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*mudge20051984
writes:My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3 years. We bought our first property together in September and had to work really hard on it before we moved in in January. (we did however already live together in his house before this!) I lived at his house for about 4 months and we were so happy but since we've moved into our place we just havent been able to get on. The month of March was terrible - all we did was argue. I want to work at things but he wants us to finish claiming he needs his independence back. We decided to split a week ago and since then we have been getting on like a house on fire - better than we have for years and he's been great! Then evey so often he'll mention something that reminds me he's going soon and Im heartbroken. What can I do??
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reader, smudge20051984 +, writes (19 April 2007):
smudge20051984 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for that Kelly!
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reader, kellyO +, writes (19 April 2007):
 Hi Smudge,
I do believe relationships have their moments of ups and down and coming together to deal with that stage and overcoming it is a true test of both your love.
You can try telling him you will really miss him and see what he has to say. If a guy really loves i know they can move mountains to be with you. Try to have a really great time now and show him in more ways how much you love him. Enjoy the moment you have together now so that if he does wish to go and move on you will know you tried and it was never just meant to be.
Goodluck dear
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