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writes: I was seeing someone for 2 months, I thought he was the one. He liked me I know, but after 2 months I came to realise by text that he did not want to carry on with the relationship. he offered no explanation & I then had to tell people that it was over. I wasn't heartbroken as I didn't actually fall for him within that time but I was disappointed as I thought this was the one and I was prepared to give him my all. At Xmas he sent me a text and in a nutshell he wanted to give it another go. I knew deep down that I wanted to, but wanted to make him sweat and stew. Things were going well until there was a period of 2 days when I didnt hear anything from him. To me this felt like the last time when he broke up and I suddenly got very cold feet & felt I should end it before he did. So I texted him and asked what he was up to & his reply made me jumpy. So I said we should end it and he should delete my phone number. I felt happy with this for approx 2 days & then promptly missed him. I am now at a loss, I feel I cannot contact him now as I will feel stupid & now also fear rejection. Also, I do not want to have a ping pong relationship going back and forth and also there was a fundemental problem, I have a 13 yr old son, he has a 5 yr old daughter with learning problems who he dotes on. I dont expect to come between them, but he never made me feel as if I was important, this is what I was waiting for the 2nd time. I know he really liked me, he would text me but never actually say anything to me face to face which I needed. So should there be a 3rd attempt or should we truly give up and move on.
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, nina, writes (6 February 2005): look if you want it bad enough then go for it. rejection is another form of life, it'l only make you stronger. there is only 50% chance that he will turn his back so you have nothing to lose. there are plenty of fishes in the sea so don't hold back for just one fish who does not know whether its going or coming, at least while you're waiting have yourself some fun. its the least you could do for yourself.
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