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Is the "play it casual" approach working?

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Question - (14 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2010)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi had some advice last week. I had met a man on a dating site and had been talking to him for a few months when things changed and we decided to leave each other alone for a while I asked when would be a good time to text him I had some good advice from caring guy, griffo. Angzw and pinktopaz and a couple of others. Caring guy told me just to casually text just to ask how he was and that was it I did this and he texed straight back. I have also texed him today and again he texed back. Is the play it casual working? I'm now going to leave it till the end of next week to text him. He always sign his texts with a x and a :-) is this a good sign. I would like to say a big thanks to everyone for there advice especially caring guy as this is what he told me to do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010):

Honey, seriously? don't get so emotionally invested in a guy you've never even met. If there is one thing I know about guys, it's that if they are interested in a woman they will BE in touch. You need to stop texting him and let him come to you. clearly "we decided to leave each other alone" means "HE" decided to leave it alone, since you clearly want to be in touch. He's not interested or he would be in touch. Possibly if he was on a dating site he's met someone else and is just responding to be polite and not burn bridges. Men are total wimps at even the idea of possibly hurting a woman's feelings. If he isn't contacting you then he's not interested. Move on.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2010):

Hi again. Seems like a good sign, just keep taking it slow and texting him, and see what happens :).

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