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*eleavelli
writes:My very good friend, just turned an adult 18yrs. There is a girl with whom he has been going out with for some time now, but has finally decided that he wants to date her, and the two of them are in the same university.I'm concerned because i'm not sure, that he is mature enough even though he is an adult. Please i need your opinion or comment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): Why are you putting your friend down, are you jelous? How hurt would he be to find you posted this? I think he is fine to date, you on the other hand are really condescending, something that will not serve you well
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): I agree completely with Lola1's comment you have not given enough information for anyone tobe able to give helpful informative advce about this situation.At the end of the day your friend however immature is an adult and is old enough to decide what to do in his own relationship.Maybe you should give him some space to make his owns decisions and choices.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 There isn't enough information here. We don't know why you would doubt his maturity.
Frankly, I don't see why it is any of your business whether he dates or not, unless you are questioning whether or not he should engage with this girl sexually.
If it IS just DATING we are talking about here, then we can often grow and learn and MATURE through experiences. Dating is a good experience which will help him mature.
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