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*achakaRoni
writes:Once trust has been lost do you think it's possible to regain it again? I constantly got hurt when I was with my boyfriend and left me with trust issues. Now its two years later and he seems genuine with me but I have a fear in the pit of my stomach if I start seeing him again I'll get hurt again. Can any 1 help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 In this world , you should never trust anyone but only trust yourself.Those you trust the most , steal the most. You know more than you think you do.
With that , don't simply give your trust to others. It could be anyone whether he is your boyfriend or somebody new. There is always the risk in any relationship.
Don't give you all and don't simply let anyone into your heart without much soul searching and considerations.
If it were to happens to you,accept it and move on because it is fated.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 I suppose the trust issues have to do with cheating, or flirting with other women? And that you broke up and thinking about getting back together two years later? Your body is telling you something. You should really think twice before seeing him again. I am also guessing that he's asking you to trust him and begging you to get together again? I don't think it's possible to regain trust again. It's not about your weakness. When he betrayed your trust the relationship is never the same again. Fear is a horrible start to a relationship. It's better to start fresh with a new partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): if someone does the same thing constantly,then it would be stupid to trust them. its also weird how people who constantly hurt,think that nothing should be mentioned and believe they should be trusted afterwards. dont go there.
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