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Would girls laugh and blow kisses to someone don't know, but they do find that person to be attractive, to them?

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Question - (5 May 2015) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Interesting scenario and am interested in hearing thoughts. There is this guy I know who us girls find cute/good looking.

I saw him trying to drive out of a parking bay at the side of the street. He was blocked by bit of a jam of cars coming the other way.

Two attractive girls(who didn't know him) in a car were blocking his way and had ample place to move a bit forward to let him get through to the other side of the road.

He signaled to them to move a bit forward, but instead they just laughed and waved(and possibly blew kisses, not sure) and wouldn't get out the way.

Would girls do this to someone they find attractive? Me, I would have done anything for such a guy. And if they didn't find him cute, people definitely don't do this to any plain John, normally they would just move up. So doesn't it seem they did it because of his cuteness. Wondering what people think.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2015):

I once blew a kiss to a street musician in New Orleans because he called to me and was asking me to come and give him a kiss. I didn't feel at all comfortable approaching within arms distance of this guy, but I wanted to spare his ego a bit and be nice, so just smiled and blew a kiss instead.

All of us (me him and his band) got a nice laugh too.

Guess blowing of kisses could happen for a miriad of reasons, sounds like in your scenario they were just being rude.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2015):

Op here. They didn't know him and he wasn't rude, as polite as possible. However, I can't see how it wasn't attraction or his good looks. It's just not done to the average Joe bloggs.

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A female reader, RubyBirtle United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2015):

I totally agree with the other aunties, that it was a sarcastic gesture rather than a flirtatious one. or maybe they do know him. I also think that these girls were showing off - to each other. You can bet your bottom dollar that neither of them would have done it if they'd been on their own without an appreciative audience to egg them on and laugh about it afterwards.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (6 May 2015):

Honeypie agony auntI'm with Cindy - it wasn't because they GUSHING over his good looks.. It's was a tongue in cheek middle finger.

My guess is, they DO know him.

Another guess? THEY were making sure they got his attention. Blocking him in leaves him STUCK right there so they can see him, he can see them...

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (6 May 2015):

CindyCares agony auntWho knows. Maybe they knew him, maybe they were just being silly.

Had it happened here, I'd definitely say it was a tongue-in-cheek, polite alternative to showing him the middle finger,in case he had been too brusque or impatient in waving them away.

I mean, not that it's nice to block the way of other drivers... but some drivers are so rude and hysterical that a fraction of second of delay will have them gesturing and honking. So , blowing kisses is a mocking way to say " sure, my prince, as you wish - the road is all yours ".

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