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Will my brace affect foreplay?

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Question - (7 March 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi i recently got a wire brace in the roof of my mouth i dunno what it is called but it just loops round the rook and isn't that big.

My question is... Can I still give my boyfriend a blow job?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008):

Ha.

I had a brace like that and still managed to give head :)

So dont worry (:

Its fine you can still do it.

:D

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (8 March 2008):

DoubleM agony auntForgive me, dear fellow advisors, but I really doubt that the braces would really be much more a problem than applying a bit more caution. All she needs to do is work him to erection by hand, licking or fondling, then let him insert for a few slow and careful test runs. Maybe a firmer, tighter wrap with the lips is in order to keep the applique from his skin. If he encounters any unpleasant sensations, the show is over. He will respond quickly, no doubt.

Yet based on experience, another solution exists for this girl if desired. Simply adapt to sucking the tip vigorously with little insertion (about an inch, or less than two), while stroking the shaft firmly with one or both hands. The hands simulate deeper insertion. It is actually quite a sensual way, since most of the sensitivity is located in the penile head anyway.

If bringing him all the way to climax, greatly increase suction on the tip while firmly stroking the full shaft length during his entire ejaculation. The release may be even just sucked from the very tip. This method is sometimes a great way for a man to experience a very sensual and different kind of oral release. His glans (tip) will likely be ultra-sensitive immediately afterward and for a few moments - just hold firm with the lips (with no movement), or move away and firmly wrap his tip motionless in the palm of one hand. Trust me, it's incredible if done well.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

thanks everyone this is the poster...

I figured I am just going to give it a miss to be on the safe side lol he ll just have to do with out for a couple of months! P.s I tried with a banana and it didnt even touch the brace but I still think better safe than sorry

xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

i just wanted to add, it's very sweet of you to be so concerned about pleasuring your boyfriend.........hope he appreciates it!!! (smile) xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

Having read Namatjira's answer, a thought has just occurred to be. If you can give a 'blow job' to one of those party balloons that kiddies' entertainers make giraffes out of without bursting it, you might be safe. Or rather, he might be. But personally, I wouldn't like you to test the theory on me!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

As a guy. NO!

Geez god, NO!

Maybe they improved in recent years but back in my day it would have been like sticking it in a cheese grater. My god we are already scared to death of your teeth!

It depends on exactly how many scary metal parts there are offcourse, my own from several decades ago *goes and mopes about old age for a while* had metal wire bits that could seriously cut up your tongue, so that is a NO NO.

On the other hand, if the metal and plastic is out of the way, then it is no problem, you will already be used to not using your teeth anyway.

Be carefull, don't let especially the head come into contact with any sharp bits. BE carefull, but I would hope that modern brazers are a lot better. Don't be overly concerned about it however, the penis goes through a lot of abuse in daily life. It is not like you are going to cut it off or anything, a nick HURTS but most guys will have caught it in a zipper before anyway. *eyes water*

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

Hi i am 'female anon' who answered earlier - i just looked at the other answers and i am sitting here chuckling away ....... it's just occurred to me that you might not actually get the chance because he may well forbid you (out of sheer terror of pain) to come anywhere near his 'tender nether regions' whilst you have what is actually, when we pare it right down, a piece of metal cosmetic dentistry equipment in your mouth. That would solve your dilemma for you! I would be SO tempted to ask the dentist, just to see his/her reaction if nothing else!! I bet they get asked all sorts. Take care & let us know how you get on if you have a minute sometime xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

it might effect his blow jobs and scar him or watever but then people get piercings and things which say it makes it feel better, so maybe the metal bits will make it better for him lol maybe hes the best person to ask

good luck anyhoww x

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A male reader, Namatjira United Kingdom +, writes (7 March 2008):

I think it would probably be best to not do it until the brace is removed as there is a risk of painful injury if you get too enthusiastic. However if you must then I would suggest at the very least using a condom on him. It will act as a lubricating protection, and if you use flavoured ones it should not be too unpleasant for you. Maybe take this time as an opportunity to try out gentle techniques, perhaps see how long you can keep him on the verge without going over, etc.

Whatever you do, take care, for both your sakes.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

I smiled at this too. If there's even the remotest chance that a piece of sharp (or even not-so-sharp) metal will come anywhere near his bell-end, I'd recommend abstaining from the activity until the thing comes off!

There's a danger you might literally scar him for life, and not just physically either. You could give him a real phobia about blowjobs that could cause him to break into a cold sweat at the mere thought of it for the rest of his life.

In the grand scheme of things, although you have three available there's only one orifice specifically designed to accept a penis, so I'd stick to that one for the time being if I were you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

I smiled when I read this............can you imagine asking the dentist!! I guess you probably could, you'd just need to be careful/change the technique slightly so bits of the braces don't scrape him or whatever ......... maybe you could practice on something (cucumber/peeled banana?) There is a technique where you kind of cover your front teeth teeth with your lips and do it, if you see what i mean, so your teeth are covered by your lips so the teeth don't catch on him and as the braces are on the teeth and roof of mouth, this might help - not sure really - would be interested to see what other people have to say. Good luck xx

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