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writes:Thanks in as ace for your help. Yes I am still in school. I really like this girl, she's in all my classes, and I talk to her once in a while. She has been with one of my friends for a week or two. They just broke up like a day ago. I was gonna aske her out before my friend, but I didn't see her and then she was taken. So now that I have my shot I want to make her a little bracelet, which is something that I have learned to do. I want to give it to her when I ask her out, and I intense to get her number this week, because next week We are having our entire grade go camping and I want to ask her there when nobody else is really alone. I wanna know if this sounds too much, or if this would be good. The bracelet wouldn't be all fancy, just a nice little charm.
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reader, Eredyn  +, writes (29 October 2011):
Hm, Christmas is coming up so maybe give it to her as a gift so it doesn't seem as...odd. It's a really cute idea, though. (:
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 October 2011):
 I would NOT give her a bracelet, just yet.
You don't really know her, don't even have her phone number, so giving her gifts can seem a little odd.
Now AFTER you phone her, and if you two go out on a date and you reallllly like her, then 2-3 months down the line I think a bracelet would be cute.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2011): I think that is a cute idea. I remember thinking up things like this when I was that age.
I know they were only together for a week or two, but the other answer is right, if they only broke up a day ago, then it is far too early to do anything, and it will most likely blow up in your face. Give them a little bit of time, at least a few days, to figure out if to figure out if they have really broken up, if either one is still interested, or whats going on. If you act on it right now with the breakup so fresh, you risk losing one, the other, or both.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (26 October 2011):
 Well i defointly think the little bracelet thing you got going on there is a reallly great idea!
Also as its handmade it shows that you are willing to put the effort it.
However i do think it is still far to early, if she broke up with him a day ago then she could be feeling loads of different things and i think maybe if you give her a week maybe two weeks to recover then try and ask her out it would be alot better.
P.s what if your friends still likes her then you go and take her? you have got to take into concideration you could lose one of your friends over this.
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