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writes:How can I know for sure if my boyfriend is just testing me?We have been together 3 1/2 years and have a pretty good realationship. We've discussed having a threesome, swapping or even allowing eachother a weekend to ourselves to do what we want. In all honesty I'm interestsed in all of the above, as was his answer.We kinda set rules for the threesome, a rule we came up with is we do everything together with eachother's permission. Discuss, plan, prepare and the main thing is finding the right thing to try.So, I asked if he was serious about giving eachother a weekend to do what we wish, no questions asked, coming home Sunday and as if nothing ever happened. His answer was if that's what you want. I do love him and let me just tell you there's all kinds of women after him, he's a great guy and very well known in our area. He's slept w/probably 1/2 the women married or single in our area and has or should I say had a reputation for being a player.Now, it seems I just hit my prime and "sex" is all that's on my mind, to a point that it's freaking me out. Is this normal? How long does it last? Here's my fear. What if he's just testing me? What if I take him up on the solo weekend, he allows it and when I come home Sunday - all my clothes are out on the lawn. And he's just waiting to say "I can't believe you actually did it"So, how do I know for sure that WE or HE wants the same experience's? And that he's not just testing me. In all honestly I believe he's already been there and done that.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (6 June 2008):
 Hi,
If he is not normally someone who tests you on your loyalty , and judging by what you have said about his history, I doubt he would be doing it as some sort of fidelity test. Seems like he is as keen as you.
However, I would advise that the plan to "disappear" for the weekend is fraught with risks. Wouldn't you be better off doing things together involving other couples?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): Why not just ask him?
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