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writes:Hi so this boy I like likes me back I asked him back and he said no as he didn't want a gf at the moment!So my friend said to him that I wanted to hug him and thas is sorta true... Anyway he said he wants to hug to!!My question is would I hug him a and would it be wrong if I did as we don't go out?????? HELP!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2014): Hun, this isn't love and certainly not true love. You're both infatuated, or at least you are because you're so desperate for him to want you and I'm not sure he does because he would at least try dating you if he REALLY wanted YOU to be his girlfriend, ready or not.
Hugging him will only hurt you more; YOU are the only one putting effort in and that isn't love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your time in answering to my question it has set my mind straight on how things work when it comes to hugging him!! Can I just say that if I wasn't so hung up on him it wouldn't be true love I can't help that I love him so much I want to get it right and not screw up!!! I can't stand the thought of not having him around!! Thanks again everyone! :)
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reader, fitbabe1987  +, writes (21 July 2014):
I hug my male and female friends alk the time. Nothing wrong with it at all.
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reader, -BMBTL- +, writes (21 July 2014):
 Hey!
No, you do not need to 'go out' if you have hugged him!
Remember, things take time to develop, you can't just go out with someone instantaneously, after you have hugged!
Just spend some time with him, be his friend, hug him when you see him and see what happens, don't force it too much cause then he might not like that and see where it goes from there okay! :)
Good luck!
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reader, ReeRee911  +, writes (21 July 2014):
Hugging is a friendly greeting! It should be just fine if its something you both wanted to do, because girlfriend and boyfriend are only titles. If you like each other then hug it out! It should be totally acdeptable. Keep in mind, just suggest it or say something. Good luck! (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2014): You're too hung up on this boy: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-said-he-liked-me-yet-turned-me.html Hugging him isn't wrong, but it won't mean nothing, so it's only going to hurt you both (if his feelings are genuine).
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