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Will I have control on cocaine?

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Question - (10 September 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have always wanted to try having sex on cocaine and my boyfriend scored some and we'll be getting busy on coke this weekend. The thing is that I don't want to lose all control of my actions.

I smoke pot occasionally and it stimulates my sexual appeites. When I smoke with my boyfriend the sex is stratospheric. However, the sex we have is really good sober.

Even when I'm mega high I've always managed to keep a decently clear head and to remain in control of my actions. I think women are better at handling drugs than guys are.

I neither need nor want a list of health cons, I just want to know how much less control I would have on cocaine in comparison to marijuana. How much less control would I have on cocaine?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009):

Any amount is too much!! I take your a dope head anyway so nothing people say on here will stop you taking it. HEADLINE in the papers - 2 people found dead from overdose due to urge of trying cocaine for their sexual pleasures together.

Getting hooked on cocaine is like putting a gun to your head and slowly pulling the trigger. Does your life suck that much to do this?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009):

Why not stick to a glass or two of wine. Why do drugs have to come into sex. So many people are messed up by drugs. Leave them alone and get high on what the rest of us do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009):

Way less control than you ordinarily would. Every chance that you might 'sign up' for something that, with a clear head, you would deem a bit too extreme.

As with all drugs the variety of individual responses varies hugely, so you may find it enhances the sex hugely or makes it feel horrible, depending on several factors (who you're with, what you're doing with them etc.)

Could go either way. If you want people to say 'yes, you'll be totally in control and it will be wonderful', we can't give you that assurance. Emily's point about panic attacks and heart spasm can't be easily dismissed, I'm sure it happens.

If you have really good sex sober, why not stick to it?

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A male reader, softtouchmale2003 United States +, writes (10 September 2009):

softtouchmale2003 agony auntI would not recommend having sex on coke. Back in the late 70's and early 80's all it did was make people want to have sex and not be able to enjoy it.

Nowadays who knows what kind of crap is cut into the coke. Back then they stepped on it with formula sugars so you might have gotten the runs. Not pretty, huh? Today they put all sorts of stuff in the coke to cut it and it could have rat poison in it of all you know.

Frankly, drugs may seem fun for a bit, but I would not recommend sex on coke.

Otherwise, I don't recommend doing any street drugs but its your body and its your life.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (10 September 2009):

Well weed is not really cut too badly and it's not as strong as coke.

However, coke is cut with so much other crap that the stuff you have is probably 30% cocaine and 70% who the hell knows.

You don't know what the other stuff is and that can do anything to you from give you hallucinations, vomiting diarrhoea, or just kill you.

As for cocaine, it's a local anaesthetic, like what you would use in dentistry. Your brain will be numbed so you will be more likely to lose control, and obviously the sex will feel like nothing. It also messes up your heart beat so if you decide you aren't enjoying it and start to panic then you'll really be in trouble as your heart goes into spasm.

My advice is not to take it. I know you still will though and I doubt you'll listen to any of the advice on here telling you not to.

Say hi to the A and E staff though! Paramedics are lovely.

Good Luck!! xx

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