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writes:Well I'm 13I like girls, but I'm scared I'm turning gayI kind of get excited when I think about a penis, I get hard when I think of a penis, but I would never want to have sex or kiss another guy I'm sure i was born straight, I mean when I was in 2nd grade, I had a girlfriend, I used to always crush on carrieumderwood lol I have crushes on girls, but I only get hard with a penis :(I have some attraction to guys, but mostly a "man, I wish I looke like him" kinda thing (for guys with big muscles, good looks, etc)And I seem to get excited over the thought of a penis, I like girls though, I like boobs, everything about girlsAnd I'm also a Christian!Is this just a phase during puberty? :(
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reader, Htsn47 +, writes (28 November 2012):
 I wouldn't worry about it either. At your age, I recall having similar feelings. I'm heterosexual, am strongly attracted to women, and happily married.
I think what you are feeling is quite normal, but not often talked about because people are scared. But think about it this way: your body and brain are doing lots of developing right now, and you are experiencing a lot of things that are new. Everything is in flux, so it's "normal" for things to feel a little confused and strange for a bit.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 November 2012):
 you can't "TURN" gay. your sexual orientation is hard wired in your brain. MOST people are on a spectrum not 100% either way... MANY people have the ability to be bi-sexual.
My brother is gay. He knew it by the time he was your age. He had girlfriends and crushes on girls in grade school all the time.
Sounds to me like you're just normal... being aroused by gay porn or the thoughts of homosexual activities does not make you gay... it makes you normal.
Just like many heterosexual men like anal play it does not make them gay...
I think you need to stop worrying about it....
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (28 November 2012):
Yes sweetie, it is just a phase.
You are born gay or bi or whatever. You don't change into it later.
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reader, ZanjaLee  +, writes (28 November 2012):
 I think its normal and I don't think you are gay but maybe it is a phase... Try asking one of your friends if you haven't... Good luck and don't worry:)
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