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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have been friends with this guy for about a year now,at first when i met him he had a girlfriend he lives in ohio in she lives in ga they had been dating for 4 yrs through college. through there time of dating they usually argue allot becasue she is this rich successful girl that loves to shop ( because her mother is a dentist),and he is just an average guy. we started off as just friends then came sex in allot of hanging out, he tells me that when there together they dont have sex anymore and sometimes she starts arguments for no reason. i started to grow feelings for him in he usually aplogizes even when hes not wrong just to make her happy. to make a long story story short last week she called her in told him she needed space for there future to be better in she dosent want him to date. he has been very sad, getting drunk everday. he tells me he loves me in her he has grown feelings for me that he cant get rid of. he also tells me that he still loves her in he dosent know what will happen. i aasked him if there could be an us in he told me yes but that she hurt his hurt in its still early they could get back together. i guess iam woried now cause there both going back to a school reunion this weekend out of town in who knows what can happen. can someone please give me advice on what i should do in my situation?
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reader, crystal1818 +, writes (9 November 2010):
Well sweety the only thing i can say is that everything happens for a reason.You should prepare youself for the worst in case he goes to this reuniun and they get back together. At least he is being honest with you about his feeling for you and her. Just prepare yourself hunny so if it happens you wont be as hurt as you would if you was confindent that nothing would happen. But if he was smart he would stay with you especially if she would start arguments for no reason i hope he wouldn't go back to that when he has a good woman in front of him
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