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writes:Hey all, I was wondering what you guys thought of this. My boyfriend has a lot of female buddies, he is open with me meeting them, and they all seem very nice. But there are two that I seem to find myself wondering about. One of which he seems to have a bit of a flirty relationship, but its usually when I'm not around, and photos go up on facebook, he's always kissing her cheek or hugging her, theres one of him licking a drawn on necklace on her neck and him massaging her leg... along with some normal ones also. They have lived in a house share for uni and have been friends like 8 years. They used to get drunk a lot together after work. But not really since we have been going out.The other one, he just seems really fond of, and looks upto her kind of, she is 4 years younger. I have been around them, and one time he didnt make eye contact with me and was ranting on to her about work, when 3 of us were standing there. He was drunk. But we go to an exhibition and he says oh so and so had an article written on this exhibition, hes got a painting she drew for him in his house, she does have a boyfriend, my and her boyfriend do some sports together and do seem to get along. He'll say things like oh me and so and so use to sit in the pub for hours and chat all day, and friends would come and go say hi... I have been in the same room with them both and he has said to me i am the prettiest girl in this room..but i find myself worrying about these particular two girls. He has many many female friends, its just these two...Am I just being a green eyed monster? :s I should I discuss with him i feel a bit uncomfortable, I don't want to make a point of these two girls incase he stops me meeting up with them, or feels awkward about it.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 May 2012):
 At the end of the day he has been friends with these girls for a long time, and it does not look like he is going to change that any time soon. I can totally understand why you are feeling uncomfortable. Maybe it is better you come clean to him about how you are feeling. Tell him that you understand that they are his friends and you don't want to come in between that but just tell him about the few things that have got to you. Am sure he will reassure you. It does sound like they are just really good friends. So hopefully if you be truthful to him and clear the air you will feel much better.
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