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30-35,
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writes:Im having kind of a hard time right now, and I dont know what to do. I dont even know what to think, really. I cheated on my boyfriend around five months ago. I made out with a guy and gave him a handjob. I was honest with my boyfriend and said I wasn't going to do it again. It makes me sick thinking about it now. His mom made me and him break up [Okay we're in highschool] but she ended up forgiving me and he forgave me and things with me and him and his mom are pretty good. BUT his dad wants nothing to do with me [his mom and dad aren't together] and me and my boyfriends cousin were okay two months ago, and now since im moving to germany for a little bit, he's trying to get him to break up with me, and he's telling my boyfriend that I had sex with the guy. Well, I didnt. Honestly, I didnt understand the lines of cheating until I crossed them. But i wouldn't have sex with that guy.Now me and my boyfriend are fine, we actually are planning on getting married when I get back.But every time he talks about me to his cousin/dad/friends they have horrible things to say about me, saying that im always cheating on him and always will. But i'm not. Some of his friends and family are okay with me...but some aren't, and idk what to do about it.And I dont want to go into a family that doesn't want me... What should I do? Advice? Do you think time will heal everything? What should I say/do?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 I'm sure you understood, making out and giving a hand job is cheating when you did it. Time heals what you did for you and your boyfriend. That doesn't mean his family has to be so accepting. Adult are exposed to cheating much more than teens are. Many people who cheat say it won't happen again, but it does. The only way you'll be able to solve this is by your actions. It may take time, but seeing you're faithful, is more believable an saying you won't do it again.
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