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writes: I ve been seeing my girlfreind for 5 months. We are engaged and living together. At the begining we was fantastic. we laughed and we connected when we was in each other's company. It felt so right, we was really happy. We worked together for 4 months behind a bar and there were times when I was jealous. There were times I was not comfortable the way she would talk to people. Then just before christmas we both handed in our notice. I left but she stayed because we had no other money coming in. Now she says she is not happy and the magic that was there before aint there anymore. Boxing day she told me not to go home and I stayed away for 2 days. Now this week she said to finish the relationship because she doesn't know what to do to get the magic back. We are still together now but I feel I don't know where I stand. It dont help me being out of work now but I should be starting a new job in about 4 weeks. Can you help me and tell me what I need to do? I realy love her and she says she loves me too. Thats why I still here. She wants us to work too, I just need to know what to do. Please can you help me. Russ.
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reader, Angel Underneath +, writes (30 December 2005):
Its hard when things move fast at the start because the first year is spent getting to know each other and things DO change as you stay together longer and the magic whirlwind in love bit fades into something more stable but stronger if things work out. Try not to pressure her my talking about the relationship for a while and just have fun together. If she wants to split up then you can't really do anything about it but just concentrate for the time being on being friends as well as lovers and try and get the fun back
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