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writes:My wife and I would like to experiment playing with another couple. Not ready for full blown sex, nor oral sex even. We have also talked about MFF like this, or her doing stuff w another guy, but again no penetration or oral. There is no way we would put out an add or interview people, or anything so business like it would have to be somewhat spontaneous Any advice on how we could increase our chances of something like this happening?
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (15 August 2012):
If you live near a major city there are probably swinger parties. Some are higher end and you have to be screened first. You and your wife can just go to look and you will meet like minded couples. You don't have to do anything there.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (15 August 2012):
 What you are talking about is polyamory. There are numerous support groups all over the country that can help you figure out how it all works, and help you get started. Try that topic on meetup.com for a start.
Frankly, you will not have an easy time finding what you are looking for. Most people who are poly are interested in some sort of sexual relationship. And the extra for a MFF is even more elusive ... in the poly community such women are referred to as "unicorns" because of the strong rumor that they are mythical.
But look around. See what there is. Chances are there is SOMEBODY interested in what you want to do. Actually finding them could be a but tougher. Your local poly support group may also have suggestions on how such contacts are made locally.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (15 August 2012):
What you are talking about is polyamory. There are numerous support groups all over the country that can help you figure out how it all works, and help you get started. Try that topic on meetup.com for a start.
Frankly, you will not have an easy time finding what you are looking for. Most people who are poly are interested in some sort of sexual relationship. And the extra for a MFF is even more elusive ... in the poly community such women are referred to as "unicorns" because of the strong rumor that they are mythical.
But look around. See what there is. Chances are there is SOMEBODY interested in what you want to do. Actually finding them could be a but tougher. Your local poly support group may also have suggestions on how such contacts are made locally.
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