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writes:Would it be right for me if i broke up with my bf of 7 months? I dont knw but i am so confused. I love him so much, no doubt, and he is the reason why i am not double dating, but im really getting hurt. The worst aspect is dat he doesnt trust me, he thinks i lie in anything i tells him. The recent one was last time, i called him, he sounded so funny like he was wit another girl. I tried bringin up a conversation, n he kept quiet, i got pretty angry and then hung up on him then texted him thinkin he would call me back, but he didnt. I didnt call him for 2 days and he didnt either. Six days back i text him n told him i needed a break n since then he hasnt called. Im so confused about everything and really need help before i go insane becos he is driving me nuts. Please any advice would do. Thanks.
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reader, llifton  +, writes (10 June 2014):
 Hey there.
It sounds to me as if this relationship may be more trouble than it's worth. Granted, not all relationships that begin with trouble, end with trouble. But the way in which the trouble is dealt with is important. If you can grow and learn how to work through your issues together, that's great. However, it sounds as if the way you both conduct yourselves during disagreements isn't healthy. He is acting shady and you are reacting by hanging up. Both not good. If you're having so many problems and fights so early on, and asking for breaks and not speaking for days, and not learning with each mistake how to communicate more effectively, I say it may be time to consider finding someone else.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (10 June 2014):
Him being quiet doesn't automatically mean there was a girl there. He could have just not answered the phone in the first place. So I think you both have trust issues.
I don't know what to help you with here, but you could just call him if you want to be with him. The break was your idea, remember?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (10 June 2014):
 Nothing sounds right here. I would suggest you move on now. You must follow your gut feeling and realise that your instincts are probably right and he is seeing other people behind your back.
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