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anonymous
writes:Hi, I'm 15 and my boyfriend has started to hint he wants to finger me. We've been together 2 months now and I want him to, but am a little nervous about it because I've never had it done before. I've tried masterbating myself but I've never actually had an orgasm. What am i going to do if he does it and i cant orgasm? I know that its obvious when i guy reaches 'that point' because he cums...is it that obvious when a girl orgasms? If not how is he going to know when to stop??Please help!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): everybody fakes it, men dont really know its happeneing as its easy to be convincing, in a perfect world u wudnt have to but its not, everybody does it at some point. i know its not really the question but ur nervous enough about the act so dont be nervous about how ul feel, do what u want (everybody does)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): Don't fake it! It's dishonest and if he thinks he is doing it already, then you will never have an orgasm with him. To have an orgasm first you have to feel comfortable with the situation and guy. I could do it myself since I was 15, but I didn't not have an orgasm from a guy till I was 23. You have to have trust, comfort, and communication. Please don't ever fake it, you will be cheating yourself and the guy. Wait until you are ready, if he really likes you he will respect that. Good Luck!
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (18 June 2007):
 I agree with DV1. Don't fake it cos if you tell your bf later he won't be happy and on rare occasion, possibly dump you.
Explore your body and find out how you like it and what will make you orgasm.
Also: If he doesn't know, tell him how to find your G-Spot. If you don't know, here's how: Take one or 2 fingers and slowly insert them. Then curl them up and you will feel a soft, spongy area. When you do, congrats you've just found your G-spot.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 Don't fake it... That's one of the biggest things that you can do to insult a guy, especially if he finds out. Just experiment a little bit on your own, and find out what works for you. Be honest about your situation to him. Also, ask him to respect you, and not rush things until you definitely feel ready. Just remember: you're around 15. If you go farther than that, be prepared for consequences like pregnancy...
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (18 June 2007):
 well a little tip fake it make noises while he is doin it but not as soon as he has done after a while make noises and u will no if u r having an orgasm because u will feel all hot and it feels like u have jusy relased something that been caged in for a while. but only do it when u r good and ready never do anythin to please the bf its not worth it and once he has done it u will feel more confident about the seually stuff just don't have sex yet and take the tip fake the orgasm its normal if u don't have an orgasim from being fingered. xxxx
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