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We want a baby but no luck...any suggestions?

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Question - (25 February 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My husband been together for three years and we been trying to have a baby and we are not having any luck I just wanted to know what are your suggestions for me and my husband. If you can help plz tell.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011):

firstly, make sure ur both in good shape and if you both are then great! but if not maybe make a point of eating more healthily and getting fitter. Take vitamins that are expeshally for young women. partically ones that contain folic acid which is briliant for women trying to conceive.

Get to know ur body and its cycles. use an online fertillity calculator and good luck!

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A female reader, partly to blame Philippines +, writes (1 March 2011):

my husband and i have been childless too for almost 6 years, but in God's right time, we were able to have a child in our 6th year...

i think it was the right time for us to have children since prior to that we've had financial difficulty having a house and all the things that we needed for our little nest..

God truly works in ways we can't see.. he knows the RIGHT TIME for us to have babies.

try this tip (i hope this could help): one of the signs that we are ovulating is the presence of the very clear mucus, right? when you have that clear mucus-like, test it with your thumbs and point finger. stretch it as high as your fingers could stretch and if it does. it's high time to have sex with your husband. it's the tip of your ovulation period. i have tried it and i think it contributes to my pregnancy...

don't lose hope. you're both still young to bear children. just believe that it could happen and surely you could have your own children in the near future. Pray for it hard.

There will always be time for everything...

baby dust to you... good luck...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011):

All of what anonymous said. Your orgasm helps to move his sperm along inside you, and try to keep track of when you ovulate.

I never did any of this, but after 5 years, it suddenly just happened when I least expected it, and at a most inconvenient time, lol, but thats how life goes.

For me personally, I feel that there were other factors that I wasnt even aware of at the time that contributed to me becoming pregnant.

First, I began taking alot of vitamin C, mainly to give me energy. Roughly every other day I was taking prenatal vitamins as they are safe to take for anyone, you dont have to be pregnant. I took them just because I felt that I was low on energy and lacking key nutrients.

2 months later I was just doing the routine thing that everyone does when their period is a week late. Mainly to rule out pregnancy to the doctors should I need to go, I took a test. And then another. And another. 5 tests later (and Im not joking) I finally accepted that I was truly pregnant.

Keep the faith. I had just resigned myself to a childless future and all of a sudden I am blessed.

Good Luck!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011):

Well first you should go to fertility specialist and he will tell you what to do. Otherwise just have sex when you are ovulating as much as you can, you should have an orgasm and he should save up his sperm so when he ejaculates it's a large amount of sperm.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (25 February 2011):

dirtball agony auntHave you gone to a fertility specialist? If not, make an appointment.

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