knowing him for two years , you should chance it by telling him your feelings. If he does not feel for you , you can still be friends.
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