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Im 34 and hes 30, Im worried and insecure as I cant see why he would want me!?

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Question - (19 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2007)
A female Bhutan age 41-50, *ild_woman1 writes:

hi, im a 34 year old woman married to a younger man who is just 30 year old, we've been married for a 4 years now, we ve a 10 month old son. we love each other very much and also my parents likes him too.but this am guilty about my age difference. and i also feel insecure of my marriage life with him. "why would a 30 year old be interested in me. am afraid, pl. help me what should i do.but incase if he says im too old.

thankx

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A female reader, XXpussycatXX United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2007):

hya

you need to relax and enjoy yourself he is in love with you he married you didnt he and he is still around instead of feeling like this you shoul be thankfull he is still with ou i can see this is true love so relax and enjoy being with the man you love

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2007):

kenny agony auntIf two people are in love then age should not even come into it, certainly not four years. If he diden't love you he woulden't have married you, and certainly woulden't have had a child with you.

You have got to stop beating youself up over this small age gap, and stop convincing yourself of things that are not even there. You both love each other and that is all that counts.

Good luck x

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A female reader, xkimx United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2007):

xkimx agony auntno if he didnt love you he wouldnt be with you and marry u and have a kid with u think about it 4 years isnt that much of a difference

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