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female
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anonymous
writes: Men are all the time saying that women are crazy and psycho, but are they unaware that their behavior or certain acts on their part often times is what stimulates women to act irrationally? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Illithid +, writes (17 July 2010):
It's not that all women are psycho, it's that specific women can do specific things that are psycho from time to time. Just like men do. Though it has been my experience that women operate on more subtle levels, leaving men hopelessly confused about which Cause is related to which Effect, I wouldn't call that crazy. Frustrating maybe, but not psycho.
Though when a woman does something that is construed as psycho refuses to explain what set her off and leaves the man unaware of what he did wrong, then gets upset that he does it again having never been asked to stop, that is psycho.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (17 July 2010):
I agree with anti, the men who claim women are 'psycho' are just very insecure. This doesn't mean all men do the same thing.
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reader, baddogbj +, writes (17 July 2010):
I don't think that men are "all the time" saying that at all. Maybe just men that know you, perhaps??
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (17 July 2010):
I have not heard any men I know saying that women are psycho and crazy. So I actually disagree with your statement that "Men are all the time saying" that.
It sounds to me that there is ONE man who has said this to you and you are upset and angry about it. I take it that this is not the best relationship at this point?
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reader, Miamine +, writes (17 July 2010):
(wipes off weapon) Good way to cut a man down to size... :)
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reader, Miamine +, writes (17 July 2010):
And visa-versa... men can seem psycho and irrational to women who push them into reacting that way..
It's not a man woman thing, people act badly and don't seem able to communicate and empathise with how somebody else feels..
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (17 July 2010):
I don't agree. There are men or persons in general that test your limits even cruelly, but nobody will "make you " act crazy. We have the responsibility for our actions ,and our reactions. Part of this responsibility consists in learning to control not the emotions we feel ( which can be pretty wild at times ) but the way we espress these emotions, and make sure that they are rational,civillized,non-destructive ways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): hahahahaha that's too funny. I having that same issue with my boyfriend right now....he calls me crazy but refuses to accept responsibility for his part.
No I really don't think guys are aware of it at all. It seems many don't have the reasoning skills to see it. I'm not really sure what it is exactly but it's very frusturating!
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