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writes:Okay so I recently signed up for an online dating site. I met this guy, we added each other to msn and have been talking everyday for about a month now. We have talked some days for 7 hours! We have a really good time talking to each other, and we flirt. He is really shy, so he has never really complemented me directly. He sends winks, and says thing that make me thing hes into me, but im not sure. He always calls me kiddo, and recently called me buddy. Is is just turning into a friendship? Would a guy waste time talking to a girl online if he just wanted to be friends?
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reader, daniella888 +, writes (4 March 2007):
daniella888 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHeather,
Thank you very much for your input.
To answer your questions...
We have indeed exchanged pictures. Hes complemented me on how I look, and I have told him I think he is attractive. Whenever I tell him hes cute or compliment him in some way he laughs and tries to change the subject. I have been dropping nothing but hints to him but he always seems to change the subject and avoids having to give a serious answer. He is single, I actually know of him. Friends of friends know who he is, but we have never met. We have talked about it once, but he is nervous because he is too shy he says. He is just confusing me, I dont know what he thinks, and this whole calling me 'buddy' thing isnt helping. I wouldnt mind just being friends with the guy, but I also wouldnt mind it being more than that. I am beginning to feel like we need to meet and then take it from there. Boys are confusing! Ugggh.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (3 March 2007):
 probably he'd testing it both ways to see if u can b a partner too and not just a friend
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (3 March 2007):
 He may just want to be friends, or he may be dreaming of meeting a lady to share life & love with, but be very shy. It sounds like you really get on well together, have you exchanged photos? As he`s on a dating site, I hope he`s single, and just shy of "over-stepping" the mark; (if he`d started calling you "Honey/Sweetness/Darling etc from day one, you`d be equally as worried!). I think you should drop a few hints, (without sounding desperate!), about how you would love to meet a man that you have something in common with, go out and see the latest play/band/movie or whatever (public places). See what his reaction is. Chances are, he`s as smitten with you, as you are with him; which is why you came on here for advice! If you don`t already, you could add a couple of kisses at the end of your next message to him; you`re covered, if he questions it, you`re just being friendly, but I don`t think he will! Would Love to hear how you get on, With Love, Heather.
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